I'm in need of Seddit's help. I've read the FAQ, I've read many FRs, I've learned the basics, and I've had my ups and downs. I'd say I'm an attractive college dude with no problem approaching girls, but I have a mild-to-sometimes-severe case of one-itis. The past two girls I've "gone for," I took on dates and they said they had a wonderful time and we continued to talk, but their friends always give me feedback of "she just thinks you're a cute guy who's very nice." This is what's getting to me...continual failure is reeeeally getting me down.

I guess I do play the "nice guy" most of the time. How can I rid myself of this?

Will some practice sets give me the confidence I need?

How do I overcome this one-itis bullshit that seems to be weighing me down?

Any and all advice will be well taken. I'm still trying to pick up on the terms and techniques I guess. Thanks Seddit.