I met a girl at a party - we talked for a decent amount of time and got alone. There was roughly 50% guys and girls at the party. We talked for a bit and I snagged an uber with her, one of my friends, and one of her friends to the bar everyone was going to. I talked to her in the car and 30 min at the bar. I danced for a bit with my friends and then her friends and her wanted to leave early and asked me if I wanted to come with. I came with in the uber and I asked if one of my buddies wanted to come with. We stayed at her place (she invited us in as well as her friend) for roughly 30min until my buddy and I decided to leave cause we were tired.

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During the car ride to her place and at her place, she talked about her ex, this dude that was hitting on her in the bar, as well as some famous actors she finds attractive. Why would she say all of this in my presence? I am confused cause I thought we got along well. I left the night feeling weird about the entire situation. Would provide more details if I can help. She didn't really drink at all and she doesnt seem like a party person btw. Also to clarify, I dont remember if she said all the stuff directly to me but it was in my presence during a group conversation between us four (my friend, her, her friend, and myself)

Please help, I am a decent looking guy, in shape, young, educated but I dont have any luck with ladies. Honest advice