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Was gonna date a girl, all of a sudden she doesn't want to

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July 23, 2019

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Title	Was gonna date a girl, all of a sudden she doesn't want to
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	July 23, 2019 7:26 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/cgx6zq/was_gonna_date_a_girl_all_of_a_sudden_she_doesnt/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/was-gonna-date-a-girl-all-of-a-sudden-she-doesnt.1309020 https://theredarchive.com/post/1309020

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[–]jimmiepop 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

[–]hakanerunsal -3 points-2 points-1 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

[–]RuleBreakerrz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

[–]hakanerunsal -1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

[–]RuleBreakerrz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

[–]hakanerunsal 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

[–]DriedUpPlum 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Have you read Models? How old are you? Do you live in an urban or rural area?

Baseline advice is you over invested far too early and you still are. Women build emotional attraction for men at a slower rate than men do.... this is a matter of necessity.

Dial it back, stop texting, and create space between you two. Attraction builds in space. If if you think “she’s the one” or a one night stand the best thing you can do is back off. It may take weeks or it may be never but you best chance of getting a date with her in the future is to act like you have more going on in your life than her.

You can’t control how much you life her but you can control how much you act that out.

Side not: When we have a crush on someone it means we are ignoring their flaws or only viewing said flaws as bonuses. It’s an expression of lack of objectivity. When you start getting “those feels” for someone you actually barely know you should take a step back and really figure out what attracts you to them without those feels. Imagine someone else performing their actions and see if you still feel the same way. If you don’t then it’s likely just a crush and the relationship probably isn’t as strong or has the potential to be as strong as you think.

[–]hakanerunsal 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]DriedUpPlum 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]hakanerunsal 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]RuleBreakerrz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]snowwhitewolf6969 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link