So, usually I'm really good about knowing when to kiss a girl and when not to. Hell, even if the date doesn't go well I can usually manage a kiss at the end of the night regardless if I think we'll see each other again. Tonight I went out with a girl I have been on 2 dates prior with. She has seemed a bit more reserved than most I have been with, but we always have a fun time when we go out. At the end when I walked her to her car I thought "fuck it, it's go time." But for the first time ever, when I went in she just looked at me and smiled and was like "nope, I don't think we're there yet". This completely blew my mind. I am sure she wants to see me again, I just don't know how to respond the next time I talk with her. And as crazy as it sounds, the fact that she didn't want to kiss me then and there turned me on even more. How do I turn this rejected kiss attempt into something funny/confident/playful?