When I was younger I was an odd child to say the least. Very loud, immature and obnoxious. And to add to it I used to smoke weed every god damn day. My hometown is still small, you could even say it is separated by three degrees, if you catch my drift.

Anyways, I see girls I knew from high school all the time. At school at the bar/clubs every where. But their body language and tone isn't exactly welcoming.

Now I have no problem meeting new people, girls or guys. I love meeting new people. But I still have not been able to recover from my old reputation.

So seddit, are first impressions really everything? How can I regain lost ground?