Have you ever noticed how when you talk to someone after a couple of minutes, sometimes seconds even you stop "seeing" them?

I did, it happens to me all the time. I talk to people and all of a sudden I'm thinking

I'm not seeing them as a physical object, I'm seeing them as a person and I would bet it's the same with them.

So next time you're self conscious about yourself, the coffee stench on your shirt, your poor haircut or whatever just be sure that people don't really see you, because

  • they're listening to what you say or
  • they're inside their head, thinking about what you're thinking right now (propably even about them)