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Pickup-artist approaches 12 random girls in timesquare. FAIL.

painfulvids

March 11, 2015

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Title	Pickup-artist approaches 12 random girls in timesquare. FAIL.
Author	painfulvids
Upvotes	0
Comments	4
Date	March 11, 2015 4:09 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2youhr/pickupartist_approaches_12_random_girls_in/
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[–]jmatre 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]painfulvids[S] 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]Fentrix 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh my god, I thought this was a parody. They are going to love this on /r/TheBluePill.

hmm, advice. The first few ones you started off with complimenting their looks, this is pretty much not a good thing for an opener, it's okay to compliment the style of her clothes or even hair, but saying "you look beautiful" should be somewhat along the lines of when you would say "I want to fuck you."

You have a lot of pauses and ums in your speech. Even with my brain damage, I spit out stuff faster than that. If you can't get rid of the ums, draw your words out more and slow down. But don't make your voice so boring it could cock block a hypnotist.

"Uh, you remind me of someone, you look attractive." Pick something and go with it, don't change midopen.

Don't tell them how your actions are, leave it for them to interpret (i.e. drop the "this is going to seem random").

"You have this artsy hat. With the pink jacket, it looks artistic" OMG. Forget about /r/TheBluePill, more like /r/cringe. "I like that hat, are you an artist? Why not (or what do you work in)? Do you like art? What are your favorite artists? Yeah, I used to like him too."

I really am not into watching the rest of this.

All that said, this is daygame which is the hardest because people are busy. You should prescreen for people that don't look so busy. Don't bother with girls in a group, especially mother-daughter teams. People waiting for a train are obviously going to be pulled to get on it when it comes. A person engrossed in their phone is thinking about getting back to the person they are texting, who is almost certainly more interesting than you (unless you improve). A person working on their thesis might be busy (if they look like they are staring off to space bored, then that's different). New Yorkers are notoriously busy and many times you come across more like an annoying tourist instead of a guy looking for a date.

[–]Big_TX 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh nice that's so smart to do a video you will be able to get wayyy better feed back that way. It would have been smarter to say "hay here is a video 12 approache I got blown out every time. I'd love feedback"

A lot of beople arnt intrested in seeing s random video of a pickup arrest failing. And they have no idea it is you asking for feedback.

You need to put more life and energy into you conversation. And try having more fun. Or maybe if you can project chill layed back energy that would probably work too. Think Russell Brand Vs Matthuew McConahay They have opposite energies but boath have more vitality behind there words. (They are kind of the extreams, and "energy" can be more ways. Those were just examples)

You have to try movin you body and talking in a way that changes your energy before going out. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZYIeD-Fr9do That video may help, you have a some it is (weird haha) there is more to that consept I mentioned I don't think the vid is that great but it's the only one I know of. You have to move your body for t to work.

Also check out videos of people with good vibes/energy. Liek Russell brand videos or this RSD compalation video http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=pR8LTd-SfBs

That should help you get in the right headspace. If you get in the right headspace everything should work better. fentrix gave good advice too.

If ou repost it with a different title, many more people may help you.