Not sure if I've been friend zoned, advice please!

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-01-07T08:04:27+00:00

Says you'd make a good rowing team = envisions you doing activities together = IOI.

Says she wants to hang = IOI = what are you waiting for, an engraved invitation?

Friend zoned? You would know that better than us. Men put themselves in the friend zone. If you have listened to her problems with her ex, you are on the fast route to the friend zone. Cut that shit off or you will be her girlfriend. If you allow her to get comfortable before you amplify the attraction, you will LJBF yourself. Get busy escalating, if it's not too late already. You might be Rebound Guy but you will have to decide for yourself if it's worth it. Attraction first, then comfort = success. Comfort before attraction means LJBF.

2011-01-07T07:59:45+00:00

The bad thing is she told me that she misses her husband, and he doesn't reciprocate.

Take a lesson from the ex husband and try to see less of her. Absence makes the heart grow fonder, or fill in whatever quote u want, moral is cut off contact for a bit and maybe next time she contacts you, it won't be so she can use you as an emotional tampon. I'm not trying to sound mean but there is a post at the top of the page about scarcity and abundance that u need to check out.

Listro · 2011-01-07T17:37:49+00:00

Try to fuck her. You'll figure it out pretty quickly.

LadyInept · 2011-01-07T10:59:40+00:00

I think she has no idea what she wants at the moment and trying to guess will just be absolutely useless. What she wants may also change every day for the next 6 months. If you're ok with all possible outcomes then just go with it. If you can't handle the friend zone, get out now.

Title	Not sure if I've been friend zoned, advice please!
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Date	January 7, 2011 7:44 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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