Hi,

It will be a long one. I would like you to analyze the whole situation with this girl, step by step, because she drives me crazy, I just can't understand her. There we go.

So I met a really nice, 19yo HB8 girl (I'm 21) about a month ago, when I came back to my parents city. The first time we met she was really attracted to me, keeped strong eye contact etc. Even though we were with our friends she talked only with me, for like 5 hours. Sadly, I was a little bit drunk (didnt expect to meet girls tbh) and forgot about kino, so at the end I realized that going for a kiss, after 5 hours of just talking, would be a really bad idea.

For next few days we were hanging out with the same people so we were able to talk even without any effort from me etc., just naturally. Meanwhile, I heard from people that she is really "hard" if it comes to seduction. After we met like 3-4 times, I decided to propose a meeting one by one. She was interested so we hang out together, there was a really nice vibe, we went to few places, then ended up in my house. There everything changed, she was talking with me as always but had her hands crossed, didn't want to let me get closer etc. This made me a little bit annoyed but whatever, bye girl.

The next day I said fuck it, I invited her for a short walk as we live close to each other, talked with her for like 40 minutes and she had to go, so I just went for a kiss and it worked. After this she said that "it was really nice to meet me" and we just said goodbye.

For the next few days I didn't text her because I knew she isn't in my city, so there was no reason to. She was with her friends on some kind of music festival. When she came back we were organizing a small meeting so she was invited. I didn't talk with her at the beginning but then when I found a good situation I tried to make some eye contact and go for her. I realized that she tries to ignore me, intentionally. Ok, whatever, her choice. I tried to have fun but after few hours I was really annoyed, so I went to her and asked if everythings ok and why she is like that. She said that I'm mistaken and she treats me as always. LOL.

The next time we met, we were in my friends house, she wasn't ignoring me but also I couldn't see that she is attracted or something. It was a really long party and after few hours we were lying together in one bed (with friends in the same room), so I decided to go for a kiss because omg perfect situation lol. She didn't want to, which is weird because she had totally no problem when I whispered to her ears etc. She told me that we dont know each other, that she may be crazy and I don't know this. First I tried to talk with her about this but she didn't want to. Conclusion: iit was a second time when she got weird when I tried to "do something". Meh.

After this situation I've decided that she is not worth my effort, tried to just next her, and started to treat her as a normal friend, so I was just nice and acted cool but didn't initiate any kino etc anymore. But I realized that she became really bad to me, everytime we meet (which is like almost everyday, by accident as we hang out in the same places with the same people) she tries to show her disrepect to me, shit tests me so hard when our friends are around, says shitty things like "omg you again" etc, discredits my job which is actually really great and everyone know it. I tried to don't give a fuck and ignore her but god damn she won't give up.

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I'm really annoyed and I don't know what am I supposed to do, should I talk with her about her shitty behaviour and tell her to just fckin stop it or what? We are meeting often because of our friends so I can't just next and forget about her. Tbh I would LOVE to come back to the positive vibe we had at the beggining but I don't know how and if this is even possible. Please explain me why after a week of our last meeting when I kissed her (so a week on this music festival) her actions changed so much. And also what to do with her as I'm out of ideas.