I met a girl at work (restaurant industry) she’s beautiful. After introducing myself we hit it off and chat it up all night. I set up a date outside work the next time we saw each other. A secret hiking trail to the beach, she loves it. Make out session on the beach and after dinner. Second date drinks after work, same thing another make out session. Third date was last night I took her out with some of my friends and their girlfriends , everyone got along and the ladies all hit it off, so easy to pass her off to them to keep her occupied while I chilled with my homies.. I tried to take her home but she had to work so I walked her to the car then grabbed her lifted her up wrapped her legs me and kissed her like I fking meant it , I could easily tell she was into it. After that we said goodnight and both texted each other we made it home safe. Now we are caught up to the present. I’m going to try my best to close next time we meet up. My question is I’m really into this girl and I want to spend more time with her but I know the rules and I can’t try too hard or seem desperate for company. It’s normal that I’m the only one making plans, setting everything up? I feel like since I set up the last three dates if she really was into me she would be trying to do the same? Or is that just not how some people are no matter how much they are into you? We don’t text or talk very much outside of seeing each other, is that also normal or do you think the lack of communication shows a lack of interest. I used to use corny texts like “good morning beautiful I hope you have a great day” or “just thinking of you right now, how’s your shift going” I don’t do any of that with her though , do you think those are good or bad in general ? Regardless I’ll repost when I either close or get blue balled in the near future, wish me luck.