Tonight went out with one friend (married), we went to a bar, texting friends to join us, not far by us were two girls I wanted to speak with, but I had no idea what to say (AA !) and think I'll go talk to them later when we have more people around (stupid of me). My friend invite one of his own friend and another girl he met recently. The friend join us, we are still waiting for the girl.

We start to play pool, I look around for a single girl to join us, find one. I go over to her table, lean on the table with my fists while staying up and ask : Are you by your own tonight ? (very Alpha I think ), and because I don't want this to be awkward and I am afraid of silence (very beta I know) I tell her, before she answers (I think I should have waited for her to say something before going on) : we are missing one people for playing pool, care to join us ? She looks glad but says she came with a friend so she can't join us and she is sorry. I don't really care that she said no (probably genuine) but the confidence is up :)

Girl joins us, she is a HB5/6, she is not very attractive (ok I guess) but I still kinda game her for practice, and later because she seems to be quite open about her sexuality, which is something I like in girls (girls who can be enjoyable in bed ^ no taboo etc...). My friend's friend is all over her, in a very beta way (all kinds of mistakes I could have probably done if I was a couple years younger and didn't know this sub redit ^ thx), which make it impossible for me to attempt anything serious tonight because I don't want to be seen 'fighting' for her attention. I still manage to kino a lot, throw some sexual innuendos, make her laugh, but never allow myself to go down to my 'competitors' level, and act as much alpha as I can (decide where and what we do when nobody can take a decision, start and end smoking sessions, very subtle but I still think it matters).

This goes well so I try to think of ways to part way with him, or at least have some private time with the girl or isolate her, impossible to do so without acting like a prick.

I can't even outlast him, all of my friends leave at some point (another friend joined us during the night) and we are left all three of us; we finish our beers and head back home, and even there, logistic doesn't permit me to go some way with her alone. She asks both of us our phone number, he takes her phone number and call her so that she has his phone number as well, I know it's the smart thing to do (cuz then you also get her number and can ask her out) but I don't want to go this way, I give her my number but don't get her. When we part (she has to go same direction as the other guy for a bit), I whisper her "call me". I think this was the best move because I wasn't so desperately interested. If she called me, great, if not, no problem, and I think it's more alpha making the girl chase you :)

Thirty minutes later, I get the following text :

"So you don't feel too lonely by your own ? Lol, good night"

My answer :

"Meh, I would have preferred that you come along with me, next time...:)"

Her answer :

"I am not an easy girl, if you are nice, maybe next time...:)"

Which I think confirm what I have been thinking tonight, could have f closed if I could have isolated her. Now I don't know what to text back (something along the line of : "I am not an easy boy either, who says you can go home with me ?" or "we'll see next time"), and in those case, I figure it's always better not to answer. I guess I can set up a date anytime soon and close the deal.

What do you guys think ?