Hey all, I'm into a girl and unfortunately I'm getting oneitis, the worse part is it's so early. I don't believe she feels the same way about me as I do her, but this feeling is based on her not initiating texts with me. She will chat and talk to me if I initiate but even after I told her to let me know how the sandwich at the State Fair is tomorrow, I never got a text. I'm trying to not be needy and too much especially this early so I didn't text her and I'm going to try and wait a week before texting her again. But every bit of me wants to chat with her and hang out again.

I'll give a little back story to explain where we are at. She just got out of a 5 month relationship like two months ago. She is a friend of a friend. We met twice in person before I asked her out. The first time I asked her out she said she was still trying to figure her shit out and she's not looking to date right now. I got introduced to seduction and had a little help write another text which she apparently liked and she agreed to go out with me. This text made sure to somewhat sexualize our relationship by telling her to dress cute and being more playful.

So we go out. I had learned a few techniques, like kino escalation, bouncing her Everytime I felt the mood winding down a little, throwing out disqualifiers here and there and then qualifiers about there being something about her (which is true, she's not my type but there's something I really like about her). Anyways we end up kissing 3 times. I feel on top of the world. I was impressed with how I handled that date. And she seemed to have had a great night as well and she even told me she was happy that she came and that she had a great time.

Btw this girl is a solid 9 or even 10. This was just this last weekend that we went out. But throughout the weeks that we've texted here and there she hasn't once initiated a text. Is this a sign of her not being into. Or a sign of really hard to get. I know at least the night of the date, she was into me!

So what advice does the seduction community have for texting now until the next time we meet up? We haven't planned anything yet. I have something in mind for next Saturday but am gonna wait until next week to ask her. While trying to not message until next week. Also any advice for post 1st date would be much appreciated!