I'm new to this, I'm sure others are new to it too, why don't we have a newbie question thread? Join me newbs, lets all ask our questions.

tommyschoolbruh · 2009-12-12T18:49:44+00:00

i'll do point by point with your tldr

• don't worry so much about being alpha. all you really have to worry about is amogging but even that shouldn't happen if you're around friends.

• friends feel like you're being negative because you are. this is why you shouldn't worry or try to be alpha, just be confident and that's enough. i'm 5'9 150 with a big ole nose, i get girls pretty regularly. it's just about confidence confidence confidence.

• morals are great, you don't have to beat up a wanna be alpha to deal with them. someone else can give you better tips, but my method is to just give them the same shit right back and/or isolate quickly. something like 'man what's with this guy? is he an only child? let's go sit down, he's annoying' or something like that, use whatever fits the scenario.

• again, you're thinking too much. and again, i'm a small dorky looking guy but i can command a room if i so choose. it's definitely about my frame, but my frame comes from not giving a fuck. if you don't care about alpha's they can't bother you.

• opener into a conversation is difficult. i still have problems with it, but it comes with practice.

• humor is easy and comes with confidence. for instance, i was in memphis and a very obvious (to us) wanna be pua approached the set i was in. he was a big semi-good looking dude and played all the right moves. but he asked a stupid question. he said 'so is this place haunted or what? i get two different stories.' a good opener. but i cancelled it immediately. i responded with 'well do you believe in ghosts?' 'no' 'well it's not haunted then' said with a smile and a laugh. he responded in kind 'so if i believed in ghosts it is haunted' with a laugh. and i said 'yep' and he was done, everyone laughed, nobody got their feelings hurt, it was fine.

• there are routines that always work such as the picture routine at a party and there are routines that only work for someone. i would say any opener from the pickup artist show are out, don't use those. but really, use what is presented to you. a lot is put into the approaches in this game, but for someone like me i let shit come to me and it works every time. any accidental bump or touch is a girl opening you. use that.

• i have one wingman that helps me a lot, but i never use them because my friends don't think the game works even though they see the results with me all the time. i like going solo, so idk what to tell you here.

• this is also a shortcoming of mine. but i have a good way to make them touch my hands. i had surgery on my left hand and have a fucked up finger and rugged scar, i just tell them 'hey check this out' and make them feel it. high fives are great too. touching earrings, etc. don't be scared of them pulling back either.

you're def over thinking, so stop it. you're the prize, prizes don't look for other prizes. the best thing i've heard about this is would you be offended if you offered someone a stick of gum and they said no? of course not. this is the same thing.

Title	I'm new to this, I'm sure others are new to it too, why don't we have a newbie question thread? Join me newbs, lets all ask our questions.
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Upvotes	7
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Date	December 12, 2009 6:05 PM UTC (16 years ago)
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