According to I've read, Operant Conditioning applied to girls should work this way:

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- Add a positive stimuli to the girl if she does something you like

- Remove a positive stimuli to the girl if she does something you don't like

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That is, if she says something you like, you give her attention, affection, sex..

If she is overly critical about you, dread game.

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That being said, this is what happened:

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My MLTR asked me out to eat some burger. Almost at the time I would leave, she started to find (no sense) reasons why we should go out the next day instead and insisted we wouldn't go out then.

I cancelled the plans without drama.

Although, some hours later, she started to text me very kind and sweet.

But I didn't know if I should continue to be cold as a punishment for her behavior or be nice again as a reward for her being nice.

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Something this way happened with me and my ex; She was very rude to me for no reason, I went cold and indifferent. Some hours later, she called me apologizing, saying she failed and I didn't know if I should continue with the punishment, turn everything okay again.

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How long should this cold treatment last?

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TLDR: Should your punishment end immediately after the girl starts to be kind again?

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