My best friend and twin brother are both more attractive then me - how do I deal with this when going out with them and meeting women?

EggoGF · 2013-07-08T22:32:10+00:00

Granted, I haven't walked a mile in your shoes, but it sounds like you think your friend is the better catch. If that is the story you believe, then that's what will become your reality. If you focused on being the best you and not caring what others do, then that should attract plenty of women. If not, then go out with other friends. :D

2013-07-08T22:36:59+00:00

Doesn't matter. Looks aren't the primary factor of scale of attractiveness for women as it is for men. It seems you have a small bit of a self esteem issue.

It really doesn't matter how attractive they (your best friend and brother) look as long as you don't make that an issue. Be comfortable and confident in your own skin.

Assume attraction from every woman you talk to until proven otherwise.

Attraction is built upon your authenticity, desire, excitement, lifestyle, confidence, comfortability, un-neediness.

Learn to be completely comfortable and confident with yourself and that aura will be projected and thus will make you much more attractive than any guy who isn't comfortable in his own skin, can't look a woman in her eyes, is unhappy with himself, and completely lacks self esteem.

Go out with the mindset of having fun with your best friend and brother and help each other out instead of looking at them as your competition. They have their quirks and you have yours. Learn to be comfortable and work with what you have. No need to compare yourself to anybody else.

But once again; I would like to state you do seem to have a problem with your confidence and your self esteem. I suggest working on yourself first. Focus on yourself instead of focusing on the "problem" of your brother and best friend.

"Models" by Mark Manson would be a great read for you.

2013-07-08T22:49:37+00:00

Be funny.

puaCurveBall · 2013-07-08T23:05:20+00:00

If he is hindering your progress, stop going out with them and try going out solo.

What exactly is the problem?

If he is opening up women, then he should be the one attracting them.

If you are opening up women, then he shouldn't be escalating with them, and you should let him know that.

If you are opening up women, and he isn't doing anything but they are still not interested, then work on your own game.

I don't see how any of the details in your post change the fundamentals of the situation.

Title	My best friend and twin brother are both more attractive then me - how do I deal with this when going out with them and meeting women?
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Date	July 8, 2013 9:52 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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