I've noticed that everyone I know and probably you reading this can all relate to something in common: education and jobs. I love the seduction community but shit sometimes gets too metaphysical and psuedo-scientific, so I would like to convey some of my thoughts in terms of a topic everyone can relate to.

Professionalism, to me, is understanding boundaries and therefore I think it's a useful concept that can be extended to seduction and socializing in general.

We all know the goal of having inner game. To be outcome-independent, to "stay in the zone," yeah, all that stuff that you KNOW you can feel in your bones and blood if you have it because for Christ's sake you probably have some sort of passion in your life. Things start to get messed up when you start to think about things that you know should not matter but you're letting them matter anyway because you're still only halfway there, or simply because you're human and you feel like shit sometimes.

I think like this. I'm gonna be a fucking pro in a social interaction, a professional. This means that whatever personal beliefs, experiences and thoughts I know that do not contribute to my social life have no place in it. I like to think in abstractions, and this is an abstraction I think we can all feel in our bones. We know how to behave in a professional or academic environment where respect is due, where if you don't give it you're given the boot.

Being a social human being can be the most fulfilling job. Does the extent to which art, engineering, social sciences, etc. impact your everyday life not mean anything to you? You think that even this language you're using now, our words and sentences and meaning, came about without some bitch talking to another bitch on a human level? This is a community and a business on the most human level. This forum, field reports, every single word you say to a HB, etc. are products of this lucrative business.

You and I both know what happens if you're not professional on the field and let your negative thoughts and experiences guide your future. Wake up, seduction is nothing more than a skill-set you utilize to better your position in the company's hierarchy. Be a professional in the field, and you'll be promoted.