Since I started lurking this sub (maybe a year ago) I lost a lot of weight and got into the gym to the point of amateur bodybuilding and I go to the gym 2+hours 7 days a week now. My body is so different now that I hardly recognize myself. In school I have always done very well academically and that has continued. Socially I find myself going out way more, and being the life of the party way more often.

I noticed my friends (who don't know that I have been intentionally working on myself in this sense) are jaw-dropped when they see me talking to women with the level of comfort I have grown to. Today while I was in a line I noticed this cute girl in front of me check me out so I started casually talking to her a bit. I felt so comfortable talking to her that it was like I was not even thinking about it. When I left the line I noticed how different that was than the way I would have been 6 months ago.

When I got back I scrolled tinder a bit and arranged to meet three girls later in the week who I told ahead of time I was only interested in sex with. Another girl who was too far away for me to want to meet talked a bit and when we exchanged snapchats I sent her a shirtless picture of myself, she asked for a dick pic, and then responded with a video of her masterbating to it.

A year ago I had been rejected after being friend-zoned by the only girl I ever asked out. She isn't even very attractive, and today she got to see me show up to class in a tank top showing off my incredible body, and watched tons of girls way prettier than her check me out and talk to me. I don't really think of her much anymore, only when I see her in class, but it sure feels good to have come so far and watch her go nowhere.