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Hence why most people who study PUA don't make it. You don't really know who you're idea women is. I mean you could find your perfect HB10 or HB9 and approach because the stars are align but what if she turns out to be a simple annoying bitch as soon as you start talking to her..? You're also limiting yourself only only certain women. HB8s and above are in high demand thus there is less of a chance. You can still have fun with HB6s and above. Approaching isn't just about going through the motion…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/17 05:26 PM
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Throwing some PUA techniques in your game doesn't hurt. PUA has evolve over the years. It went from throwing negs to self improvement and realizing you are enough. If you boil PUA down it all comes down to not giving a fuck and approaching. I would even describe TRP as PUA theory. Because really 99% of the guys here want some pussy. Lets take you hardcore PUA guy. He is on a 30 day challenge. mon-tues are light nights. He approaches at walmart and the mall. 2-5 approaches. Heavy nights are weds …
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 10:53 PM
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I think most of us fumble around when dealing with hot girls. We don't even get to first base much less having sex with them part. Here's a fix for that that doesn't involve drinking. First talk to a fat bitch whos not full of hate. You're not really gonna give a shit what the outcome is from a fat bitch . In fact Giving attention to a fat chick is gonna feel more like youre giving away your time to someone. As if youre doign her a favor. Now Remember to keep this mentality! notice your state of…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 05:11 PM
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I had this "PUA" guy tell us similar advice. Mother fucker was pretty alpha. It does helps is be naturally big. I am not talking about fat. More like strong man big. Anyways He would say "find a reason to get mad at her. It'll make you look very Alpha. For example I had this girl I was just fucking tell me that she had to drop off her nephew with her friend cause they are good friends. Anyways turns out this friend is an EX so I lite her ass up about lying to me. I would tell 'Don't ever lie to …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/17 03:54 PM
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You're probably right. But I still think being a touch guy will get you bitches regardless of your class status.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 04:46 PM
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I fucking hate going there but my friends love it. I think they love the rush or something.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:26 AM
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Dallas, its the 2009 places. There might be some truth to that but i honestly don't see a lot of quiet men getting a lot of pussy.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:25 AM
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I honestly don't see it as much another where else.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/17 02:23 AM
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Reminds me of the Mexican Clubs I sometimes go too. Let me explain. I live in a large city in Texas. Here we have these 4 huge night clubs that are the size of walmarts where a shit load of Mexicans go to. I've notice that the Mexican males that are more eager to fight, whoa re also louder and cause more drama tend to attract more bitches. And a lot of these girls are gorgeous. While the ones that seem more timid, act more feminine and are more quiet are usually without women. Thus you have an e…
/r/TheRedPill24/04/17 05:49 PM
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Its generalization. The problem with government is that it takes a one size fits all solution to problems. Some person went on a shooting rampage with a hand gun? BAN ALL SEMI WEAPONS! Some women use birth control for their cramps? MAKE BIRTH CONTROL FREE Some guy kidnapped a child from a park? Arrest parents who let their kids play outside by themselves for child negligence. Some idiot OD while on XYZ drugs? Make XYZ drugs illegal. Punishable up to 10 years in prison! The problem with AA is tha…
/r/MensRights04/04/17 09:36 PM
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I think crime on campuses happen less frequently in general. So in reality the rest of the rest of the population that experiences more crime would benefit a lot more from these types of classes. The fact that these people are going to a university means they are already in a privileged position compared to others. So they experience less crimes than the person whos working minimum wage. What about the people who can't afford shit and dont have time for an education? Fuck them right? If the gove…
/r/MensRights04/04/17 08:41 PM
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The school shouldn't offer more services to one group of people while offering less to another. Especially if its supported by tax payers. And why are they sherry picking a statistic? What services do they offer to men who are the bigger victims of homicide and violence?
/r/MensRights04/04/17 08:04 PM
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If its done by a university it should be available to everyone.
/r/MensRights04/04/17 07:49 PM
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WTF, men are victims of violence more. We would need it more. The type of men who go to universities don't have violent tendencies.
/r/MensRights04/04/17 05:24 PM
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I believe this. But 100 years ago our great great grandfathers also had large families simply because the high infant mortality rates. There was a video that explained this very well. The other thing it argued for was the when a country goes from 3rd world to 2nd world to 1st world birth rates also go down. Iam not supporting foreign aid. I think its a waste and there is massive corruption. but just saying.
/r/PussyPass31/03/17 11:45 PM
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This is an interesting discussion. I know if I were to talk about this at my office job all my black coworkers would probably chimp the fuck out and I would be immediately be fired. Its such a shame that such an interesting subject is considered soo taboo and whatnot. Anyways there are other reasons why Mexican American families are poor and less educated. Typically Mexicans int he US have larger families. Thus we have less money to go around, the kids are less educated and thus we end up poorer…
/r/PussyPass31/03/17 11:35 PM
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it comes down to how much you want it. I heard some guys say women are just warm holes we put our dicks in. Therefore they aren't really worth the trouble. But to me having the ability to pull and fuck a nice piece of ass is definitely worth it. If I for example never had the chance to fuck a hot piece of ass here and there during my whole life time I would be a little disappointed with my life. I would honestly feel like a loser. Also PUA forces you to be the best version of yourself. Because i…
/r/askTRP30/03/17 11:15 PM
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PUA is real but very few guys (5% I heard) who practice PUA actually make it. The reason for this is because you literary have to go out 4-5 times a week and approach on 5-20 girls per night. And maybe after a couple of years you might get better. But why take anyone's word for it? Try this shit yourself. For 30 days go out 4 times a week. Try and hit on 5-20 girls per night. And Also practice day game, IE if youre at walmart try and approach at least 1 or 5 girls. This might sound like a waste …
/r/askTRP30/03/17 05:38 PM
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Bro, I know guys on Theredpill well into their 40s (some even 50s) that are banging girsl in their 20 and 30s... I am also 35 and i have no problem hitting on younger girls. For you I would recommend a 30 day challenge. IE go out 30 days in a row and hit on 2-20 girls per night. You can take a day or 2 off per week. I know this sounds crazy/stupid. But you'll be surprise. Even if you suck eventually you'll find a girls who's looking for Mr Rightnow. The only 2 things to remember is Approach, and…
/r/askTRP29/03/17 04:17 PM
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fuck that stupid cunt. i wouldn't let that happened to me.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 04:05 PM
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I somtimes get so spiteful when a bitch harsh rejects me. IE she pushes me away from the face. Spites at me or tells me "Dont touch her!" referring to her friend. Which in turn makes me appreciate a lady giving me a light rejection. IE telling me a simple "no thanks" or "no thanks i have a boy friend/iam lesbian". "no thanks iam not interested" etc etc etc. But I drink sometimes which doesnt really help. Rejection can be hard. It can be super hard if you go to an uppity place and get rejected li…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/17 08:08 PM
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This is actually a pretty good idea. Would you recommend being able to do X amount of pull ups first or something?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/17 12:07 AM
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I am not saying I am for it but I think in the future most people will be mixed. The thing I do notice is that a lot of successful white people choose not to have families or have small families. I don't blame them. Life is just easier to be child free. Which contributes to them being more educated and wealthier. All while poor Mexicans in my area choose to have large families. Which contributes to them being less educated and more poorer. We need to just stop rewarding people for having kids. W…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 11:44 PM
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lol u guys are fucjing cunts!
/r/PussyPassDenied08/02/17 04:42 AM
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Yvette Felarca So they are going to charge her with terrorism or something right...? /s
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 06:11 PM
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Although i don't agree with everything he says I love hearing Milo. His quick wit and sharp tongue just shuts down every feminist he debates with. Honestly I think this anti fac idiots just made Milo more popular and made me admire him more. I'll look into buying his book. Hell why not. He's done a lot for us all. I also think its so crazy how we have a flamboyant gay dude fighting for our cause... lol. 30 years ago this would be so unheard of and so unacceptable. But now its not even an issue. …
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 05:51 PM
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Look at it this way. All those people who are having it easy in college are going to have a harder time in the real world.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 07:46 PM
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Was at a gay bar (but Iam straight). Started dancing with this girl. Her girl friend (i presume) got in my face then he shoved her hand in my face. She literally put her hand in my face and shoved it in. I was surprised and annoyed at this but not angry. Than Some short ugly fat ass white knighted and told me I should walk away. I wasn't even the aggressor. I am sorry but some men fuckign suck too. Stupid ass white knights.
/r/MensRights16/01/17 09:25 PM
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I've attended a couple of RSD seminarians which have helped me out a lto. What exactly do you disagree with their methods? The art of pickup has changed a lot. Its gone from Neging women to bringing them down to you to your level to realizing you are a person of value and that YOU ARE ENOUGH. Edit, forgot to add that PUA RSD beliefs are very similar to TRP beliefs in a lot of ways.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/16 08:50 PM
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For that u can easily hire someone
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 10:53 PM
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Its not worth trying to explain government waste to these pro big government zombies. They think the solution to everything is higher taxes and more government and voting democrat.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/14 04:27 PM
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Just imagine what alimony will be like. Shes going to be getting paid what she's use to getting. In my mind this chump deserves whats coming for him.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 08:27 PM
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Never thought of this one but than I remember Julian from RSD. He dresses and tries and look like he is young when he games.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 04:34 PM
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Hence WHy I am totally against welfare. Seems so unfair that a hard working decent guy has to support these stupid bad decision making sluts and their litter.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:16 PM
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As someone who has dated a couple of single moms I disagree. It took months before she let me hang out with her kid. She never brought the kid up in fact there were a lot of times where she left the kid to stay over with me. She was a good money but she was also a fair women who like having fun.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 08:13 PM
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I am being picky here but some people enjoy getting physically hurt. All that matters is consent.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 02:35 PM
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Call my shallow or whatever but I really don't mine fucking a crazy bitch then leaving. I also find their emotional roller-coaster entertaining. Speakign of which one of my Ex. One minute she would threaten to jump out of the car while we were on the highway causing me to swearv or whatever. A min later she would put my hand on her pussy for me to finger her... All ont he same trip...
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:33 PM
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I am more annoyed by people (and not just women) not watchign their bodyweight. Be as that it may be how other people choose to behave is non of our business provided they aren't harming others. In the end its better just to get your advised to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:34 PM
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I am disappointed in your brother. Nothing wrong with suggesting healthy alternatives. These fucking society threats people who suggest we should have healthier bodies the same as racist.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 05:33 PM
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is it...? I mean I guess I should start feeling that way...
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 10:47 PM
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Saw a successful guy do this. Just smile and look at whoever is talking as if youre paying attention. . Because After all... youre there to socialize and not there to talk more and get attention.. Its what I do now.
/r/seduction30/01/14 08:51 PM
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The other thing is that the older women get the pickier and bitcher they become. I actually prefer younger ones
/r/TheRedPill31/12/13 05:45 PM
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We are a community that takes women home to fuck them. So talking about what the definition of rape may be useful here. Having sex with someone does encompass the process of seduction. Seduction for some might be getting that one hot girl in a smooth James Bond way. For others it might be getting laid while not giving a fuck of what others think. The reason I go to gay bars is because I get the most results from there.
/r/seduction22/12/13 04:57 PM
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So I guess now I should start carry a field sobriety test device and a consent form lol. Atually I don't think a women can claim rape after having some drinks and agreeing to have sex with you. That sounds liek major BS.
/r/seduction22/12/13 04:55 PM
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First you should tell us yours or why youre ask. Anyways I think its great and very interestibg but it can also be very deep and complicated.
/r/seduction24/11/13 07:22 PM
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Turn this weakness into a strenght. Now you have an excuse to get close and talk to her ear. Now you can take her somewhere quieter. You can also go for fingering too. Seriously...
/r/seduction24/11/13 07:19 PM
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As an Introvert i feel the same way but you know what that means to me. That means I need to get better at groups and learn to get comfortable. If you're able to talk to groups/sets you'll be golden.
/r/seduction27/08/13 11:06 PM
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Watch a video by Julian from RSD title something like Pressure On Pressure Off. I had the same problem. Now I give girls breathing space instead of being all on them 100%. Always generally you want to start backing off after 5 mins into the interaction and let the girl contribute to the conversation. Its kinda like being a drug dealer. You first get your client HOOK on Drugs. Then you drop the dosage that way you dont OD your client.
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:02 AM
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Its hard for guys to start relationships with girls Its hard for girls to keep a guy.
/r/seduction25/08/13 11:40 PM
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I knew what video this was before I even opened it... Yeah the content is good. If you're a noob concentrate on the first part more.
/r/seduction24/08/13 10:42 PM
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You're still young. When I was your age (Iam 31 now) I use to take things very serious and was very gullible. I was in the military and I would let other guys physically push me aorund and take advantage of me. I was describe as being a pushover. And girls would say things about me to my other friends like "That guy is a weirdo...." this would get super pissed and make me feel like such a loser... The problem with me is that I took everything so serious and my ego was very fragile. Believe it or…
/r/seduction22/08/13 11:04 AM
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I have the same problem from time to time. If I am at a club and some other guy enters and he's having a lot of fun and stealing all the attention from the girls I am trying to game I immediately hate him. I just despised him. I call it "Automatic Negative Thoughts" because I don't even know him. WHat I've done before is become friends with them and guess what happened? It turns out they make cool friends and have a lot of similarities.I also leanred that they also get blown out by girls all the…
/r/seduction21/08/13 11:46 PM
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This is just looks. There is also personality, intelligence, social status as well.
/r/seduction21/08/13 10:59 PM
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HB 1 Very Ugly, very Obese, Old, very rough looking.. HB 2 Ugly Fat, Semi Old HB 3 Ugly, Fat but young (might be fuckable after a lot of drinking..) HB 4 Fat chick with average face (fat chicks wobble when they are on top... I call it going Hogging. EX "Hey man Lets go Hogging!") HB 5 Fat chick with semi Cute Face / Semi Ugly chick with average Body (I honestly have no problem fuckign a 5 if they offer it ) HB 6 thick Cute chick / Cute girl with average body but older / Girl with average healthy…
/r/seduction21/08/13 10:19 PM
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If you're out and you are experiencing a total bad mood you can go home or you can burn it to the ground and just keep trying. No one ever said pickup will be easy and it takes a lot of failing to get good.
/r/seduction18/08/13 11:43 PM
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If you are in a bad mood, never ever approach. Some might disagree but what happens is that you spiral down more and more with each rejection and you take things way more seriously. Either resupply your ego with positive reassurance or gtfo there.< I Disagree here. I've been in some super shitty moods from getting rejections after rejections throughout the whole night. And some of these rejections were super harsh. Bitches would say shit like "You're creeping me out! Get the fuck away from me". …
/r/seduction18/08/13 08:11 PM
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I agree but its way over priced.... Just look at this shit. 80 dollars....? http://www.amazon.com/Magic-Bullets-2nd-Edition-Savoy/dp/3941579347/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1376685235&sr=8-1&keywords=magic+bullets+pua That being said the book does have a lot of old school pua material.
/r/seduction16/08/13 08:35 PM
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Get over it. I got over that I am a Mexican American years ago and since than my self worth feels like it's gone up and is no longer a thing... Yeah Online game is hard. I tend to attack the fattiest for some reason. I guess Iam easy for them which isn't too far from the truth...
/r/seduction16/08/13 08:32 PM
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Like talk to her causal as if you're talking to an old friend. I wouldn't ask her for her opinion. That's seeking validation.
/r/seduction16/08/13 08:28 PM
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If you really want to meet her plan on meeting her when its slow and tell her exactly whats on your mind. Just be cool about it. "Hey I saw you the other night and I wanted to say Hi but my friends dragged me away... So I just happen to be in the area and I thought I stop by..." Don't say you were drunk. Say something like "Yeah that night was a lot of fun... LOL" The worst that can happen is her signaling her co-workers to come for a rescue if she feels uncomfortable. Try to leave with a number…
/r/seduction16/08/13 03:21 PM
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No its more like preferring apples to oranges. And I am Mexican and there are plenty of us yet I don't take offense if someone doesn't want to date Mexicans.
/r/seduction16/08/13 03:10 PM
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I am not sure why people are getting all butthurt about people having preferences.... I mean if you don't like dating fat black chicks does that make you into a racist fat hater? It doesn't right because there is nothing wrong with YOU having preferences. Its only a problem when SOMEONE ELSE has preferences of not to date your kind....
/r/seduction15/08/13 07:38 PM
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3 years ago I moved into a big city. The first time I went out I was intimidated and couldn't talk to anyone. I was just there standing in the corner of the bar lookign at my phone. Now I am getting makeouts and numbers on almost every night I go out. I get a lay about once a month. I could've had better results faster had I not been in a couple of Long Term Relationships and life getting in the way. Umm what you need is Massive action but take baby steps. No one is saying you need to go for mak…
/r/seduction13/08/13 05:29 PM
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couple of things I can think off. A) If in your world things are chill and comfortable people are going to want to be a part of your world instead of being in their awkward world. You become the place of tranquil and comfort for the girl in a chaotic environment like the club. B) Ok so lets say you are creeping all the girls out but you think everything is alright because you are out of touch with reality. If that was the case you would notice diminishing results every night you go out. Maybe yo…
/r/seduction11/08/13 12:09 AM
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Consider everything she does as an IOI. Unless shes completely ignoring you.
/r/seduction08/08/13 05:38 AM
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haha you got this from Mystery method?
/r/seduction08/08/13 05:22 AM
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Sounds like a badass night. I leave happy o n nights like those where I made connections and get a lot of attention. Even if I don't get laid. Imagine how much better you would have been if you had gone out 3-4 times for the past few months. Not that you were bad or anything.. Anyways the part where the friends grab your target away happens a shit load. I saw a video of Tyler in the same situation only he said something like "NO GO AWAY GET OUTTA HERE, I am a Sober and nice guy! I am talking to …
/r/seduction07/08/13 11:57 PM
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Take small steps to warm up to it. STart out with an easy approach, like for example ask an old man/women waiting at the bus stop a question, "Excuse me, where does this bus go too?". Or simply say "Hows it going" as you pass complete strangers on the street. I do this all the time on my morning jobs. The thing is that you are fucking capable of walking up to women and talking to him. You just THINK that you are not. Anyways a good phrase that ALEX from RSD said was "YOU ARE ENOUGH" and "There i…
/r/seduction07/08/13 05:55 PM
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lol there is surprisingly a lot of good stuff from back in the day
/r/seduction06/08/13 06:02 AM
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I've heard and read stories about young guys getting fucked up because they studied pickup too much at a really young age. This could happen because young guys take things too serious and are too analytical. Anyways I would field test and try different things out. Challenge it "I am 16. Is that going to be a problem...?" Give indirect answer. "Lets just say I am old enough..." But yeah there are also legal issues when dealing with minors... Personally I would just do things that you're scared of…
/r/seduction03/08/13 02:10 AM
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Its a total illusion because its not really real.... Let me ask you this, If you went out to the clubs and had an old homeless man with rotting teeth and old dirty cloths as your wing would he had value? Where as if you went out with a supermodel to the club would she add value? These are two extremes but di you get the picture. Also Value always comes first. These means if you tell a women a joke she might not laugh if your value is shit regardless if the joke is funny or not. You can gauge val…
/r/seduction02/08/13 04:11 AM
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These are my thoughts. Screw their situation or the set setup. Go in first and calibrate afterwards... Being overly considerate and polite doesn't get anyone laid.... You're just using logistics as an excuse on why you aren't approaching. We're all experts at coming up with excuses on this. Do it because you feel like it. For example when you're in state girls are a lot more receptive to being physically grabbed or when you dance/Grind behind them. I am not even trying to pickup them up. I am th…
/r/seduction31/07/13 08:01 PM
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Nice field report. Honestly, its nights like these that make it worht it. You get a lot of field experience and you get more used to the roller coaster emotional ride these chicks put us though. On a side note, I suck with asian women when I try and approach them or when I do too much Kino. But when they try to get my attention and I ignore them they become attracted to me. Last week I was makign out with a drunk wild korean HB7 but then she refused to give me her number when she left. I would s…
/r/seduction27/07/13 09:48 PM
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Sounds like you did pretty decent for a out of shape guy who doesn't go out a lot. You stayed positive, you had fun and you were social. You did your part and I would've been happy with these results. Another more important thing than loosing your weight is that you should go out AT LEAST 3 times a week. I go out 4 times a week and hit the malls 2 times a week on top of that. And yes my friends do think its weird that a 31 year old Latino guy like myself is approaching 18 year olds at the mall..…
/r/seduction27/07/13 02:42 PM
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I wish there was more info on how to be a Zapper. I mena i have an idea or whatever.
/r/seduction26/07/13 07:55 AM
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Go out and Approach at least 4 times a week. Throw yourself at the situation. You have to destroy your ego and your self image. Read Power of Now.
/r/seduction24/07/13 07:52 PM
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I brag but than I put myself down a little. Example: "Yeah I make video documentaries as a side hobby. We're doing one wild horses.... But we really don't make any money and its really not that good.. I do it mostly for fun...." And really there is nothing wrong with being cocky. Just dont good Full Cocky or Full Alpha For example one time I was sorta in the zone and I said some really dumb cocky shit: "Yeah I'd fuck her... I'd also fuck you're wife too and I'd also fuck you!!!" Everyone kinda l…
/r/seduction22/07/13 09:30 AM
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Mall Game: Try to approach 3-5 sets at the mall or even a grocery store. Warm up with sales associates/kiosk workers. Have long conversations with easy sets: I usually have a good semi long conversation with fat semi old sets. Like 2 fat black chicks for example. Mostly do this when I go alone. Simply Approach: Sometimes I have some unbelievably Shitty nights but then I approach the next set and Bang Instant Makeout or you find a chick that wants to go home with you right away.Even a conversatio…
/r/seduction21/07/13 08:53 PM
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LOL I get rejected like 20 times per night. Sometimes I get pushed away by girls and told to fuck off. In front other people. Approach Anxiety will be with you forever. It will ALWAYS come back and haunt you. I would definitely do something about your weight if you really do are about improving your chances with women...
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:42 PM
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As other users have mentioned its Because its in OUR program. Hundreds of thousands, if not millions of years of evolution though natural selection have made us this way. But now the rules have change and we most go beyond our program to get "ahead". AA will never go away. It will always come back and haunt you and make you feel shitty and inferior. The other day I got rejected from getting a new smart phone and plan from Sprint. I felt shitty because I really wanted that phone and their plan. B…
/r/seduction20/07/13 10:10 PM
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So true. My friend who doesnt kno shit about pickup always gives me shit about it. "you need to be yourself instead of doing that cheesy pickup stuff..." roll eyes... I put up with that because we get along well in other areas. But really i font give a shit. He isnt part of my plAns.
/r/seduction05/07/13 03:49 PM
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This happens to me 5 times a day at the mall. But you know what i still enjoy it and i feel 3 times more social, confident and energetic by the time i get to the bars/clubs.
/r/seduction05/07/13 03:42 PM
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We ve all had this experience or something similer x 1000. Yours is just more dramatic because you were on a train.
/r/seduction05/07/13 03:25 PM
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Here is a lot of random shit I did thats seduction related. I went Solo cause my usual friends dont like hanging out too late. Ran and did weights about 4 times this week. Felt good about it. Did a lot of reading. Also went to a Meditation/ Power of Now meet up. Really cool experience. Did some Mall Game on thurs, Fri and Sunday. I am still talking way too fast... I feel like Iam the one sellign something.. I still refuse to approach mom/daughter sets. Got mostly good responses but no numbers : …
/r/seduction25/06/13 03:44 AM
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Go to the mall and hit on at least 5 girls. You'll feel awesome afterwards and it'll radiate. Unless ofcourse you get reject those 5 times in a row than you will just feel like dog shit.
/r/seduction03/05/13 09:12 PM
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I had a friend who talked a lot and half the time he was kinda of annoying to listen too. But the thing is its better for people to remember you as beign annoying and social than to not remember you at all.
/r/seduction03/05/13 09:10 PM
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The Power of Now / A New Earth You can google and free download Power of Now for free in PDF form. Inner game is all about having a good time and being centered without being dependent on the external world.
/r/seduction18/04/13 04:54 AM
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Real Social Dynamics' Brad Branson | Becoming the Gorilla< I am not an ugly fucker or anything but I am always hesitant about taking advice from a tall pretty boy looking motherfucker.
/r/seduction18/04/13 04:48 AM
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Ever heard the phrase "clutching your pearls (necklance)"? These women are going though a little emotions. Little bit of fear or shock is going on. Women are like 3 times more emotional than men are. ANy emotion they display is better than boredom or annoyance.
/r/seduction18/04/13 04:45 AM
2

I do day game. Sayiing "You..!" (point at her) "stop.... You look really cute and I wanted to say hi..." "so whats your name..." try to do a little kino, if they are locking eyes with you this is good.
/r/seduction15/04/13 12:32 AM
1

Thank you all! really helpful!
/r/seduction14/04/13 06:08 AM
1

Interesting but actually I've taken a couple of speech classes in college and they didn't help. School doesn't help neither. They teach you grammar, spelling and shit but they don't teach you how to speak right or speak with confidence. I mean I am not a bad speaker. I am well enough to express my ideas and shit but I still fumble here and there. Especially with new people.
/r/seduction14/04/13 06:06 AM
1

Yep Defvinitly Thank you! I love free shit!
/r/seduction14/04/13 06:04 AM
1

lol reminds of the time when I read some seduction "advice" post about how its a good idea to stare at women when I was in college. After doing this for a couple of weeks to girls at campus I had a boyfriend confront me on why i been staring down her girl friend every time I walk past her down the hall. Advice totally backfired on me... You really should practice the stronger Potentially Creeper stuff at clubs and bars where you won't see the same people again and again. Seduction is risky but t…
/r/seduction19/02/13 11:52 PM
1

I guess there are pros and cons. ME and my wing very rarely step on each other's shoes but I often wonder if we are being too nice and too polite.
/r/seduction10/02/13 07:33 PM
24

I don't understand why you consider this a fuck up. That is a lame way of seeing things. Its like we should consider all our nights when we don't get laid because of X reason fuck ups... Which isn't true. Fucking christ you are learning and your happiness should come from the Process and not the Result. Don't get me wrong I do know how you feel. For myself last night I was fooling around and making out with this 22 year old hottie at a club. Then I left home around 1:30 AM because by buddy was t…
/r/seduction10/02/13 05:26 PM
0

do it. i use to video and audio record myself too. video in left breast pocket. just be sure u are in a target rich environment. very helpful.
/r/seduction06/02/13 10:31 PM
-17

I think you're takin it a little too serious. In truth some women like being used and violated. This is seduction and not christanity.
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:11 PM
7

other books ive found online find for free. "48 laws of power", "way of the superior man", and "power of now" . just google. anyways thanks!
/r/seduction05/02/13 08:01 PM
1

Yep I saw him too. Awesome seminar.
/r/seduction01/02/13 02:25 AM
1

I do wonder if Europe really doesn't have as many fat chicks. No offense to anyone but serious, America has a bunch of fat people of every race.
/r/seduction27/01/13 12:33 AM
6

I saw Owen Wilson AKA Tyler Durden 2 weeks ago on a free RSD tour in Dallas. I was in a room of 80 other PUAs (I use that term loosely) At first he sounded gay then he made fun of himself for sounding gay. Then I was thinking "Hmm maybe I need to start sounding gay to be able to pick up chicks..." Anyways it was amazing seeing this dude in real life. He talked about a lot of different topics that would take me hours to write out. And like all his speeches he came up with them on the spot. I've n…
/r/seduction25/01/13 12:51 AM
1

good list. ive read at least half of these. looks like i got nore to go. thx
/r/seduction21/01/13 09:01 PM
-5

"Actually you might be surprised. I can be quite charming."
/r/seduction03/01/13 02:44 PM
-1

-80 points, jesus fuckign christ...
/r/seduction01/01/13 06:23 AM
5

It is, works like 80% of the time. Surprisingly it works better on mix sets. Guys tend to act very friendly.
/r/seduction31/12/12 10:54 PM
-13

Its call a freudian slip, which isn't something all that rare.. When she mentioned her name it made me think of you know what.
/r/seduction31/12/12 10:53 PM
-2

It fits the buyer seller frame. I am the buyer and I am trying to select which is the 'better model' though sub communication speech. I do mention "you guys are ALL cute"
/r/seduction31/12/12 10:47 PM
-94

Another stupid shit story I wouldn't mind having is punching a little faggot like you in the face.
/r/seduction31/12/12 07:28 PM
-1

lol did it not smell? I suppose I wouldnt have cared neither.
/r/seduction31/12/12 05:56 PM
89

I've done some stupid shit: Girl "I am Virgina" Me "well nice you meet you Virgina. Your name reminds me of Vagina" Girl (looks at me in disbelief) "Walk away!" Me (trying to change subject) "I like the lights here... they are cool....?" Girl "Shush! Go away!" Open 2 set "Hey you guys look cute and I wanted to talk to you... Hmm trying to figure out which one of you is cutier...." Girls are actually VERY RECEPTIVE Can't think of what else to say. SelfEject Made out with drunk HB8 and shes all ov…
/r/seduction31/12/12 05:03 PM
0

I read this recently in a book or somewhere. Trying to remember where.
/r/seduction31/12/12 04:02 PM
5

You have to be able to take the heat in order to get real results. You're feelings aren't very common at all. In fact the reason 95% of us will not make it is because we feel too uncomfortable to go out and talk to people.. I have a buddy who goes out sarging the mall with me a few times a week. This motherfucker will go up to a group of 15 college age people and talk to them. "Hey you guys look like you're all together, are you from college or something?". The social pressure here is bone crush…
/r/seduction28/12/12 10:59 PM
-1

Iam sorry but who the hell are you to say what pickup entails? What makes you the authority? Was there a vote or something? The truth is that pickup is anything but dogmatic. There is no rule that says you have to be a polite and considerate mofo with women. In fact some PUAs advocate for you to be inconsiderate and unapologetic. The study of pickup cares very little about being a perfectly moral person. This isn't like a religion. And in fact some girls enjoy being used and thrown to the side l…
/r/seduction28/12/12 09:12 PM
0

I disagree, pickup is about using whatever works to get laid with a women. Provided its consensual...
/r/seduction28/12/12 07:51 PM
2

Just imagine you're at home walking around naked in your house. Its more about Being and less about Doing... Its about being totally comfortable and relax with your environment. As suppose to being nervous and insecure. Large Steps not baby steps
/r/seduction27/12/12 09:30 PM
1

Take improv comedy classes. Funny comes from having fun and not from trying to be funny.
/r/seduction27/12/12 06:02 PM
2

Don't ever go full retard err i mean full alpha
/r/seduction27/12/12 05:58 PM
2

When I was kinda new to the Game and experience a similar situation I would NEXT the shit out of them. Delete number, delete Facebook, throw way / burn everything that use to belong to her IE pictures, gifts, notes and such. I made it into a fucking ritual. They wouldn't exist to me anymore on the following day. Made me feel good. Yeah I was sometimes a bitter little fuck but HBs 8+s can rip your fucking heart out... What can give you pleasure can also give you pain. If youre going to Next them …
/r/seduction26/12/12 10:33 PM
1

there are no solid dogmatic rules in pickup. Basically you can hit on the same girl as many times as you want (but not too many where you become a stalker) Anyways I hope you're not trying any can opener material or crazy routines Also ive fucked girls that i did small talk to, went out of touch for like 4 months. came back, started dating, wtc
/r/seduction26/12/12 09:35 PM
2

I think the problem here is that you are changing state when you get K rejected. Here's what a PUA name Brad P from RSG does Goes for the Kiss > Rejected > "HAHA anyways blah blah blah" (doesn't change state > Goes for another kiss > Rejected > "LOL well anyways blah blah blah, blah" He's said its sometimes taken like 10 times for the make out to finally go though. I usually test the waters by doing an Eskimo kiss. If she's into it I go for a kiss.
/r/seduction20/12/12 07:06 PM
1

Meh you will always feel awkward. You will always feel like you're missing something. In the book the game Stylez went to Juggler because he felt like he was missing something. I feel the same way. I always think "Man if I watch this video or read that book!" or "if I take a boot camp or this or that!". The good thing is that you have a ton of time. I wouldn't get too much into the books because for a guy your age they fuck you up more than they help.
/r/seduction20/12/12 02:17 AM
4

I am a decade older than you and I use to have A LOT of insecurities when I was your age. In my opinion I think you take yourself too seriously. You actually give a fuck... I mean you cry and dwell on your flaws. ( I see nothing wrong with crying, in fact I've cried a few times this year over certain things) Man or more manly when they let out their emotions in my opinion. I think the solution here is self acceptance and turn this weakness into a strength. "Why yes, I know I am unique.." When so…
/r/seduction19/12/12 10:45 PM
1

I am not a noob or anything but I am confused. Sometimes I believe I come off as too sexually strong to women and they claim that I am some sort of a easy whore...lol
/r/seduction19/12/12 08:56 PM
1

You acquire this skill by getting used to drinking...Like anything else it requires some practice... and Actually its a very useful skill to have if you have a night life.. Being at the legal limit depends on the persons weight and gender. A 280 pound man can probably have 4 beers in an hour and be ok.
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:43 PM
0

No No No! I want to check my facebook if I am not "feeling it!" /s
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:19 PM
7

In a way I think its good to know where you fucked up. How else are you going to learn..? Just don't dwell on it.... These are call reference experience and these experiences calibrate you to become better and not say or do stupid shit next time... I have a lot of regrets/mistakes, everything from saying some stupid shit which prevented me from sleeping with a 9 even though she was already in bed with me to telling a girl that her name Virginia reminds me of the word vagina after I started talki…
/r/seduction18/12/12 10:15 PM
1

I don't think this should be such an issue. You should be flexible and adoptable. Your Social version of you should be a switch. At work I am mostly serious and logical. I do get to joke around with some employees and what not but its totally different from the bar.
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:47 PM
2

Yeah don't be a fucking pussy and just approach... The reason I said that is because it took me like 5 times of going to the mall with the intention of approaching before I actually approached... After my first approach I felt like I got a new mutant power.. lol... Also don't let rejection get to you. I don't care if you get rejected 5 times in a row and chicks tell you to fuck off or look at you like you're some sort of a deform freak who smells because it will happened Approach and don't give …
/r/seduction18/12/12 08:37 PM
0

Having the skills of a handyman. Being an expert in a certain field (IE computers, cars, science, medicine, music) Being physically fit enough to defend or fight in a physical attack. good hygiene A hobby or an interest. I've always thought being a man was about giving more to others than what you take. (thats me though) Able to have 3 drinks and still drive.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:54 PM
1

Fairly good book, a lot of 'old school' gaming tactics. It is better than mystery method's book. I have no idea but I did buy it.
/r/seduction18/12/12 07:42 PM
4

Friend Zone Level: 55
/r/seduction14/12/12 08:02 PM
-9

Just in case. If she stands you up and has an excuse be extra nice to her afterwards. Then suggest you should try another date a week later. Then you can stand that bitch up and give her the same excuse she gave you...
/r/seduction14/12/12 07:59 PM
-2

Just invite her out on "lunch outs". There is nothign wrong with asking a friend out for lunch... Hey want to have lunch together...? Eventually suggest more intimate dating stuff.. "hey lets have dinner.." "lets check out this bar..." "lets watch a movie together at your place.." I would keep the 'we are just friends' frame up to disarm her and make her think she can't have you.. lol
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:28 PM
0

you're so hellbent on wanting to refuse what I've said that you're ignoring it, you also don't seem to know what you are talking about, tbh< I get annoyed with people who think PC. not only is it hard and probably subjective to put a finger on the percentage of how much environment plays a part on things, it's also kind of useless. Why is it useless? because it would just be an average, and averages are useless, if not harmful when it comes to individuals. not every individual would have the sam…
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:20 PM
1

He is not androgyous. He is clearly showing a lot of feminine traits... IE he likes dressing like a girl, likes my little pony, likes dolls. He even says he identifies himself as a girl. What more proof do you need???? No earlier you said kids act malish or girlis after they hit puberty....So dont change you claims around... No, I brought forth evidence that disproves you completely wrong. There is a reason why little boys act like little boys and why little girls act like little girls...
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:10 PM
4

lol thats awesome. 'you smell nice' is totally sub communication for 'I wanna fuck you'.
/r/seduction13/12/12 03:07 AM
1

OK I want you to look at this video. You better look at it. Then you try back and tell me that little boys and girls are androgynous. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=psI1_U7vsl0 What you see here is a boy who acts more feminine and will probably be gay when he becomes an adult. When I was little I use to have a cousin who seem to prefer playing with dolls even though he had tons of action figure toys. That cousin is now gay,. So get it though you freakin head that girls and boys will be such from…
/r/seduction13/12/12 01:47 AM
6

explain more please. Can you give examples?
/r/seduction12/12/12 10:50 PM
1

How biological do you think I think biology influences gender behavior differences....?!?!? Just saying 'there are some biological differences' is meaningless....' What percentage? Does biology play 40% and environment play 60%? SOme of you people remind me of the fem nazis who demand women and men get equal pay. It begs the question. Why should men and women get equal pay? WHy would men and women perform the same? Should we arrest men and women at an euqla rate too? If you truly have been with …
/r/seduction12/12/12 10:28 PM
1

He doesn't need to understand and that has nothing to do with the arguement. Males are naturally more comfortable with machines while females would prefer dolls. Even at adult age. There are also always exceptions..IE I have a gay cousin who prefer to play with dolls when we were little... Get it though your PC head that the mind of a man and a women work differently.. IE males have ten times more testosterone than females...
/r/seduction12/12/12 10:23 PM
-2

Ohh ok, so we can reverse gender roles completely if we treat our children differently?
/r/seduction12/12/12 10:19 PM
1

Jesus fuckign christ... Are you kiddin me? So if we dress up boys like girls and girls like boys and treat them as such we can reverse the roles too? Fucking A dude you should work for the government and be a social engineer. They love people like you...
/r/seduction12/12/12 09:56 PM
-7

I did not state it didn't but the behavior differences in men and women is mostly biological. Girls will always prefer to play with dolls and boys will always prefer cars, and action figures.
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:30 PM
2

Studying material at your age might be too early and it might actually fuck with you more than help.. I say forget all the BS, take a weekend off and then go back in the game. The only things to remember are 1 Approach 2 Not give a fuck.
/r/seduction12/12/12 07:08 PM
4

.... yep you're right, men and women are in fact the same.. And behavior differences comes from environment and has nothing to do with biology.. /s
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:57 PM
8

SO true... Feelings dictate logic when it comes to women.. Non the less we must always assume attraction.
/r/seduction12/12/12 06:06 PM
0

lol so apparently my hundreds of approach experience don't mean anything.. But yeah takes for disagreeing and not stating why.
/r/seduction12/12/12 02:21 PM
1

Iam still working with this one. Heard it from SIN. But just be direct and honest from the very beginning. Plus you set the whole frame. I would only use this in night game. "I am really just out hitting on women to try and get into their/your panties"
/r/seduction11/12/12 08:59 PM
1

Picture their name tattooed on their forehead when looking at the,,
/r/seduction11/12/12 07:22 PM
-6

I've learn that European/English women don't like to shack hands, much less hug when you first meet them. Indian women definitely don't like to hug when you first meet them. Plus their marriage is a lot of times arranged so if their family sees you with her she might get into trouble. My white friend has told me that shes been told by middle eastern/ indian women that they aren't allowed to date outside their race or date white dudes... Asian girls are shyer than most. Not a good idea to give th…
/r/seduction11/12/12 06:03 PM
4

Being the life of the party is just a result of being cool, confident, friendly and having fun. or being a badass... Anyways I think your conditions are great conversation starts "Man I wish I could drink beer too..." "Ohh why cant you drink..?" "I have a tumor in my stomach.."
/r/seduction10/12/12 05:35 PM
2

I think I have the same problem sometimes. Sometimes I come of as a sexual hispanic who just wants to fuck lol. So I'd had to tone it down a little and be more humble and shit. I've learned to make it look more natural by kinoing everyone a little. I know that sounds weird but its ok to shake everyone's hand or whatever the fuck. Also I don't break state if I make someone uncomfortable. Like one time I grad a girls ass by accident. She said "well you can hug me as long as you don't grab my ass..…
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:48 AM
0

Dis-comfortableness will always be there. Its nature's way of making sure you can handle the heat. A beta male will surender and go home. An alpha male will act. He might fuck up but ohh well... Really though, you should be happy you feel discomfort. It means you're stepping out of your comfort zone. So the more discomfort you feel the more desensitize you become because you get use to it. Its like UFC fighters. The way they get rid of pain is by hitting themselves and fighting more. Eventually …
/r/seduction09/12/12 04:43 AM
-4

Just do the same thing you were doing before just dont makeout or have sex with them. If you makeout with them well just consider it good pratice.. not a hard question..
/r/seduction07/12/12 10:24 PM
2

Take an Comedy Improv class.
/r/seduction07/12/12 10:22 PM
1

Take it as a shit test. I might be wrong but what do u have to lose? Just pretend you don't care and don't know what shes talking about to play it safe. If shes not a really super nice girl you can try and be risky and give her shit back: "Well you have to be warm blooded to be able to feel chemistry..." her: "but I am warm blooded" you: (trying to hold your laughter...) or "ohhh.. Well I guess that means you don't have a heart beat neither...." her: 'F U!" You: (giggling) In my early game I use…
/r/seduction03/12/12 05:09 PM
0

Becoming friends with people for the sake of being friends will feel weird... Friends happen naturally. The friends I have are people who are walking similar paths as I am and generally think in the same ways. IE like me all my friends are in my early 30s, we are single and go out in the weekends, we aren't drunks but we enjoy 2-3 beers, we enjoy the company of women, we prefer smaller government and hate having to pay for another person's kids. We believe in fairness and don't like being taken …
/r/seduction03/12/12 04:48 PM
-1

If you want to get back at him you can say this.. "yeah no kiddin..lol iam such a awkard social creep who probably smells too..lol. hopefully someday I can be as cool and smooth as you..." I use this when people criticize me on what I drink too, budlight. "Ohh yes, I am drinking budlight, it is a shitty domistic beer lol, ohh youre drinking shiner? I guess next time Ill buy that that way I can be as cool as you..."
/r/seduction29/11/12 04:14 PM
1

I did this not out of choice. I was sick for 3 weeks. Let me tell you when you come back after 3 weeks of pretty much staying home i felt incredibly rusty. I felt overwhelmed when I went to a public place and was around hundreds of single people. This is when I got reminded that the game is not for the weak hearted, for those who get discouraged easy or for those who want something without working too hard for it. I always tell my friend, who sometimes likes to go home at 12 midnight, that the g…
/r/seduction28/11/12 04:48 PM
2

I am Hispanic and I use to have this problem but than I got over race a long time ago. Best thing to do is say fuck it then approach. That's almost all there is to pick up. Also you need to stop listening to your brain. Basically you have an inferiority complex and your ego is telling you not to go for it because you are not good enough for them. Blacks on the other hand tend to have the opposite problem. I have some white friends I go out with and they also hate going to uppity parts of towns c…
/r/seduction19/11/12 05:51 AM
2

More like, 'Why I don't give a flying fuk what other people think". But I think it has something to do with people hating you because they see you doing something they want to do but they are too chickenshit about it and don't want to admit it to themselves.
/r/seduction16/11/12 05:40 PM
3

I say watch Tyler Durden. Especially Blue Print decoded. Watch his videos and maybe try to imitate him. He is a master of being able to BS for hours and keeping people interested.
/r/seduction15/11/12 06:23 PM
2

I got conversation down. I might try workign on funny/playful. Tht really is one of the biggest tools to use.
/r/seduction15/11/12 06:18 PM
1

read book the Power of Now or A New Earth.
/r/seduction15/11/12 06:15 PM
2

can you link tylers video? Also tyler has been in the business and using video for some time now so he has more videos thus beter videos.
/r/seduction10/11/12 04:56 AM
1

no, its to avoid negative emotions. Breaking someone's feelings can be a lot more emotionally intense if you do it face to face than over a phone. And Why would you want to amplify the emotions that come from rejection? For example if someone got fired on the spot at work is more likely to act out as suppose to getting a call and being told that they had to let you go. same goes with breaking up with chicks.
/r/seduction10/11/12 04:54 AM
2

Call her and tell her over the phone. I've done this before. It'l hurt her but it'll be just for a little bit. Its much better to just get it over with then to have you and her suffer though a dysfunctional relationship. Caller her , talk about some other shit first, then say something like "Well to tell you the truth iam not interested in a relationship right now.. I got too many things going on and I am too busy..."
/r/seduction09/11/12 07:12 PM
4

Accept yourself for the way you are and just go with it. Sometimes the more you fight something the worst it becomes. Actually when I was newer to this I would also blush and act shy and shit. Girls would find that shit 'cute'. Now that I am don't have any nerve issues so I sometimes come of as a sleazy cocky car sales man when approaching women so I am going back to being more sincere. Say exactly whats going on.. "lol.. thats making me blush.. but thank you..." (just say 'thank you' for your d…
/r/seduction09/11/12 02:56 PM
3

Sometimes your mind is your own worst enemy. Your survival mind tells you "nah bro, lets just chill here, you don't need to be talking to those people...just chill youre fine now.." Or the Ego might come in and say, "Well rejection might happen so fuck those judgmental bitches..! youre too good for them anyways...!" Or you analytical/logical mind might tell you "Well shes on the phone, with that guy, shes busy ordering a drink or the stars are not align, lets not disturb her" So I would sya don'…
/r/seduction09/11/12 02:45 PM
2

Some I can think of: Sales Associate or assistant manager at a mall department store. You meet tons of people and you're required to greet costumers. They tend to hire more now because of the season. Only problem is shit pay and that they mostly hire young decent looking people. Maybe also a waiter or bartender. I have a side business but I depend more on my full time job for my source of income.
/r/seduction08/11/12 09:46 PM
3

LOL night I went to sleep feeling sorry for myself and listen to sad music because I had a crappy week. This guy is right. That shit is funny.
/r/seduction30/10/12 03:54 AM
1

lol A part of my brain wanted to criticize this opener as being too direct but I love it. Its like an ultimate hoop. I am going to try it out next time I only have like 15 mins at a club and see a number of single sets.
/r/seduction22/10/12 05:44 AM
2

You think those interactions with people are scripted? How would you act if conon showed up to your door to deliver pizza that fell on the dirt?
/r/seduction20/10/12 07:28 AM
2

definitely could be.
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:27 AM
10

Not being attractive to X race doesn't make you a racist. It's always better when girls are up front that way they dont wate your time.
/r/seduction05/10/12 04:38 PM
-13

Dont dress of like a girl or wear a feminine costume. Girls get turned off by gay ass shit. Even dressing like a cat might be gayish. I really wouldn't do any creepy shit that 95% of peoplewouldn't know who or what the fuck you are neither. Do something more manly IE a pirate, robin hood, Persian warrior, terrorist etc...
/r/seduction02/10/12 03:51 PM
1

Must be a pretty tough table to be able to hold 3+ people.
/r/seduction30/09/12 01:23 PM
1

This sounds like gold but Whats the minimum number of people u can play with?
/r/seduction27/09/12 07:01 PM
2

In gay friendly places girls, including lesbians are a lot more open. I get the most makeouts per night in gay friendly clubs and bars. With girls ofcourse.
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:22 PM
-2

Thats interesting. I've met a lot of lesbians but have never been able to fuck any. just gotten makeouts. But did any of these lesbians dress like guys?
/r/seduction27/09/12 03:21 PM
-4

Open a 3 set Open a 4 mix set Open a 10 set Open a girl of the street while your friend is driving test for attraction by throwing out hoops and compliance test break comfort by negging, cocky/funny (use this very seldom) eventually you want to reach sexual comfort IE making out and finguring.
/r/seduction26/09/12 09:43 PM
1

I am now an EDM fan.. Good shit http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G1qO2pxzHNE
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:17 AM
2

Don't hang out with him when you're with a girl. "why yes I have friends.. you'l' meet them when we get to know each other better" IE youll meet when I fuck you.
/r/seduction24/09/12 04:03 AM
-18

lol, sometimes redditors seem like such little pussies.
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:43 PM
-9

What did tigerwoods have better than Diana? A better driver :P
/r/seduction23/09/12 01:07 PM
2

read book, no more mr nice guy
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:23 PM
2

Don't think about it. Just go out and do it and adjust accordingly. Always check out new places and look for target rich areas. Look for day events IE music/art festival/events. Here's what my going out times look like Mon - Mall A 1 hr Tues - Singles Chuch meet up (every other week) or mall 2 hrs Weds - Swing dance (every other week) 2 hrs Thurs - Mall B, Bar Distric A (rocker, more laid back) 3-6 hrs Fri - Art Fest Event(or whatever event there is..), Bar Distric B (college crowd, more snobby,…
/r/seduction20/09/12 08:13 PM
42

lol someone needs to slap you for worrying about something thats so common..
/r/seduction20/09/12 01:25 AM
2

Cool Nice Guy approach - Approach, Smile, touch shoulders of 1 or 2 people. "You guys look really cool.. I had to stop by and say Hi..I am ******* " Extend hand. Nosy Dont give a shit asshole type - Walk in the group circle "HEY! I am curious! What are you guys talking about!?!?" The sad part is that you will probably end up self ejecting once they look at you all smiley and give you your full attention. But take little steps and don't try and master everything at once. IE concentrate on opening…
/r/seduction19/09/12 11:02 PM
1

The first approach usually semi gets me in state. But when gets me into God Mode is kissing/making out with an hb8 or higher. Me and my wing usually warm up by hittin on girls at the mall before we go out.
/r/seduction19/09/12 07:29 PM
2

Funny, i actually bought that bok like 2 weeks ago and havent read it. Now I am gonna dive into it when I get home. And to be honest i picked it up because guys like Tyler and Sinn talked about it. Kinda feel silly for doing the same things they do lol.
/r/seduction19/09/12 07:26 PM
2

Interesting, how is Eastern European style thinking different from us western style? I know Americans can often seem like they are full of themselves.
/r/seduction16/09/12 02:54 PM
1

I consider this a gray area. Clubs/Bars can be so chaotic and there is a lot of shit going on plus people are drinking. So of course you're going to step on your wing's toes. It's obvious that you have first picks if you opened a set but I think most people including me would say that you should not be allowed to Re Choose which girl you want if you find out your target has a boy friend later on down the road or whatever. That said your friend should also be thanking you for opening that set in …
/r/seduction14/09/12 10:45 PM
1

This is mostly true. Here's what happened to me one time. I was with a group in the VIP section. My logical thought process was to warm up by flirting/dancing with an HB6. Well I flirted and dance with her for like 20 mins. Afterwards I flirted with the other girls, who were hotter, but I was dog shit in their eyes. The moral of the story here is that you lose Value if a Hot girl sees you trying to game a HB6 or lower.
/r/seduction14/09/12 06:13 PM
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The one advise that is saving my manhood is the idea that you have to put some effort into this shit. It needs to be like a part time job but enjoyable. Years ago I was half assing it and going out 1 once or 2 twice a week at night. Now iam going out 4-7 times a week for both day and night game combined. Every weekend is such an adventure and such a challenge at the same time because you have to analysis yourself but still act cool.
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:56 AM
1

Your first mistake is that you're already assuming that an approach will go bad just because you're not feeling it. Also its better to be congruent and act tired and bored if you really are tired and bored. If you are tired but you act like youre the life of the party the girl will detect a misalignment. The difference between noobs and pros is that pros will game even when they don't feel like it. Noobs will bitch out and say 'ohh iam tired...'
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:43 AM
2

I've met a couple of narcissist. They were the best gamers because they were so full of themselves. They always talk about themselves and never ask anything about you. Mystery is a narcissist.
/r/seduction11/09/12 12:29 AM
0

You're whole date sounds like you were in comfort rapport state. What you have to do is Break Comfort Rapport every once in a while. You can try negging, doing cocky funny behavior, or sit back and be funny and tease and be less serious. Its like Girls like chocolate, but if you give them too much chocolate too fast they will start to hate chocolate. So its best to give them little chocolate and make them want for more. IE make them try a seduce you...
/r/seduction10/09/12 12:36 AM
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The reason most people don't do this is because they can't deal with these types of negative emotions. They are afraid of getting rejected or feeling social anxiety. They can't handle the social pressure. Normal people would much rather stay at home, watch their favorite show and eat their little microwave meal. Us on the other hand, we are able to take these kinda hits because we are social warriors. I know its a stupid analogy but analogies aren't perfect.
/r/seduction09/09/12 10:41 PM
3

lol you got amoged. you succumbed to his reality. Concentrate on one girl instead. be the picker. Pick the one thats furthest from the guy to make it easier. "Yeah... I guess I'll join him in a min," while looking at the girl. "anyways... (start talking to HB)" If guy starts talking to you again "ohh cool story bro.. well you have a good night." (contiue talking to hb) if he starts acting tough "are you drunk or something...?" (big smile) The same thing could've happen to any of us depending on …
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:50 AM
1

Interesting rejection. What you say is true but its also true that if there was enough attraction she would've forgotten what she likes and gone for you.
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:43 AM
3

Call me naive but I have never heard of a head injury where its a health hazzard for thinking too hard.
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:34 AM
0

Nothing wrong with taking a break. Hell I plan on going out camping, somewhere far away and be isolated for a couple of days. I am inviting only a few close buddies. Just know that the different between an amature and a pro is that amatures do waht they do only when they feel like it. A pro does what he does even when he doesn't feel like it. A pro will keep on trying and go to the next bar, even if he got rejected 10 times in a row, its 12:45am, he feels like shit, and has major bitch butterfli…
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:22 AM
1

It feels like to me that you are asking "when do I have permission to touch her in X way?". This is wrong thinking. Its better to overstep your verbal and kino boundaries as suppose to playing it safe. This is high risk high reward style gaming. This is also a good way of also finding limits and getting good fast. Just keep a postive chill calm vide and love your vibe. If a girl doesnt want to hug, than shake hands instead but keep the same vibe. This is called being respondsive but not reactive…
/r/seduction08/09/12 05:05 AM
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lol fuckign troll
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:44 AM
6

"I am curious what type of book are you looking for?"
/r/seduction08/09/12 04:30 AM
8

5 years ago on a drunk night out at a bar. i see 3 blonds setting on a bench next to eah other. I sat next to one blond, after a min of talking to her she leaves. I move over and started talking to 2nd blond. She leaves too... Started talking to 3rd and final blond and as you may have imagine she leaves too. My friends were laughing their asses off while I am still sitting their bewildered wondering where they all went.
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:51 AM
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LOl thats such beta/reactive thinking. If a girl calls youa creeper you say "so what is it you like about creepers?". But whatever keep ejecting at the first sign of trouble.
/r/seduction08/09/12 03:43 AM
1

Just find a bar strip that doesn't have a cover charge. Jut know that you might be fucked if you a girl wants to come home with you.
/r/seduction08/09/12 12:00 AM
2

Don't walk away. say some thing like "well then I would be touching you all over the place and you wouldnt know who it is.."
/r/seduction07/09/12 11:38 PM
1

I like the way TD talks. I also tend to judge people based on the content they say instead of judging that person with my feelings and emotions.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:35 PM
1

Pickup is a lot of things but it is not dogmatic. There are no rules get in stone and a lot of ideas do contradict each other.
/r/seduction07/09/12 08:11 PM
1

Well I missed it and I am glad I learned dont have to befriend her friends now stfu!
/r/seduction07/09/12 07:48 PM
2

There is no right or wrong answer. Both methods can work or not work. Pick up is full of a lot of contradicting ideas and they can all be good and bad. The point of my method is that you're not depending on 1 set to get a lay. Instead you build up a connection with mutliple sets and make each set want you more by walkign away and making them jealous from seeing you talk to other girls. This is more of a routine and it might not work for X type people or whatever.
/r/seduction06/09/12 02:17 AM
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I want to add 'You spend your whole time on 1 target'. Ever been to the bar, approach a group of girls and you end up staying with them for like 2 hours? You even get a make out and a number but it doesn't got anywhere. Solution to this is staying on a set for 25 mins then moving on to a different set and find other sets to connect with. Then afterwards you can go back to the set you connected with the most.
/r/seduction05/09/12 06:46 PM
12

Don't invite her anywhere and continue sarging and going out. Turn that frustration into sarging energy or workout energy. If she happens to call you say "well if you want to hang out I am going to X on Friday. You can join me or whatever".
/r/seduction05/09/12 08:09 AM
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I am too lazy to explain why repeating a small phrase helps getting your point across. Plus most of you idiots here are hardly worth my time.
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:55 AM
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If you're young and good looking you shouldn't have to do much to get laid. Try finding an 18 and over club/bar. Shake booty and guys will approach you. Just try not to go home with any guy... Be selective. Guys respect girls that are selective.
/r/seduction05/09/12 07:49 AM
1

So lets suppose you're walking inside a bar with your girlfriend. Some dude pushes you by accident and makes you fumble a step or two because he was running around excited and drunk. You wouldn't do anything?
/r/seduction05/09/12 03:34 AM
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I saw a pretty apha thing this weekend.This was at a semi crowded bar. Guy A was jumping around excited from a sports game and drinking. He accidently pushes Guy B without knowing. Guy B then pushes him back and holds his gaze (maddog look). Guy B was also being followed by 1 or 2 hot chicks. Guy B responded in an alpha way. Point here is that a beta guy would've rationalize why he got pushed and would have not done anything. "Well we are at a bar, everyone is close to each other, and people are…
/r/seduction04/09/12 10:53 PM
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"Yeah.. That's cool... I am just going to talk to your friend for 2 mins while you guys go dance..just 2 mins, 2 mins, 2 mins..." face target, shoulder grab her if you need to get her to face you. Continue conversation with HB. Make sure target is facing you. Where ever the girl faces, that's her reality. Next time I wouldn't even try to friend the guy a jealous guy. Has never worked for me. Let him friend you instead.
/r/seduction04/09/12 02:58 AM
1

If it works than its totally irrelevant. Also being 'creepy' is a very subjective term.
/r/seduction03/09/12 06:15 PM
1

My whole life, 30 plus.
/r/seduction01/09/12 09:58 PM
1

I am not trolling with those notes... Like I said I had a lot of shots and I also didn't realize. It was more of a subconscious movement. One waitress told me its ok that I hug her just as long as I don't grab her ass when i hug her when I do hug her. The thing you have to realize is that, its not really what you do, but the mind state you're in when you do such things. But grabbing ass is definilty still a no no. guys get punched for that shit lol. The verbals in my notes come from simple picku…
/r/seduction01/09/12 09:57 PM
1

There are a lot of variables but I have a theory that sometimes when a guy first starts gaming he is extremely shy inside, outcome dependent and seems so innocent. Girls sense this vulnerable state so they in return nurture by being positive receptive to such behavior. Also, while Iam sure you and your friend have a lot in common ultimately both of you guys are different people so there is no reason to that both of you will pick up this shit the same way. Maybe he's a funny guy? I know a lot of …
/r/seduction01/09/12 09:55 PM
2

You do the same thing even if you were 50 years old and fat. Act confident, have fun, be friendly and be outgoing.
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:52 AM
2

Buy a coke on a small glass and pretend its a mix drink... "iam just drinking jack and coke" or You can do what I sometimes do. I buy MGD 64s, they are super super light beers. I sometimes drink one beer sometimes I drink none. I notice i tend to grab girls ass when i do drink lol..
/r/seduction01/09/12 03:46 AM
0

I believe no fapping has almost nothing to do with confidence. When i really broke my AA i was fapping regularly. When I went out sarging day and night game while no fapping (only lasted 4 days..) I was still hesitate of harder sets. Anyways approaching someone shouldn't have anything to do if they are working, on their cell or reading some shit. Even if they are with their mother it shouldn't matter. In reality More Awkward equals less Awkward.
/r/seduction23/08/12 02:29 PM
2

Honestly sometimes I just go the fuck home if its not happening that night or whatever.
/r/seduction19/08/12 05:52 PM
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I tend to be attracted to girls that hit on me. but i guess iam just a slut sometimes.
/r/seduction19/08/12 05:45 PM
2

It happens, i mean we let shit out of our mouths that we did not intend because we're trying to be supper cool or whatever. When i first started out I was really cruel and I would neg a lot. But youre bettering yourself, iam sure youre not going to be that cruel again and thats what counts. basically you're gonna live with that guilt. i have guilts like that too. we all do. But guess what, the chick might not care and maybe she might like it ehh?
/r/seduction19/08/12 05:38 PM
2

It can help but in the end you dont really need a wing.
/r/seduction19/08/12 05:04 PM
12

Here's a couple. Have a computer/ipad or whatever with a paylist ready. Do your favorite songs. Do hiphop and rock or a combination. I sometimes even have country songs lined up. Depends on the type of ppls u have over. Display shit youre proud IE I have my honorable discharge from the Marines certificate. but dont make it too obvious and have liek 20 trophies in your living room. if you drink ALWAYS HAVE FUCKING DRINKS. buy your favorite shit. IE Beer, wine or liquor. cigs or whatever. Gives yo…
/r/seduction19/08/12 04:57 PM
2

Either go for a number or escalate with them.
/r/seduction19/08/12 04:50 PM
1

I've hosted before. just act cool and greet everyone.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:28 AM
4

We're all fuckin shy so stop being a faggot and approach.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:27 AM
10

I like it but you got the same problem I do. You self ejected.
/r/seduction17/08/12 04:25 AM
1

Social anxiety is just fear. It'll go away over the years. Maybe by the time you're 30 you will had realize that there was nothing to be afraid of. But sure, go ahead and keep playing it safe and stay in your comfort zone. Also you can try going to the mall and do cold approaches there with chicks you don't know if you feel you need practice, which you probably do.
/r/seduction14/08/12 03:52 PM
1

I think if we all had a nickle for every girl we wish we'd approach we would all be rich. Your situation isn't different from other people's situation.
/r/seduction13/08/12 12:01 AM
1

Bros before hoes sounds like some stupid gay shit to me.
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:55 PM
2

My summarization is different. For example if you're confident your body language will follow. Also its worst to have a confident body language and not be confident because you will be in-congruent. The girl will sense a misalignment in you and will be turned off.
/r/seduction12/08/12 11:53 PM
1

LOL sorry but i think this is funny. Somethign similar happened to me: I was dancing with this HB7. I was grinding all up on her ass. She was looking at me all smiling and shit. I threw a stupid neg for some stupid reason. 2 mins later this dude is dancing in front of her while I was behind her. Then they are making out... I tried to turn her around but she ignored me... this bitch was primed. She was horny. I could've fingered her or taken her to the parking lot and bend her over a car and fuck…
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:24 PM
1

Uh huh, I guess that means no more wrestling with the one eyed demon for me... So how long were you not flapping before you approach this set..?
/r/seduction12/08/12 09:04 PM
2

usually when i go to bars by myself Ill make like 10-20 apporaches and get rejected thoughout. Later on the night I will end up having chicks opening me up. not the best looking girls but meh better than nothing... Then Ill end up sitting at their table with a group of people. But thoughout the whole night I didn't care about being a part of the group. I was in my own world the entire time. What I am trying to say is that you shouldn't care about being involve in the first place. Also you become…
/r/seduction12/08/12 08:21 PM
1

I'd say practice your gaming at the mall first. Approach women there first. Do 3- 5 approaches. FORCE YOURSELF. U're whole body will say NO but you will be happy you did it. This is critical "Excuse me... Do you know where the restroom is at..? Actually I thought you were cute and so i wanted to talk to you.." At campus Approach girls during lunch or whatever. "Hey, do you know where the science building is..? hmmp.. I am like new here and this place is so confusing... So what about you? Did you…
/r/seduction12/08/12 07:37 PM
3

A friend told me that his chick friend who he went to vegas with wanted to hook up while they were there. He told her "just go up to a guy start a conversation and throw a compliment " So she did, later that night when he was getting back to the apartment he open the door only to see her butt naked with another guy getting porked in the bed.
/r/seduction11/08/12 05:58 PM
1

Curious, was her guy friend better looking? I am not a bad looking guy myself but if I see a chick with a broad shoulder tall ass GQ male model looking motherfucker whos 7 years younger I usually don't even try. Limited belief maybe but I am also realistic.
/r/seduction01/08/12 02:31 PM
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Another 1 I heard is you give each other 200 Dollars. the only way to get that money back is by approaching.. IE you get 20 dollars back per every approach.
/r/seduction31/07/12 12:47 AM
3

"And the same goes for homies, dudes, comrades or whatever gay shit niggers be calling each other now a days.. Sounds like some gay shit to me.." lol
/r/seduction30/07/12 03:55 AM
1

Stop being such a nice guy. You're only hurting yourself. You're actions should be dictated on what YOU WANT to do and not on what other people might or might not want you to do.
/r/seduction26/07/12 08:52 PM
2

Approach, Approach approach... Thats what I did during my vacation.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:52 PM
1

Skinny, young looking, shaped tone body and beautiful does it more me. I am done with chubby/fat chicks. Unless its a really cute chubby chick and its a one night stand lol.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:47 PM
9

Here's some philosophy. Half of loaf for bread is better than none at all. In this case you got a taste. So save that memory as a happy moment rather than a lost.
/r/seduction26/07/12 07:45 PM
1

"Hello, I know just about everyone here but I don't think I've met you before, my name is X" (extend hand) "so how do you like it here, blah blah blah Or just say "hello, how are you doing." Check for IOIs or IODs. If they look like they want to leave or look at you like you're the 100th person who's hit on her its a no go. Sometimes they will flash their wedding ring. But at least you tried.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:20 PM
2

Thats definitly interesting. It sounds like they are more openly friendly.
/r/seduction26/07/12 04:12 PM
2

If this continues to get worse and worse be upfront about this and give her an ultimatum. "I don't like that your ex boyfriend is brign up drama shit every time we're together...I feel upset and I was ready to leave. I guess what I am trying to say is that you have to pick between Me or Him..." The sad thing is that girls sometimes feed off of other guys getting emotional or are attracted to guys being 'hurt'.
/r/seduction23/07/12 05:28 PM
1

If shes into you and this is a night life/drinking environment, Go to their group, carry her away from them. Stay cool and friendly. It'll be funny, daring and masculent. I've done this before. If you get confronted by her chick friend or even a guy friend say that "Well I am just having a good time.. Let me get to know your friend for a little bit and then I'll bring her back to you.. I promise... Dont worry Ill take care of her.." with a smile. And try not to finger pussy fuck her or take adva…
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:59 PM
1

I heard something called "acting cool and friendly" by tyler Duden. Its basically talking to girls and being cool and friendly and building attraction without doing ANY kino. In a way it will make you more irresistible if you can pull it off.
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:48 PM
0

explain please. i honestly see little to no difference. And I honestly feel like jacking off more after I come home from sarging whether its at the grocery store or from the bars.
/r/seduction23/07/12 04:25 PM
1

You probably are but here's my logic. A girl might be doing X IE talkignt o her friend on the phone, buyign shit, texting, listenign to music, ro whatever the hell. Here;s the thing. She can do these things any time she wished IE tomorrow or an hour later but she will never have the chance to talk to you again..
/r/seduction23/07/12 03:55 PM
2

I was thinking today how vulnerable a guy is during the pre & early stages of a relationship because not enough time has pass for a girl to build enough attraction towards the guy. So yeah you're vulnerable especially since you might not have enough dating experience. Basically the relationship is in her hands. She will decide if she likes you or not based on what her feelings tell her. I would definitely set something else up. Maybe later in the evening at a area where you can venue bounce a li…
/r/seduction22/07/12 07:57 PM
2

LOL, when I got out of the military I use to go to sleep at 6AM because I was playing WOW all the fucking time. Did this for a couple of months. I would sleep, shit, shower, eat only when I really needed it or had to. Going out is the best advice I can give you. And to be honest I also have a hard time making new friends.
/r/seduction22/07/12 02:35 PM
4

You're getting into morals here. Personally I don't see anything wrong with casual sex. Sometimes girls have guy friends who care about their feelings and who are always there for them. These friends never get any.
/r/seduction19/07/12 09:36 PM
6

Read "No more My nice guy". Being a nice guy myself it really has helped me out a lot. Its not so much that assholes are getting further. Its more like people-who-say-whats-on-their-mind-and-dont-care-about-hurting-other-people's-feelings get further. It does sound like you play it safe and you agree with everyone for the sake of being an agreeing person. Girl: "Ohh you're such a nice little boy..." (taps you on the head). Madafucking a caveman chieftain pack leader doesn't get there by being ni…
/r/seduction19/07/12 07:56 PM
1

Your goal at some point should be to have multiple numbers to call/text that way you aren't just concentrating and being emotionally attached to that one number... I've been there.. When you are really want that one person to text you back and you're waiting by your phone anxiously waiting for a text from that person that is usually when you won't get a reply or it'll be a fake. What you want is for her to be the one anxiously waiting for your text her and for her to get all excited when you do …
/r/seduction19/07/12 04:46 PM
1

You don't but others may need that knowledge. You're right, some of it is gibberish as I did mention a lot of it is confusing. What other studies help us understand communication structure for the layman besides NLP? Thats what its useful for. I don't see anything wrong with understanding the basics of it.
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:59 PM
1

I found the BluePrint very resourceful and made me made me change the way I think in a lot of ways.
/r/seduction18/07/12 03:48 PM
2

Happened to me today after approaching a Mormon chick. Girl raises hand to show wedding band. (here's a little subtle hint to let you know that the answer is NO) "I am waiting for my husband" (ok u weren't smart enough to catch that so let me mention that I have a husband and look away to see if he's coming so he can rescue me from your creepy ass)
/r/seduction17/07/12 11:02 PM
1

Sounds like you were in the zone.
/r/seduction17/07/12 10:54 PM
3

Really awesome! My favorite is the "How can I possibly talk to that cute girl?" "How can I possibly pass up this opportunity to talk to that cute girl?" Anyways I would also add a abundance mindset vs a scarcity one. "this shit is a cock fest"/"there are too few girls here.." instead "There are so many beautiful girls.
/r/seduction17/07/12 10:46 PM
1

Part of it is yes. NLP is to me doing what it takes to get the other person to do what you want him/her to do by observing their behavior and adjusting yours.
/r/seduction17/07/12 10:20 PM
5

There are useful things to learn from it but I wouldn't call it a Gold mine or the answer to everything. A lot of times I found it to be confusing but interesting at the same time which I thought maybe that's what i teaches you to be? Here's an example of how I would use NLP. Suppose you are having a conversation about NLP and the other person thought NLP was stupid but you disagreed with him. A good reply would be: "I know you find the subject of NLP useless and stupid but I have learned a lot …
/r/seduction17/07/12 03:00 PM
1

I am currently spending about 6 days in Salt Lake. I've talk to a ton of people but I still get the bitch butterflys. I seriously need to learn to stop giving a shit.
/r/seduction17/07/12 02:53 PM
3

When someone gives you a compliment just respond with "Thank you" or "thanks" If you don't have anything to say than say "Wow thank you, I am speechless right now lol..."
/r/seduction15/07/12 06:57 AM
1

I wouldn't be surprised if she flakes personally. Girls are driven by pure feelings which is where they get their rationality from. Don't worry if she flakes or not because her flakyness depends on what chemicals are running in her mind and like 1.274835 X109 other factures. I would ask other girls out on dates and go do your own shit.
/r/seduction11/07/12 05:00 PM
1

Ugh, use this as an oppunity to hit on other girls when you go out lol. "well you said it was ok...", "that routine obviously didnt work.."
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:55 PM
1

Funny, in my younger years I couldn't bust a nut no matter how hard I tired. Then after getting into seduction I have to pace myself else Ill bust a but too fast lol. Masterbation has nothing to do with it. I masterbate the same as 10 years ago.
/r/seduction11/07/12 03:26 PM
2

I wouldn't but thats me. I would instead whisper to her, 'BTW this is going to cost you..'
/r/seduction10/07/12 06:32 PM
-1

I've spoken positive about his bang books a couple of times. They've help me out as well. I am looking into applying his Day bang method. Looks promissing. I never use throwaway accounts and I could give 2 shits if people don't like my opinions.
/r/seduction10/07/12 05:09 PM
5

Its not a bad idea but you need to find some cool gay guys.. Which goes for any type of group you hang out with...
/r/seduction09/07/12 07:17 PM
1

"A girl will forgive you for escalating too fast, but not for going too slow" and "Don't hypothesize about her feelings - go out there and collect the data!". This sounds right but I am having trouble believing it.. I've been with girls that took 30 days to work their panties off. Can someone explain this?
/r/seduction08/07/12 08:37 PM
1

You don't need to read too many... Too much info will end up confusing you more and a lot of it, you'll end up forgetting... the books listed here are all good. In fact I am going to take a look at •Noah St. John's The Secret Code of Success •The $1 Million Reason To Change
/r/seduction08/07/12 08:33 PM
1

That is true, a lot of info overlaps. You hear the same stuff but in different forms.
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:21 PM
-1

Don't do... BE
/r/seduction05/07/12 08:26 PM
1

Interesting question. I myself switch. If its a shy girl I am dealing with I talk more and smile more and talk about myself more and BS and ask less personal questions. If the girl is a talker I either listen more, which is cool because I don't mind them talking or it becomes a 2 way.
/r/seduction05/07/12 06:57 PM
1

ignore him!
/r/seduction04/07/12 04:26 PM
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Dude I am not a bad looking guy myself and girls tell me I look good or whatever every so often but thats just another big IOI. It doesn't necessarily mean that she wants to have sex with you. In fact I would almost take it as a shit test... What do you tell an old firned that you haven't seen in a while? "Hey you look good". Ok big deal. I would've chatted her up more and said something that lead to her giving you her phone number. 'Blah blah blah we should catch up sometimes... do you have a f…
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:05 PM
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First of all i think its cool that you do this. Can you please tell us how it goes and what methods do you us? I personally wouldn't do this on a daily bases. More 2 times a week MAX and i would also try and find other places. Also be friendly with the staff there. When people know you that equals social value.
/r/seduction02/07/12 07:29 PM
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Good Point check stuff for Noobs and experienced guys.
/r/seduction28/06/12 09:29 PM
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I need to do this. I mostly go out on the weekends with friends about 1-2 times a week and to be frank they slow me down because all they do is sit on the side lines all night. I am also at a stage where i can shoot the shit with most girls.
/r/seduction27/06/12 02:17 PM
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Don't improve your style, health or whatever to impress others. Improve because you like dressing nice and looking good etc etc. Your average looks/money shouldn't even be an issue. I would seriously recommend you watch some Tyler Durden videos. They have made me see the world differently. Particullay the Blue Code Decoded, Foundations and Transformation.
/r/seduction26/06/12 09:26 PM
2

My online game sucks, and I paid 70 bucks for match.com which i haven't gotten that many results. I'll admit I've been lazy latey. I am definitly trying these tonight. So what do you put on your profile body?
/r/seduction26/06/12 08:11 PM
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Definitly a great place. I'd say run the same game. Use the rides/games topics as a conversation starter. I woudn't want to try and hang out with them there. That to me is weird. I say ask for a number or invite her for drinks afterwards and let her know she can bring friends or whatever.
/r/seduction26/06/12 07:41 PM
1

Be happy with yourself. Your happiness shouldn't depend on how other people treat you. try laying on the grass and look at a sky and doing some self reflecting and realize that you accept and are happy with just the way you are. People will accept you when you accept yourself. Society has conditioned us to be outcome dependent though materialism, music, media and other shit.
/r/seduction26/06/12 06:15 PM
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I was in a similar situation where I was Tom.. This was a long time ago. You'll probably lose your friend, at least for a good while. But logically speaking why would Tom deserve Jill more than you? if you gusy like each other go for it.
/r/seduction26/06/12 04:51 PM
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2 steps forward, 1 step back.
/r/seduction26/06/12 02:50 PM
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Thats seriously fucked up. I would at least call him out on it.
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:14 PM
1

Thats definitly an enemy too
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:06 PM
2

just text back "something"
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:57 AM
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How old are you? Would you say you sound confident, friendly and are you having fun when you approach? I would say go to a bar and drink 1 or 2 beers. beer is a social lubricant. God place to pratice.
/r/seduction26/06/12 01:33 AM
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My wingman told me 'your enemy is not getting rejected in 5 mins, your enemy is talking to a girl for 30 mins then getting rejected'. Anyways if the girl seems like she might be into you a little (IE she smiles, gives longer than Yes or No respondes) and if the conversation last at least 5 mins with an exchange of info (IE names, where from) it wouldn't hurt to try and number close. That part where the douched hugged her is a tough one. 90% of guys would've done what you did. best thing to do is…
/r/seduction25/06/12 09:37 PM
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Dallas, TX 30
/r/seduction25/06/12 08:06 PM
1

You got a the Bitch Butterflys. It happens to all of us. It use to happen to me a lot, especally when I soloed. Didn't matter if I was dating or not. Sometimes we hypnotize ourselves into a negetive state and as the night goes on it gets worst and worst. I describe it as feeling superconcious or it feels like you're sutck inside your head. If you find yourself playing with the paper on your beer bottle, pretending like you're looking at your phone, people watching, wall flowering or micromanging…
/r/seduction25/06/12 06:36 PM
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You think that way because its not socially normal or socially acceptable in our society. It also sounds like you're also makign excuses on why you wouldn't want to try it. its creepy IMHO You might think its creepy but in the end he ends up fucking many of these girls.
/r/seduction25/06/12 05:16 PM
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I disagree. The guys are showing videos of them makign out with chicks and getting numbers. That to me is proof that it works. I've also tried it myself. Other MPUAs don't always make videos or do it very little. I don't think they make fun of other PUAs that much. They might try and use a mystery opener in a stupid way but thats just an act and to show that you can open with almost anything just as long as you have the main ingredients IE confident/funny. Just to let you know I've also been stu…
/r/seduction25/06/12 05:10 PM
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And how do you get those skills? By trying perhaps...? This is what Iam getting at...
/r/seduction25/06/12 03:31 PM
1

You're right but I knew this before hand. The truth is most of us learn the shit we knw from someone else unless you figured out the shit you know by yourself...
/r/seduction25/06/12 01:00 PM
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I probably don't understand your questions 100% or maybe we have different types of thought processes but I want to still try and respond to them. My question to you all is this: how do you deal with the ego and genuine, real interaction? How do you seperate your unconscious desire to think you're better than others (i.e ego) when in reality, again in my opinion, you are just as "good" as everyone else (when I say everyone I mean every respective sense of self)?< I myself don't choose to be conc…
/r/seduction25/06/12 12:43 AM
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I am a guy and I don't think it would work because... You care too much about the outcome. i would kill myself if she said no... Your happiness and confidence should come from you and not from other girls. You have a scarcity mindset. "type of attraction that is rare" She really is just another girl... It shouldn't matter even if you were 45 years old 5'0 and chubby. It shouldn't matter if she was riding a bike or jogging. If she's too busy she will tell you and that's not a big deal. Picking up…
/r/seduction24/06/12 09:51 PM
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I do both day and night game and have gotten into it recently so I am talking about both. I agree with you it being a hail mary but you also need to take risk to get anywhere. high reward equal high risk. It's something I am still thinking about. The 5 min kiss might be considered more socially acceptable in bars and clubs but I always say Fuck whats considered socially acceptable! The idea of 5 min kiss I got form simple pickup http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bNePlJpiiGI&feature=plcp
/r/seduction24/06/12 09:41 PM
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Persistence can also mean talking to different girls even after getting rejected.
/r/seduction24/06/12 06:00 PM
4

I would replace the word Fashion with Style.
/r/seduction24/06/12 05:59 PM
3

I don't think there is anything wrong with doing that. If worse comes to worse just concentrate on your job.
/r/seduction22/06/12 06:10 PM
1

I don't think i sweat a lot, instead what happens to me I end up saying stupid shit or stutter when I get nervous but what of it? No one is perfect. I would say not to give a fuck about it. If someone says something say "ohh yeah i am sweating, must be hot in here" or "ohh yeah I stutter, must be the beer" or whatever. I don't think you're going to be able to control you body but the issue you're having becomes an issue when you make it one.
/r/seduction21/06/12 07:55 PM
2

darn it, now I am going to have to get that book too lol.
/r/seduction21/06/12 06:51 PM
1

It depends on the situation. Human communication is complicated so there is no solid Yes or No answer. I also find it very interesting. Its ok to shut up and activiely listen but its better to be the talker. But its worst to say stupid shit and look like someone who just wants attention. Here's an example of how good talk benefits you. when I use to take philosophy 101 at my local community college I use to dominate the whole class with my class participation dicussion talk because I love that s…
/r/seduction21/06/12 05:34 PM
1

I've read 1 book on the subject and learned a couple of useful tricks from it. To be honest i have't form an opinion on NLP.
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:46 PM
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The problem i have here is what if she starts talking to other dudes who approach her at the bars and such? How would you feel about that? maybe the same way she feels about you when you talk to other girls? I've been in this situation and i freakin hated it. Girls sometimes make me jealous on purpose. (has this happened to anyone?) Its much easier for girls to talk to guys at the bars than guys to talk to girls because it takes more work.
/r/seduction20/06/12 09:22 PM
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I have my own theories about conversation and eye contact. 1) When I think of conversations I think of framing (NLP term). You won't have the 'stronger' frame (IE conversation) by talking louder and being more forceful because that will come off as unnatural. Usually the person with better conjuence will win the framing battles. Both your mind and your mouth have to be in harmony to have good conjuence. For example if you're just saying something just for the sake of getting attention this will …
/r/seduction20/06/12 08:45 PM
2

I don't blame a man for acting like a douche just to get women but thats just all it is, just acting.... But thats just me.
/r/seduction19/06/12 11:21 PM
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Man I am a big fan of Tyler but 600 bucks for a fucking DVD set...? I guess it might be worth it but it just doesn't feel right to pay that much for some DVDs lol. ave you watched it?
/r/seduction19/06/12 07:51 PM
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Him "You done?" You (Look at them for 3 secs in disbelief, Go back to talking to smiling HB) I think what happened to you is pretty normal. You may have run out of juice with HB and thats when they went in. You may want to try and isolate HB. you can also try you - do you like her? Him - yes you - well buy her a drink then... if he buys her a drink he looks beta. if he doesn't you say "I thought you liked her...! lol" One more you - (extend hand to do handshake) Hey, hows it going bro... if he d…
/r/seduction19/06/12 03:04 PM
1

Daytime - Excussee meee...(talk confident but show a confused face) i am new to the area, do you know where to buy some decent cloths around here....? (it helps of you and her are dredded decent) Night time- hey, iam tired of drinking beer... curious what are you drinking... Or iam tired of this beer, what bee are you drinking..
/r/seduction19/06/12 02:39 PM
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Have you been asking her a lot of questions or maybe she is being playful? maybe say "Deal, but I will only pay if the answers are worth it."
/r/seduction18/06/12 09:41 PM
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When I was in my early 20s this hot girl grabbed my boner while I was dancing with her. I jumped back and she apologized. That night she went home with someone who wasn't timid. Fear will go away as you get older. But when you get older you're going to wish you weren't such a wimp when you were younger. I would highly suggest going to the strip bar and getting some lap dances. Tell them to go light on the touching at first because your thighs are sore. Work up to getting a double lap dance. Go n…
/r/seduction18/06/12 09:19 PM
3

I've been caught red handed. I still got to fuck whoever I wanted. but in the end I had to choose.
/r/seduction18/06/12 08:18 PM
2

Reminds me of the movie rocky 1 when he first started going out with Adrian. anyways I would definitly treat shy girls differently. Maybe she will break out of her shell later when she's more comfortable. don't give her too much direct attention (don't body face her too much or talk directly too her) don't ask too many personal questions and avoid using her as the subject do most of the talking make fun of her and see if she laughs light natural kino. bring her into your world and take command m…
/r/seduction18/06/12 08:10 PM
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I generally wait 15 mins before replying. don't make your text longer than hers. If she doesn't reply punish her by waiting a week before you text her again. And if you find youself holding your phone waiting for her to text you she pretty much has the upper hand.
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:56 PM
1

I don't know what dimension you're from but in my dimension weight does factor into looks. Girls that are in shape tend to be better looking than fat girls. And Generally its harder to lay better looking girls.... Do you follow my logic here? SO YES....... I generally have a harder time dating girls with perfect bodies than fat girls... I guess I must be crazy for thinking that...
/r/seduction18/06/12 07:50 PM
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No you stupid idiot you wouldn't say it like that... Now please go back to your gay bars and suck cock from old gusy because it sounds to me like thats the only thing you can get.
/r/seduction18/06/12 04:50 AM
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Bring a couple of hundred bills, hookers are legal. Hey just saying.. Just in case..
/r/seduction18/06/12 02:45 AM
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I have had 6 months of straight dry spells when I go to clubs and bars and shit. And I do like 20 apporaches thoughout the night. Not one single fucking number or a lay or anything. I've even had fat bitches walk away from me. Try researching Simple Pick up. if that doesn't work for YOU try reseaching indirect game found in books like "Bang" or "magic bullets". 'Day bang" is golden for indirect day game! Both are great souces. Just don't be one of those guys who reads like 10 books thinking the …
/r/seduction17/06/12 08:34 PM
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Is she hot? Like a HB8 or higher? or even a 7? I had this problem with a hot chick i was going out with like half a decade ago. Attaction faded away, she called less and less and promised she will hang out with me on X date but never did. There was also a lot of other guys after her. I am usually able to makr them love me forever after I fuck them but I screwed up in this relationship and never got to fuck her. I ended up Hard Nexting her. And you need to Next her as well (IE get rid of her and …
/r/seduction17/06/12 07:22 PM
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I'd just stay the course and make it even more obvious "Ok...But before you guys leave....I need a female's opinion..." "And yes you are showing IOIs because you are talking to me, standing in front of me and now you're smiling... look at you... You're all over me... We're probably going to end up making out..."
/r/seduction17/06/12 06:16 PM
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Direct approaches aren't too bad but I don't usually prefer them in calm areas like starbucks or a freakin book store. They are good for maybe at a park or a bar or places where there is more energy and things move faster. For Day game I prefer indirect approaches. Here's an example of an indirect way I've used in similar situations. As I am walking out or going to the restroom or throwing away something (remember situational) stop by her desk "Excussse meee.... isss that a 8 inch samsung tablet…
/r/seduction17/06/12 05:57 PM
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I've gone solo many times and to be honest with you it takes some balls and its harder in my opinion. I don't prefer it. Don't give a shit about anything Bad attention is better than no attention in my opinion chat up random ppl to get into a social mood. don't be a wallflower. If you find yourself in some corner using your phone you're doing it wrong. The more you wait to open someone the harder it is. Talk to the middle age lady, bar tender, bouncer.
/r/seduction15/06/12 10:24 PM
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Ill be sure to check it out. I am going to go back to being more active at dallaspua dot com. we have a meetup month or other month or so.
/r/seduction15/06/12 09:42 PM
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If I were to guess I don't think he needs too. He has enough social proof to need any more developing. How can you clime any higher when you already reached the top? That being said, I don't know if his new advise would also work on a normal person. Still, I definitly owe a lot to mystery.
/r/seduction14/06/12 09:59 PM
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Here's what I am working on: Paleo Diet, I love this diet but thats for a whole different topic. Limit the time I spend doing worthless shit like playing games, watching youtube, online politics, r/worldnews and other worthless shit. When i go grocery shopping I dress nicer use that oppunity to game chicks. Try and check out more target rich places IE target or whole foods Excersie 1-2 a week (yeah i know its not that much but its better than nothing Online Dating, Its slow but its free and its …
/r/seduction14/06/12 08:35 PM
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Nice man, I got AA myself and I have pussed out of a lot of approaches. I am getting better at it. The best thing to do is to walk or over, your mind will come up with something to say. Anyways can you explain the plant 1000 seeds or link it for me? i cant find it and I want to read about it. thx
/r/seduction14/06/12 05:30 PM
1

3 things you need to be when you're in a social environment. -FUN -FRIENDLY -CONFIDENT. Say hi to everyone. Look people in the eye when you talk to them and try and have fun. Nothing wrong with nerdy friends but if they don't like goign out and meeting girls they are no use to you when it comes to being more social and picking up women. More then likely their behavior will rub off on you. What has worked for me is getting friends that like to go out and meet girls or at least go out to the bars …
/r/seduction11/06/12 11:26 PM
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Nice man, you're a good friend. I've had experiences with friends like that before who I hardly hang out with anyways. I call them 'mad drunks'. Are you going to tell your friend he owes you? The blonde sat next to you probably because you were a familar person she already saw before at the dance floor.
/r/seduction29/05/12 05:51 PM
2

I get turned down at bars a lot. I don't even sweat it. The turn downs that annoy me are from man hating chubby chicks who are out to get revenge on guys.
/r/seduction28/05/12 04:59 PM
1

wow thats something, curious how old are you? You should be warn though. You are going to get rejected A LOT in the future when you start approaching consecutively.
/r/seduction27/05/12 06:15 AM
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Only time i ever hang out with EXes is to refuck them. Relationships to me are just social constructs. But if you enjoy hanging out with them i dont see anything wrong with it.
/r/seduction26/05/12 04:54 AM
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I have a hard time goign out my byself. So I usually go with friends. Perferably with people who tend to be more social and more on the positive side. games is a good idea. here's a game. Go to a social place like the mall and give your friend 100 dollars and say. "The only way I can get this money back is if i approach chicks. You give me 20 bucks per approach." Also Warm up with employees who help customers or whatever. Strike up a conversation with an old couple or whatever or a security guar…
/r/seduction26/05/12 04:49 AM
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I have a lot of approach anxiety myself but the few times that I do approach and talk to a decent looking girl it seems magical just in itself and it sometimes leads to other things. Anyways this seems to works for me 80% of the time. I glace at my watch a little for time constraint during the conversation. By the end when thigs start to get dry I say something like "well anyways do you have an email?... Cool what is it?(while pulling out my phone getting ready to type).. thanks, why dont you gi…
/r/seduction26/05/12 04:35 AM
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