A thought occurred to me after a date i went on recently about a rational male post, as i interpreted to be, overt displays of intent to fuck being the gate into "Nice Guy" oblivion. Another sidebar resource discusses setting a sexual frame and as such, making your intent to fuck apparent.

The reason for my conundrum on these ideas came up because i havent been interested in the girls that ive had success with, and seem to fail miserably with the ones im actually attracted to. Any success with these might come later which ive called "playing the long game" but that usually leads to the "what are we" discussion which im not about right now. Ive thought that maybe its just the league i will always play in, but fuck that cuz im still trying to grow and am living a great life.

Any thoughts, or clarification on these seemingly opposed theories is appreciated.