Hello Seddit! I'm a man in the 20's that has a relationship with a foreigner thas is in the 30's. We were dating during the las five mounths and the half week I'm sleeping in her apartment. Our relationship looks great: we've topics in common, we like the same thinks, we have the same kind of friends. We love each other and we are happy.

She is very independent, has a exciting life, being in a lot of places around the world, parties, meeting people, doing extreme sports, etc. She loves the wild life, and thinks that shocked me were parties were she was naked in the beach we other persons, too much alcohol and that she tried cocaine ones. So, that kind of thinks changed my point of view a little about her. I'm not jelous when she is meet her friends because a trust her...until the last weekend... We were in a club with some people that we meet in a house one hour ago that night. So I noted that she was drinking and talk with another guy. It was okey at the beginning. The they were starting to teasing and driking tequilas, so and a moment she was going to the toiled the guy touched her bum. So, I confronted the guy saying that be careful with his hand because I was watching him )with the fingers, like R. DeNiro in Meet the Parents) and I said that disapert for that zono of the club.

The second situation was worse when later I see her with a guy in the bar and him was touching the bum in a sensual way. So I start to walk to her and I took to the dance floor without ask anything, and she start to said "stop, okey?". 10 minutes later she was again with the same guy, no he was whispering at her ear and I was reading intentions of kiss, meanwhile I was seen the face of my girlfriend, smiling. In that moment the rage com from my inner and separate their, hitting my finger in the chest of the guy (he knew she is my gf) and with a transformated face I started to screaming "get out rom here, peace of shit!!!). She was seeing the whole scene and started to said that was okey, asking me if I want leave the place in that moment.

When we back to the apartment we've sex and I release all my rage with her in a domination "fantasy", something that was amazing when she said that nobody take her in submission before.

Next day I wake up with a bad taste, because the trust was broken in same way. What sedditors think about it? I know women no assume the situation when some guy tried to pick up their and them (women) are drunk.

UPDATE The last day was a little awful, having the same feelings that I remember for my oneitis situation 2 years ago (headache and stomach ache, I could eat nothing in the whole day). So, I started to do a meditation and remove that horrible feeling from my mind and remember that, first at all, I'm a alpha man, alpha men take control of their lives and don't suffer, they fight for what they want, WE FIGHT FOR WHAT WE DESERVE.

Then my girl said at the night that she was a little upset in the restaurant (before the club) because I was acting in a immature way (now I remember that I was drunk, playing with hi5s and talking to much loud), and in the club I was dancing like a crazy monkey, when I should act smooth and assertively. In one moment she touched the topic about the guy in the bar and accept that he was acting not very good.

In conclusion: I was a acting like a totally beta with the whole situation, (thanks frogma, when you said "pedestal", I get the idea) and didn't think properly. She was teaching/punishing me in some way, talking with those guys, showing me in the club "this is the correct way how as mature men behave, remember?". I created this whole situation in my mind, like a overstatement of a fear, acting with pain. Now it let me reflect about my position in the relationship, being more confident and secure. I forget it when I started to date this girl. Before that picking up girls in every opportunity was a great practice to be in the top. I think I need work a little more about it. THANKS SEDDITORS!!!