First time approach tips (small town)

Mugu_Monster · 2018-08-29T20:19:14+00:00

So I'm in a small town and have success using: gyms, walmart/target, other grocery stores, bookstores, my apartment complex, and church group

As far as jobs: become a part-time bartender to meet girls, work at a place where you could meet girls (verizon, receptionist, or call center)

Last but not least, dating apps and make a lot of friends. good luck

morescoobysnacks · 2018-08-29T23:33:51+00:00

Get her attention before you start this. Don't ever startle the target.

"Hey. Whatsup. How are you?" doesn't matter what she says "You're cute. Are you from around here?" doesn't matter what she says "Ah OK. Cool. Yea I'm from..."

Keep asking her questions that build familiarity and answer your own question after her.... where we're from, where we live, where we work, [I lie and ask if they know names of made up people at their work saying I dated such and such]).

Tonality and sexual intensity in body language. She should know you're trying to fuck her.

Don't laugh or smile too much. A little is fine, but cut it short. Cut her off a little if she gives longer answers.

Start qualifying lightly- are you a fun person? oh yea? what do you do for fun? oh yea? If she gives a good answer, light up a bit. Show it in your face. Like you weren't sure, and her answer is winning you over.

"Let's hangout sometime. Have you ever been to [wherever you wanna take her]?"

The cute line and the hangout line are a ton of pressure for a day approach. So take the pressure off immediately by continuing the conversation.

Any boyfriend lines, I'm seeing someone else lines... "Oh that's fine we don't have to tell them. Give me your phone." Same logic here. We're adding pressure by objecting and taking it away and leading. This makes shit easy on the girl.

And yea like Mugu said.. I'm in a small ass little city right now too. My dates this weekend are both from gym approaches. Same shit different town.

SirKolbath · 2018-08-29T19:05:26+00:00

Don’t approach women. Approach people. Talk to at least ten people for at least two minutes per.

Title	First time approach tips (small town)
Author	platinummattagain
Upvotes	1
Comments	10
Date	August 29, 2018 6:55 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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