This little fledgling wants to leave the dating nest, help!

THE_LD · 2011-03-30T06:03:08+00:00

Do you just want ot break into the dating scene or more? If you just want to get a first kiss under the belt, just get yourself into a drinking situation with a number of single girls and make a spectacle of the fact that you have never been kissed. Yes, it could end very embarrassing(part of the process) or there is a decent chance a girl will kiss you.

Make a plan and figure out the execution. If you want to get kissed, or laid, or get an LTR then that is the plan. I'm not exactly sure what it is specifically that you really want.

As per awkward silences, in time you will be filling those voids with the ease that I have been filling the void between ladies' legs for years. It takes time and practice. Be confident. Have a few tricks up your sleeve for that very situation. When conversation is going well, and you are about to bring up a new topic or a tangent, hold off on it, and continue in the current conversation. That's one awkward silence you can break.

General terms, be interested. When you are talking to one specific girl, ask questions, and when the conversation allows it you should refer back to her answers later in the conversation to let her know you were listening.

If you want PUA stuff, check out the links about it. I haven't scoured them yet, but I understand them to be very informative and should help build your confidence.

You are right. You are awesome. You are FUCKING AWESOME!!!! Let her see that, but don't act like a d-bag and come off as try hard.

You are young, and the world is your oyster.

justsomehuman · 2011-03-30T12:26:45+00:00

Ok. I'm no master at breaking the ice, but a way that usually works with me is starting a conversation with your wingman, and then invite the girl you want to talk to into the conversation. It can be something like asking her a question related to what you were talking about (hey my friend and I need your opinion, would you be Qaddafi's private nurse for a million dollars?) or just a statement, targeted at her, loud enough that she can hear ('I bet she can't.' 'can what?' 'Say the alphabet backwards'). Wingman then fades away, Voila, you're talking to a hot chick. its probably best if you have something funny to say as an opener like this.

As for the k-close that you want, kino man. If you are both really into the conversation, hold her hand, or give her a hug or something, I dunno. If that works out then you've probably got it in the bag. Wait till there's a lull then kiss her.

On a fairly related note, I got my first kiss and my first BJ in the same night, when I was 18 (late bloomer as well). The BJ I cant remember much of honestly but the kiss was magic.

And remember to remember: you're awesome. Good attitude man.

monkmonkmonk · 2011-03-30T10:50:53+00:00

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Title	This little fledgling wants to leave the dating nest, help!
Author	justsomehuman
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	March 30, 2011 5:03 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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