Newfound confidence, how does this idea sound about breaking out of being friends? [17/M]

GlassJ0E · 2017-03-11T11:09:22+00:00

The only way to get out of the friend zone is to abandon the relationship as is. Don't give her any more of your energy. No more long conversations, favours, or courtesies. This does not mean you have to be a total jerk. Continue to be pleasant, but don't let it go beyond that. Cut off your casual interactions early.

Simultaneously invest your energy in other woman. She may realize what is happening and re-evaluate her position. She will only do this if you are truly moving on. If you fabricate your behaviour in a short term play to make her jelly, she will sniff it out.

Go get em'.

Woujo · 2017-03-11T14:42:23+00:00

I've been reading on seddit a lot, and have read that when you stop giving a shit about them, they start paying more attention again.

The whole point of "not giving a shit" means "actually not giving a shit." You still want this girl, so you actually still give a shit.

You should just move on completely and forget about her. Fuck other girls. In fact ... if she tries to get with you at the party, reject her. Sometimes a girl that's your "friend" will get jealous if she sees you with other girls and will try to cockblock you by pretending she will fuck you, and then when you lose the other girl then your "friend" will go back to being a friend. So if she tries to fuck you at the party, ignore her and maybe say "hey buddy, great to see you, call me if you want to hang out." If she's actually interested, she will call you.

killme6969 · 2017-03-11T09:06:09+00:00

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kalolilo · 2017-03-11T11:38:16+00:00

text her: "No, as potential lovers. I know you're into me a bit 😁"

Either she realizes that she is a bit or she laughs and you need to be a bit more persistent. Nothing to lose. :)

If she asks why you think she is into you, you can just say ahh, the way you look at me always, tells me 😉

You need to keep the frame of her being into you, also if she doesn't accept it yet. Keep it fun and playful. :)

Title	Newfound confidence, how does this idea sound about breaking out of being friends? [17/M]
Author	killme6969
Upvotes	5
Comments	27
Date	March 11, 2017 6:39 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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