Am I wasting my time?

judahman8 · 2018-07-14T10:38:32+00:00

This is why I don't go on formal dates but you might be making it too obvious that you are inviting her back to have sex. Try inviting her to your place for a good reason and then disqualify yourself by saying something like "bit don't het any ideas I have to get up early tomorrow".

Game is all about getting her to chase you so if you are showing too much interest then she's naturally going to feel like she's in a position to make you wait as long as she wants. Taking her on dates and inviting her back to ur place is you clearly chasing her and that just isn't good.

I suggest you stop going on dates. Invite her and her friends to hang out with you and some friends. Do something mundane like going to the grocery store together. Then have her come back to your place to cook and eat as a thanks for her keeping you company. Do things that are just regular everyday life stuff.

Lastly, she might just be a certain type of girl that I stay away from. If she only wants a serious relationship and she wants to feel like you are committed to her before you sleep together then you have to decide if you are trying to be in a long term relationship with her. If not then you should definitely bail. You can still sleep with her if you want but I don't think it would be a nice thing to do.

Friend zone her and usr her as a pawn to get other girls. Basically tell her you aren't looking for the same thing and you would be better off as friends. She'll probably be all over you after that but be careful not to fuck with her emotions by being completely honest

temerity18 · 2018-07-14T10:29:28+00:00

You are very good looking so do not waste your time and mood on her. Seduce other ones.

tallrasputin · 2018-07-14T17:50:41+00:00

I had a great relationship after the girl made me wait a few weeks and we hung out non-stop. She said she would have preferred to wait longer but caved in for me. It wasn’t actual dates, just someone who lived nearby and could come over to hang out after work.

Title	Am I wasting my time?
Author	TTV-DontEvnTrip
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	July 14, 2018 9:44 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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