why do girls like me when I treat them like shit? Should I just stop looking for something serious? I don’t just want sex, I want someone I can grow with. I’m in highschool

CainPrice · 2018-08-26T23:11:43+00:00

You don't need someone to "grow with". You need to grow. Yourself.

Part of your growth is learning to understand people, women, relationships, sex, feelings.

You're not going to make this journey with one woman by your side. You're going to make this journey with many, many women. Some just for a night. Some for a few nights. Some for a few months. Learn what you can from your dealings with each woman, keep growing, but stay focused on you, your life, your mission, your growth. Don't hobble yourself with this idea that you need a partner for it to mean anything. You are enough.

talexanderc · 2018-08-26T22:49:27+00:00

They don't want relationships. They want to ride the CC

SuperCrazy07 · 2018-08-27T00:38:30+00:00

You think you want this, but you don't. There is no 18 year old girl that in 25 years will have "grown with" you at the same rate. Things you are compatible with now will become differences. That's just life.

Further, I promise that when you're a 43 year old man, you won't be interested in the 43 year old women. At all.

TheTrenTrannyTrain · 2018-08-27T00:20:09+00:00

Sidebar.

gulag_disco · 2018-08-27T00:26:27+00:00

Negging and aloof indifference work best on young girls. It’s a scarecrow version of real power, just a psychological switch that all people are vulnerable to. You are displaying that you are not in need of their approval, which is a universally attractive trait.

Learn how to tell a woman you’re attracted to them without feeling a single shred of neediness for them to like you back and you’ve got it made.

Look up Models by Mark Manson for more on managing your neediness, there’s an audiobook version available.

[deleted] · 2018-08-27T02:12:25+00:00

Building yourself up happens outside of a relationship. Don't really on anyone you will end up disappointed.

Nib-q · 2018-08-27T02:43:30+00:00

Sounds like you haven't started the sidebar

dc8867 · 2018-08-27T04:24:58+00:00

Highschool is a time where everyone is most insecure about themselves, and so girls will inherently seek what they think they deserve. Which is an asshole like you, sadly. You're in high school, not yet a legal adult, yet you want to find someone to grow with? Now that's retarded.

Grow up. Grow yourself mentally. Your mindset and narcissist attitude is distasteful, bud.

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