Ok, this is fairly long story that I will try to keep short for time's sake.

Keep in mind I'm in college.

I met this girl and her friend at a bar. We were both drunk and she gave me a lap dance. That ends the first encounter.

She then finds me on facebook the next day, and throughout the next 9 months or so I go out with her and her roommates 2-3 times to different clubs and dance with all of them.

After meeting her at a party where I kind of turned her down, we recently started talking again.

So, her and her friend come over to my apartment and play beerpong with my roommate and myself. A ton of kino but I don't know how to look for IOIs. Night was pretty good though.

I then go out with her the other night, dance with her most of the night, then go back to her place with her roommate. She invites me to stay until I'm ready to drive in the morning. After talking for a while, she invites me to her room to show it to me. We talk for like another hour, but its late at this point and just an hour ago she was talking about how she doesn't sleep with guys randomly. Nothing happens from there. :(

That's the short version.

Ok, here is where I get confused about this whole situation.

I'm 19, she's 21. Numerous occasions I get these vibes from her that she finds me cute and like I'm perma friend zoned.

Whenever I'm around her, it's almost like she makes sure to say that she is single, but she sees this one guy sometimes.

She has kissed me on the cheek a couple of times after dancing and shit, but we have never made out or gone any farther than that. The texts between us recently after our last night out are pretty flirty (from what I can tell).

EX: her: blah blah me: phone is dying, but ill see you later __ her: ok _____, that sounds like a promise to me ;)

To me it sounds flirty, but maybe not.

My question here is really just, I don't know if I'm perma friend zoned with her, what I can do differently to find out, what I can do to take it further, and if I fucked up the other night when she invited me into her room.