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Anybody ever try a 30 day challenge of some sort? If so, what was it and how did it turn out?

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April 9, 2011

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Title	Anybody ever try a 30 day challenge of some sort? If so, what was it and how did it turn out?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	5
Date	April 9, 2011 12:43 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

[–]Lead ModeratorThrowawayPUA 1 point2 points3 points 15 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I saw the StyleLife Challenge when it came out (2007 I guess) but I didn't take the exercises too seriously. I recall there was a set of mp3s with an audio course of this material, expanded with more discussion and more exercises. I remember listening to this when I went out jogging, but I went jogging more often than I did the exercises.

But yeah, there are loads of good exercises in there. It goes over the basics of how you present yourself, your voice, your grooming, your inner game, etc. I just looked through it again, Day 4 has a mission where you go approach women with a good sense of fashion and ask them where they would recommend shopping for men's clothes. Hey, I think I'll use that one as an opener, it should work even in day game, and I need some new clothes anyway.

Then there is Day 6, wow, this must have been more influential on me than I realized. There is a section "Practice the Crash and Burn Strategy." Here's a quote:

If, after reading this, you still have a crippling fear of social rejection, then go out and try to get rejected. Every accomplished social artist I know has a ton of rejections under his belt. That's simply the price you have to pay for excellence.
To quote Michael Jordan, "I've missed more than nine thousand shots in my career. I've lost almost three hundred games. Twenty-six times, I've been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed."
After a few rejections, you'll see that it's not so bad, that rejection really has nothing to do with who you are. It's more like somebody flicking you in the shoulder with a finger. You know it happened, but it doesn't hurt or really even bother you. It's actually just immature and embarrassing on their part.
I took a student out once and tried to get us rejected to help him past his fears. But a funny thing happened: My plan backfired, and I wasn't rejected at all.

Yeah, this was kind of how I started dealing with approaches, and I still think this is a primary point of inner game.

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