How to subtely get rid of a girl who's "harrassing" me?

logrusmage · 2011-01-05T18:13:15+00:00

...How about being honest and explaining to her she's coming on too strong and needs to back off?

Seriously, why is being honest never an option?

est1979 · 2011-01-05T16:38:19+00:00

wow just erase her account and make yours private (Facebook). Then you have one more step and a few options to decide from.

1st - tell her that you want to just be friends and that you don't have the time to dedicate to a relationship.

Then by her response, choose the following

Call you cell carrier and tell then you are being harassed and block her number (free to you), or have your number changed.
Lie and tell her that some girl you have been crushing on finally got smart and picked you up, tell her that you have to give this a chance and that you would like to be friends with her ONLY.
Tell her you want to meet up and keep missing the date on purpose.

mitigateaccomp · 2011-01-05T19:35:22+00:00

I've been in this situation. I've tried to be nice, tried to logically explain why it wouldn't work out, but have never succeeded in getting them to leave peacefully.

My advice? It's a lot easier if she hates you. Simply be downright mean and rude to her until she cuts off contact of her own volition. It sucks, I know, but it's the only thing that I've found to be effective (and even that doesn't work 100% of the time!)

If that fails, simply stop responding... seriously, not even one single text no matter what she says.

LesbianPUA · 2011-01-05T19:22:25+00:00

It doesn't have to be that hard. Delete her from facebook and the first time she texts you say "I'm not interested in you.", and never, ever reply to her again no matter what she says. Eventually, she will go away.

2011-01-05T20:38:51+00:00

Tell her she's creepy, delete her from facebook, link her to seddit.

If she learns to correct her behavior, technically you left her a better person, right?

Half joking. Would be a little risky seeing that she knows who your friends are.

Title	How to subtely get rid of a girl who's "harrassing" me?
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Date	January 5, 2011 4:12 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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