To keep this shirt and sweet...

In an open relationship. At this point my SO has had ample oppurtunity but I tend to b more reserved and my job keeps me busy at odd hours. (Programming deadlines) A mutual acquaintance who in my opinion is HB6-7, has shown IOI and I got her number. Unfortuanly I was busy all last week and didn't find an oppurunity to text. I also doesn't help that im shy with this sort of thing. I gave her no reason to think this in the several conversations we've had. I've come across as smart funny and confident as near as I cantell.

Today shecame over to use my SOs studio to practice with a couple other dancers, I wasn't there when she got there but when she left I failed to catch her in time to chat her up. But she also didn't go looking either. I finally found the gumption to contact her but I have no idea how to start the conversation. Also if the topic of hanging out comes up my place is not available and from what I've read ut seems like asking to come over is a total beta move.

I could use some advice aboutthose two things specifically. Im confident I can handle the in between bits. Just need a bit of a booster.

I also apologize for any bad grammar/ spelling as im typing fast on my droid.

Thanks sreddit!

edit: she's about 28 im about 30 if that makes a difference.

edit: I just went for it head first