A little background Info: I am a 20 year old male college student. 5'10, 160 pounds, and in good shape. My High school experience was abysmal save for the odd two week relationship, and 2nd base. In frequently visiting college parties and social events, It has become apparent that women are much more comfortable sexually.

I got into the seduction community after realizing how close I was to overcoming my sexual struggles. I am apparently good looking, am funny and can neg etc rather competently, but for the life of me I CANNOT push myself into initiating seductive physical contact (Kino). Whenever the opportunity comes up I will either freeze in place and switch the topic of conversation, or rather ungracefully climb the Kino ladder with such a degree of uncomfortableness with both parties that it ends on the second rung.

I am familiar with the suggested method of escalation and can playfully touch with ease. But when it comes to the higher steps of the ladder I fail miserably. Reddit: Can you offer any methods or mental conditioning I can engage in to get through this. I am too close.

Much appreciated, TheBadTouch