I'm totally okay with rejection but I still get nervous right before when I pull the trigger.

philosarapter · 2010-10-12T14:12:01+00:00

That's normal. Its ok to feel nervous before you close. Just don't let that nervousness stop you from doing something.

Most girls actually take little nervous slip ups like that as an IOI.

new_player · 2010-10-12T14:15:20+00:00

It's alright, it's a transition process to get comfortable. Do you remember the first few times you approached? I bet you were anxious as hell. It just takes time and practice. Keep it up though, and try to push yourself that slight bit beyond your comfort zone. It's the only way to grow.

monkmonkmonk · 2010-10-13T04:23:44+00:00

Just imagine you're doing her a favor by GIVING her YOUR number. Asking is BETA, giving is ALPHA and removes the pain in the ass of contacting a potential flake.

If you had your inner game together, ShawnGupta, you wouldn't even need to imagine this, it would be a part of your being.

Laxgodd · 2010-10-12T23:46:25+00:00

Just do it mang!

2010-10-13T05:35:55+00:00

Act like your asking your buddy for his new number. If you act like its not a big deal, she'll act like its not a big deal and give it to you.

Because bottom line? Getting a chicks number isn't a big deal. At all.

Title	I'm totally okay with rejection but I still get nervous right before when I pull the trigger.
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Date	October 12, 2010 3:58 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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