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Ooh quick use the threads Nashville and 14... "So, know where I can find some 14 year olds in Nashville?"
/r/seduction04/06/15 11:47 PM
1

Thank you, this is the real reason, not some evolved psychological test to determine how alpha the man is. Women are children. Children constantly test to see what they can get away with.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 10:19 PM
4

There's no reason to make a sudden awkward move. If you can take her somewhere where it's just the two of you, start talking with your bodies closer to each other. Say something you like about her and just lower your voice and start getting your face closer. If she doesn't lean back then assume the green light. She might even smile or look at your lips. Then you know for sure.
/r/seduction28/08/14 07:38 AM
5

She probably made a mistake and is wondering why you haven't texted her yet.
/r/seduction19/04/14 08:37 PM
2

I would say having the alpha confidence with the capability of beta provisioning and care is considered the LTR jackpot to many women looking to cash out before hitting the wall. However, women are not opposed to having these needs met by a plurality of men. In this case, being the alpha who gets to have sex, would be much preferred over the beta who gets nothing but an empty wallet.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 02:39 AM
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Audio record with your phone at least.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 12:45 AM
2

This should be higher. If you got some mental hookups about sex you're not going to be able to get it up. The first time is not a special event. The whole losing your virginity being a special event is abc family special bullshit. Get an escort, wear a condom, pop some viagra, and get it over with. Then you will realize how your anxiety over it was all in your head.
/r/seduction11/02/14 10:20 PM
10

The dance floor is where women go to satisfy their need to have their need for attention and ego stroked with no necessity to offer anything in return. If you can meet a girl at the bar that is obviously invested in you, the dance floor is a good place to escalate. On the dance floor, random girls are basically using you as a piece of meat, and as you experienced, it's much harder to close this way since she has no idea who you are.
/r/seduction27/01/14 12:01 AM
3

Hanging out with your ex is going to ruin a lot of nights if she pulls away. If she has that much power over your emotions just stop hanging out with her. NYE usually sucks because people have expectations vs just going out for the fuck of it. When you have expectations you lose outcome independence.
/r/seduction01/01/14 11:16 AM
7

Nah I try the more less hardest.
/r/seduction27/08/12 10:43 PM
1

Well done, I like the last line especially.
/r/seduction08/08/12 08:42 PM
6

Unless you're holding and squeezing you're penis at the same time.
/r/seduction08/06/12 06:28 PM
7

Hey guys, just want to point out that this happened in 2006. He filed a lawsuit in 2009. I'm not sure what came out of it.
/r/MensRights28/05/12 10:24 AM
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Sorry, I got to disagree with this one. It's nice to be able to banter, but catering the conversation to her interests doesn't necessarily get you anywhere. Actually, sometimes conversation isn't even necessary. The fact that state of mind and outcome independence rules everything was confirmed to me when I went to Prague, where I escalated with someone who barely spoke English. Once you know she's into you, it's on. Escalate, don't hesitate.
/r/seduction03/04/12 09:10 PM
10

Kiss within five seconds of opening. I've only done this once, but it was amazing.
/r/seduction03/02/12 07:46 PM
0

Lol a lot of clubs in Hollywood are essentially this already.
/r/MensRights30/01/12 09:55 PM
2

Great read. Confirmation that the girl will judge you based on her feelings of you, which could change in an instant. Also girls want to get the guy that isn't a cocky asshole but a friendly confident guy who might seem just out of reach. Also, all the friends in her group must be happy about the situation or one can pull the rest away. Good stuff. The hat opener was simple but effective. Not too try hard, just right...
/r/seduction16/01/12 09:48 PM
1

Epic post man. Keep it up.
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:28 AM
3

Seddittor. Original game was basically catered towards allowing low confident men to achieve success by mimicing the personality of confident men. Go up to her, have this body language, ask this question, tell this back handed compliment, transition to c2 comfort building, etc. Most of us will cringe when we imagine ourselves doing this when we started out, but guess what. It worked and the more girls we were having success with, the more confident we became. Then we realized that confidence is …
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:38 PM
4

Probably depends on your age. If you're still a teen it'll probably go something like this. Oh man I can't believe this is happening, there's actually a naked girl in my bad. Oh man her boobs are so soft and I'm so turned on. Is this gonna happen? Is she gonna let me stick it in? I think I have the green light. (sticks it in) HOLY SHIIIT HERR HERR AHHHHH... If you're much older, you'll probably last a little longer. But either way it's not really different from jerking it, unless you're with som…
/r/seduction11/01/12 10:23 PM
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Completely agree. Game in its old form, with lines and routines allowed the otherwise socially inept man to achieve success even through the use of mimicking a naturally confident man. This success aids in building the man's confidence so that he may start to become more natural and rely less on scripted routines.
/r/seduction03/01/12 03:25 AM
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These girls exist and they are real. This isn't made up shit by bitter men. I dated one of these and she later told me she had a psychiatrist that diagnosed her with one of these. I stayed thinking I could make her happy. Don't do this! If you meet a girl like this run like hell!
/r/seduction28/12/11 06:20 PM
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Not a long time gamer, but I did dabble in it. I agree, going out and meeting girls provides rewarding challenges, and is social. I did notice that I would get bored quickly after trying to play any game for any length of time. Also, going to the gym helps. It's like leveling up in real life.
/r/seduction18/10/11 08:58 PM
1

I'm located about 20-30 miles east of Los Angeles. One thing I forgot to mention, if you do come to the states, join a gym and gain enough muscle so that you don't look like you play starcraft or wow with all your free time. If you're not scrawny like most Asian men, and actually look athletic, it helps tremendously. Girls are superficial, probably more so around this area. But this is a hot spot of a lot of diversity.
/r/seduction19/07/11 08:55 AM
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Ok, I'll be honest with you. Gaming in America is an uphill battle for Asian guys. Even if you are amazingly suave, cool, and confident, there are many white girls that have preconceived notions that Asian men are weird, unsocial, and low value. The ones that you see only hanging out with other white people will often have a sense of superiority about their race. The ones that are more open and hang out with a more diverse group of people, also probably the more intelligent, slightly nerdy ones,…
/r/seduction19/07/11 08:36 AM
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"I couldn't get it in, due to physical penetration problems..." Damn it man, you're not making it any better for us...haha jk. Good job on the successes!
/r/seduction19/07/11 08:13 AM
3

I like to think of it as leveling the playing field. Girls have been giving each other advice on how to be more attractive to men, and even how to manipulate them since the dawn of time.
/r/seduction15/07/11 09:02 PM
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If you're just starting, learn and understand the mystery method based material and go out and just approach lots if women. When you get that experience under your belt, look into deep inner game stuff like blueprint decoded. It's still the gold standard for fundamentally changing your mindset to operate from a position of abundance.
/r/seduction15/07/11 08:40 PM
1

These responses are much better imo. Agree and amplify just comes across as bad humor sometimes.
/r/seduction15/07/11 08:24 PM
6

Dude, you pretty much plagerized all your ideas from http://roissy.wordpress.com/
/r/MensRights15/07/11 04:23 PM
1

Haha, "knob candy." I think we just created a new kino technique...
/r/seduction07/07/11 07:33 AM
1

I see this all this time: boyfriends at the club with their girlfriend having a miserable time. I think this happens because the guy feels like he has nothing to gain by being there (he already has a gf, so why try), and the girl loves the attention of all the guys hitting on her. I think in this situation, it might be better if the guy just go ahead and start cold approaching women in the venue. The danger is if she gets jealous too and decides to ramp it up. I guess this is where abundance men…
/r/seduction30/06/11 08:01 AM
3

What if someone of obvious high value, hits on your gf. He obviously just wants to pump and dump. She can't help but feel attracted. How do you handle this situation? If she cheats, the relationship is over. Would you just tell her it's not acceptable?
/r/seduction30/06/11 07:51 AM
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If she holds your gaze, definitely interested. If she looks away quickly it's either disinterest or nervously faking disinterest. That is why you go up to her either way. "I'm calling the cops." "Why?" "cuz I caught you stealing glances at me." "lol" "or maybe I'll just arrest you myself, hope you like handcuffs (wink)" Warning: has not been field tested. edit: Please don't take what I say as literal advice. As always, what you sub-communicate is more important than what you actually say. Also, …
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:54 AM
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Damn man I feel your pain, but honestly you are young. Girls your age are at their physical and egoic peak. It gets better from here on out. You only get better and higher and value, and girls only age. The component you are missing is largely inner game. Your own mindset is what is holding you back. Look into blueprint decoded stuff, you can find samples on YouTube.
/r/seduction28/06/11 04:20 AM
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Inaction doesn't get you anywhere. However, the important piece of this is when in doubt, ie, when you're doubting yourself, or over analyzing what the next course of action should be. Also, not txting back is better than txting something chumpy. But is still not as good as txting back something flirty that subcommunicates all the right things.
/r/seduction23/06/11 10:50 PM
1

Fuck money, acquire bitches. Haha no just feel it out if she sends some strong flirting your way, go for it. Otherwise, just focus on getting the job.
/r/seduction21/06/11 09:29 PM
1

The first time I heard a girl say she though chuck was the most attractive, I was seriously dumbfounded. I thought Dan would be the nice homely guy that most girls liked. Obviously this was in my horribly afc days. His character does not try to live up to anyone's standards. He lives his life based on his own values, even if he is all about himself.
/r/seduction21/06/11 09:06 PM
2

If she says stop then stop. This is not the same as hold on, not yet, or pushing your hand away. If she really wants you to stop, there will be a distinct change in mood, like if she gets angry. But if your escalating gradually, this shouldn't happen. As always there might be some girls that cry rape for whatever reasons, but don't stick your dick in crazy.
/r/seduction17/06/11 07:36 PM
1

Still I have to say, looks is 80-90%, the better looking you are, the more you can get away with as far as personality flaws are concerned. If you've already maximized you're physical attractiveness, like going to the gym and eating healthy to get a tone figure, learning hair, makeup, fashion to compliment you're style, you're 80-90% there. The rest is just not being crazy.
/r/seduction17/06/11 01:51 AM
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This is really valuable. The mantra should be escalate until you meet resistance, take a step back, then continue escalating. There should never be any question of whether or not to move to the next step. There is only bold forward progress. She will make it obvious if she doesn't want it.
/r/seduction17/06/11 01:39 AM
2

I don't know that this is a common perception. I thought most think the younger, the tougher, simply because that is when they are most attractive and have the most options. Unless we are talking about younger than college. In high school girls are extremely attractive (insert Chris Hanson) but guys are clueless and too busy trying to be cool.
/r/seduction16/06/11 08:36 PM
2

Oh god, under no circumstances shall my female passenger place her hand on the shifter! But, yes, everything else he said.
/r/seduction16/06/11 03:25 AM
1

Just want to add I paid full price for this and it is worth every penny. Got the dvds, don't regret it at all.
/r/seduction16/06/11 12:36 AM
1

Wait. What?
/r/seduction14/06/11 08:00 PM
2

I got this guys. A ride on the back of your brand new motorcycle. Then in the bedroom. Hell yeah. Alpha.
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:22 AM
4

Everything was good up until "you'll have to excuse..." You're starting to get cute after this...it might work for some girls but I'm not really a fan of this kinda txting until after subsequent dates. The whole bit about you promised kind of sub-communicates lower value. Double texting with the "or... no :`( screams beta. Just my two cents. The more she likes you the more leeway you have with this...
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:18 AM
1

nice name close. j/k Goes to show it doesn't matter what you say, it's all about the sub-communication.
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:09 AM
6

I like this. Some variants: What's your story? What makes you, you? So what are you about? So who are you? (mm) What do you like most about yourself?
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:07 AM
7

The dance floor is not conducive to gaming. There are always hoards of clueless men lurking around trying to grind up on girls. Their defense is on defcon 5 and unless you dance like Rick James (which will still come off as try-hard), your lasers will just bounce off their force fields. All the non-dancing areas are fair game. Bonus, come up with a cool story for what happened to your leg. Double points for going in with crutches.
/r/seduction14/06/11 07:01 AM
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Red, I think a little more context might help. How old are you? How old are the chicks you're meeting? Where are you meeting them? What kind of dates are you going on? Do you have any kind of apprehension when you are escalating physically? Are you thinking in your head, "ok now I should be placing my hand on her shoulder..." When you meet a girl at a bar or a club, you should aim to physically escalate quickly, and at least kiss. This sets the tone for the next time you guys meet, and you shoul…
/r/seduction14/06/11 06:55 AM
2

This really isn't a hard question, it isn't typical to go home with someone the first night out and get coerced into fornication despite all your efforts to prevent such a thing from happening. If it it does seem like its going in that direction, it is completely up to you how far you want to take things. Nothing else about gaming chicks is different. Check out the sidebar, and start going out and approaching women, can't get simpler than that.
/r/seduction14/06/11 03:22 AM
1

If you don't see their buying temp going up, you may want to try more direct confident approaches. Seems like you may be coming in under the radar and getting stuck with boring conversation. Fun energy, confident, teasing, be direct. Try that.
/r/seduction11/06/11 04:28 AM
2

What? Whoa I just met you and you already want to talk about my cock?
/r/seduction11/06/11 04:25 AM
1

Wait isn't sex better that way? I'm not sure comfortable is the ideal way to have sex is it?
/r/seduction10/06/11 11:45 PM
2

Relax, it was just a joke, looks fine.
/r/seduction09/06/11 04:00 PM
4

scumbag redditer: creates digital version, puts glare across whole thing.
/r/seduction09/06/11 08:09 AM
1

Notice the first guy handling himself quite nicely and teasing the girls like an expert.
/r/seduction09/06/11 07:24 AM
1

Thank you for this. Don't really get a lot of chances to get to know the perspective of someone who's been through both sides. Thanks.
/r/seduction08/06/11 06:28 PM
2

Thank you for the amazing report. Looks like gaming in your forties isn't so bad afterall. Got a quick question. I'm nearing thirty and am starting to see friends get married. As I've gotten older the less I feel the desire to find the one and get married. Living a life of gaming chicks seems fun and adventurous, but I worry I might feel like I'm missing out on something. What would you recommend based on your experience?
/r/seduction08/06/11 09:19 AM
2

This is similar to Quagmire's "Are those highlights in your hair or potato chips?"
/r/seduction08/06/11 07:44 AM
3

What do you mean he winged the shit out for you? Why don't you just do what he did? Anyway, winging is pretty basic. Just act like he is the alpha male. Also, talk to her ugly friends.
/r/seduction08/06/11 07:42 AM
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I think he accidentally a social calibration.
/r/seduction08/06/11 06:30 AM
1

The Game is the first book I read, and really got me excited about the possibility of actually going out to pick-up chicks. That's about what it's good for, beyond just being a good read. I certainly wouldn't call it a bible. Strauss actually followed this up with the Stylelife Challenge, which was more of an instructional book on pick-up. However, in the community, there is a trend away from routines and a structured pick-up methodology to natural game and deep inner-confidence.
/r/seduction08/06/11 05:14 AM
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Don't rely on it, but definitely remember how it felt, and remind yourself how aa is all in your head. I remember someone even saying they anchored rolling with rubbing their thumb and index finger together, so that he can tap into that head space. I would recommend looking into blueprint decoded. You seem to have some inner game, self-confidence issues, being that you said you rate yourself a four. Coming from a position of lower value is a terrible place to operate from. Otherwise congratulati…
/r/seduction08/06/11 05:09 AM
1

Aside from the weed, I might ditch the question game. It opens up opportunity for the conversation to turn into an interview. Unless you're referring to a different game...
/r/seduction06/06/11 07:43 AM
3

Also poke hole in bottom of popcorn bucket, place on lap.
/r/seduction03/06/11 11:20 PM
1

Don't worry. I will be your wingman. As a 28yo, I will blend right in.
/r/seduction03/06/11 07:45 PM
2

Kinoing in a movie is hard if you haven't already gotten comfortable being close. It also can lead to getting friend zoned very easily, since there is no sexual tension just sitting there watching a movie. You need to set the stage before even going in the theatre. Stick your elbow out, expecting her to grab it, as in you're leading the way. I've never kiss closed in a theater. Seems awkward. Try to get her close to you and comfortable. Kiss close in the parking lot after.
/r/seduction03/06/11 07:04 PM
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Holy crap, white knight downvote brigade. It was a joke playing off the common opinion on seddit that you don't take girl advice from girls. What they think they like is not the same as what they actually find attractive, etc.
/r/seduction31/05/11 07:43 AM
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Wow, a girl actually gives good advice on seddit...
/r/seduction31/05/11 01:28 AM
11

That the rag doesn't have chloroform in it.
/r/seduction30/05/11 08:21 PM
2

For a true beginner, a lot of it might not seem practical. For somebody who's been approaching and wants to take it to the next level of being a confident natural, its genius.
/r/seduction30/05/11 07:36 PM
4

Nice fr. Seems like you opened lots of sets. You're going to encounter racism, and even if you hook the target, often times friends will save her just based on the assumption that there's no way she could be into you. It's too bad, but don't let it get to you, there are still plenty of women out there that are into whatever you are.
/r/seduction30/05/11 09:59 AM
4

Just started going through it. Amazing stuff. Considering how much we spend on useless crap, I really don't regret spending the money on the blueprint. I'd buy it if you can manage it.
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:57 AM
1

God help us...
/r/seduction29/05/11 02:43 AM
13

Give it ten years. It'll be the new hipster fashion.
/r/seduction28/05/11 07:56 PM
3

This also only applies when the club first opens and is the "it" place to be with celebrities making appearances and whatnot. Once this "scene" dies down the club usually goes through a few phases, lastly allowing the more "ghetto" people to have their go before the owners renovate the place, give it a new name, and start over again.
/r/seduction24/05/11 07:23 AM
1

Haven't heard of this one, how's it go? I guess that's why natural game is the next it thing.
/r/seduction24/05/11 01:13 AM
2

That's it? You sir sound needy and insecure. One thing about pickup, once you lose value in her eyes, it's very difficult to gain it back. Abundance mentality, get a new girl. If you're hung up on this, it's oneitis my friend.
/r/seduction24/05/11 12:31 AM
1

Makes you wonder just how popular pickup is.
/r/seduction24/05/11 12:25 AM
1

If a good chick is what you're after, then this one is not it. She probably has self esteem issues and craves attention. She probably even gets off on making multiple guys fight for her. You don't need to dump her but have appropriate expectations. She's going to flirt and Fuck random guys. You can be one of them if you don't give a shit about her behavior. If you can't handle it or fear getting attached, find a nicer girl. They're out there.
/r/seduction23/05/11 08:48 PM
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Gave you an upvote. I guess a lot of people are reluctant to get into discussions on structured pickup routines because the information is readily available. You can pickup several books from Amazon that delve into this, such as Venusian Arts or the Style's 30 day Challenge or something. Structured pickup is also considered "old school." But, I agree that a beginner has to start somewhere.
/r/seduction23/05/11 04:26 AM
11

Not trying to be politically correct but I've seem amazing girls of all races.
/r/seduction21/05/11 12:29 AM
1

That is awesome. Haha
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:26 PM
1

So she gave the phone to her friend who pretended to speak French? That's fucked up. Don't waste your energy on immature girls like this.
/r/seduction19/05/11 05:02 PM
5

Just curious, where did you actually do it?
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:55 PM
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I rarely call any more. For me it's all txting. In general, keep txting light, try some quick banter, joke about something you guys talked about, or tease her about something. After you can tell she's responding positively, say something like hey you free tomorrow night? If she is into you, but isn't free, she will suggest an alternative time. If she's blowing you off, she'll either not respond or give an excuse without suggesting another day. If this happens you can still try saying "np, I'll t…
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:23 AM
1

Somethings tells me this might have been terribly awkward. Did you ask her out to a movie as a first date? Talking about a threesome is not a display of confidence. Being confident is a display of confidence. Also, conversation plan? I think this one might be done. Just for shits, txt her and ask her if she wants to join you at a bar tomorrow night. If she declines, move on. More than this, you seem kind of new, read the stuff in the sidebar and just go out and open lots of sets if you haven't a…
/r/seduction19/05/11 07:06 AM
2

How old is she? If she's young, say younger than 25, I'd say txt. Talking to people on the phone is strangely a lost art for young people.
/r/seduction19/05/11 06:59 AM
2

Feel your pain. But you have to go out there and plow through it. Enough positive feedback will help cancel that one negative experience.
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:30 AM
1

Her face and the porno music was too distracting. Otherwise I think I agree with whatever she said...
/r/MensRights19/05/11 02:57 AM
3

Sarging with you guys seems awesomeness. How do you guys manage over there? What kind of jobs do you guys have?
/r/seduction19/05/11 12:25 AM
6

Seriously? Nobody? Fine. I'll do it. Step 1. Be attractive. Step 2. Don't be unattractive.
/r/seduction19/05/11 12:21 AM
5

Oneitis is whenever your state of mind depends on the success or lack thereof while pursuing a single girl. You can get oneitis even while dating other women. When you start to think, "oh man I really like her, I hope I do and say the right things to not Fuck this up" you have oneitis. It's really more about the mindset that she is really important to your happiness, or that you feel like you have a chance with someone that you feel has higher value than you. This is why abundance mentality is s…
/r/seduction18/05/11 08:26 PM
1

Lol that was pretty funny
/r/seduction18/05/11 07:13 PM
2

Outcome independent, but be the cause for action.
/r/seduction18/05/11 07:12 PM
2

More than not looking desperate, don't be desperate. Don't let any one girl mean that much to you.
/r/seduction18/05/11 01:58 AM
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You're totally fine. I see nothing wrong with anything besides you being way too outcome dependant, and over analyzing everything, which means being in your head way too much. She's in a dating frame, which is normal. You're in a I need to quickly escalate to sex frame. Which is normal, for a club hooch. Relax, she seems like a cool girl, and she seems into you. Just because you didn't Fuck her when she went into your room to change out of her scrubs does not mean you failed. Just remember to ha…
/r/seduction17/05/11 09:14 PM
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WAT THE FAK GAY SHIT IS THIS! Haha jk welcome to the club mate.
/r/seduction17/05/11 05:23 AM
1

Hey tofu. Just read your fr on the lmr girl. Just curious if you considered putting in the banana before her coming. Maybe she wouldn't have told you to pull it out so fast. Just wondering if there's more to this.
/r/seduction17/05/11 12:28 AM
3

Or creepy if you do it from behind as an opener.
/r/seduction16/05/11 06:08 AM
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Nice. I like to use rags and ask them what it smells like.
/r/seduction16/05/11 05:27 AM
1

It's all about giving value, but you have to have value to begin with, otherwise it just seems try hard.
/r/seduction16/05/11 01:49 AM
1

Make her the one that feels awkward by you hitting on her. You're a man and you want sex. Don't be ashamed of it!
/r/seduction13/05/11 09:02 PM
6

Love this
/r/seduction13/05/11 08:53 PM
2

You did fine, don't let a girl's issues make you doubt yourself. There are plenty of other girls that will make time for you.
/r/seduction13/05/11 08:52 PM
1

Yes alcohol kills game as much as it kills inhibition. Go out again sober and have fun.
/r/seduction13/05/11 08:46 PM
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Hey man, everybody goes through rough patches, you might also want to consider that as you get better, you have rising standards for success. I remember seeing a girl I gamed at a fashion show a few months later and thinking how much my standards have risen. I think people who get into pickup are always trying a reach a little higher. When you started you would've been happy if you just got a phone number. Now you're not happy if you don't have fwb's lined up for every day of the week. Don't be …
/r/seduction13/05/11 07:43 PM
2

No its actually two to three.
/r/seduction13/05/11 01:45 AM
4

That's a good crazy test, I may have to implement this...
/r/seduction12/05/11 08:29 PM
4

I like this mentality. If you don't get it now, you're not going to get it later. Better find out sooner than later.
/r/seduction12/05/11 07:24 AM
2

Hey just to clarify, I was making a joke about how it's not hard to be tall in Japan, that's all.
/r/seduction12/05/11 04:49 AM
3

I dunno, say it the way he says it and it might work...
/r/seduction12/05/11 02:30 AM
5

All I want to know is, wtf is Kevin Bacon doing in this movie?
/r/seduction12/05/11 02:27 AM
1

Doesn't matter, but, you do realize he's in Japan right? Haha
/r/seduction11/05/11 11:56 PM
3

Going along with that metaphor, in your interactions, you want to maintain the dynamic that she wants you slightly more than you want her, when she feels like this has flipped, she will lose attraction for you.
/r/seduction11/05/11 11:08 PM
5

Wow I had to double check, for a second there I thought I had accidentally posted in youtube.
/r/seduction11/05/11 10:59 PM
2

So, because I used to be socially awkward before like most of seddit, and because I'm Asian, I'm going to have an arranged marriage with a curry smelling fat wife? How stupid are you.
/r/seduction11/05/11 10:42 PM
1

Not to take anything away from tofu's game, which is rock solid. Keep in mind gaming in Asia is all else equal, a little easier for Americans. These reasons include, lack of feminism, larger supply of non-fat doable women, less self-entitlement, and males are typically less alpha. Whether or not being white makes any difference is another topic but as an Asian American, gaming in Asia has been easier, from my experience.
/r/seduction11/05/11 10:36 PM
7

Holy shit that was racist.
/r/seduction11/05/11 10:26 PM
3

I'm really interested in the breakdown of seddit, maybe age, gender, ethnicity, income, goals, years practicing, number of partners, etc
/r/seduction11/05/11 05:01 PM
1

Good job dude. What about pickup? Has that changed you a lot?
/r/seduction11/05/11 02:54 AM
2

I don't totally agree with calling chode or afc not getting it. Most people here can feel a certain amount of transformation from how they were, felt about, and acted around women. So when we see people acting in this way, like trying to buy a drink for a girl in efforts to get somewhere, we see chode or afc behavior. It's basically used as a way to term what not to do, that most frustrated guys tend to do.
/r/seduction10/05/11 09:32 PM
1

Yeah you might want to look into blueprint decoded. There are sample vids on YouTube. I've tried to make my game more natural, but that is basically improving myself and changing limiting beliefs.
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:43 PM
1

What area are you in?
/r/seduction10/05/11 03:55 PM
1

Unless she's qualifying herself to you, then its appropriate to verbalize appreciation for her unique personality traits or energy. It helps justify your interest beyond wanting the sex. This is all after attraction and before bedroom. But yes in general saying how much you like her should be saved for after sex.
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:42 AM
2

Does this club not have areas where people aren't dancing? Opening on the floor is typically low success rate.
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:38 AM
2

I look back on how I was before pickup, and I'm pretty sure I had aspergers. My parents even think so. Or I could have just been the typical Asian engineer. I don't know. But I did start off knowing very little about social interaction and read the game, and read a book on the mystery method. That old school formulaic style of pickup is probably appealing to aspies. My first approach involved me running routines back to back and I was able to get a number and a date at the county fair. By the ti…
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:34 AM
2

When's the last time you actually called someone by looking for their business card. Meeting a girl should be fun and exciting, not a business transaction. Plus, cell phones, like, such as.
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:18 AM
6

Thank you for this, Asian American sedditor here. I must say, getting into cold approach pickup has transformed my life. I scored a perfect 800 on the math section of the SAT. Went to an engineering college, and now do mechanical engineering. I swear I was so socially awkward before getting into pickup that I could be classified as having aspergers. Even socializing with coworkers was awkward. Probably one of the best side effects of pickup is just becoming socially calibrated, and getting out o…
/r/seduction10/05/11 08:14 AM
5

This kid has more game than the vast majority of reddit...but not seddit! What's with the adults telling them no more? Jeez let the kids express their liking for each other. It will never be as innocent.
/r/seduction10/05/11 07:27 AM
1

That was great. Thanks for that.
/r/seduction10/05/11 07:23 AM
1

Holy shit my panties just got wet. We need to be friends. And I'm a dude.
/r/seduction09/05/11 08:28 PM
3

Not sure where I saw this, might have been flawless natural, but when you talk, the end of your sentence either rise in pitch, stay the same, or lower. Rising is rapport seeking, lowering is rapport breaking, neutral is in between. When you say hey, what's up, its not how a gay guy would say it for lack of a better term. It's how "the rock" might say it. If that makes sense. Body language is just fully commiting, facing them. This won't work with over the shoulder head turn, old school style. Bu…
/r/seduction07/05/11 09:57 PM
3

Basically how my ex met me. She had Bpd. Please beware of the Bpd. It will ruin your life slowly.
/r/seduction07/05/11 09:00 PM
1

I like how two of the female categories are synonyms for "crazy"
/r/seduction07/05/11 08:44 PM
3

Great. Next time I hit the club, everyone will be sitting on the floor giving each other back rubs. Haha jk. I've also tried to relate rolling to being in the now. Reading power of now by tolle really opened my eyes to this. It's ridiculous how much of this stuff is in our heads. I like the anchoring idea also. Brilliant.
/r/seduction07/05/11 08:39 PM
2

Turns out I was preaching to the choir. Apologies!
/r/seduction07/05/11 08:32 PM
1

This really isn't as complicated as some are making it.
/r/seduction06/05/11 02:01 AM
2

I'm hugging a girl, and then I JIZZED, IN, MY PANTS
/r/seduction06/05/11 01:56 AM
13

I was in a seven year relationship, living together. Same shit. Relationship got boring. She started going out with coworkers more. Found out about a French intern that she would conveniently forget to mention. She told me nothing would happen. Then later she told me they made out. We are not still together. The problem is that women think with their emotions. This boss is exciting to her. Losing a family, and fucking up her kids life is future risk that women can't process. You have to prevent …
/r/seduction05/05/11 12:54 AM
2

Reading your title I though you beat up a woman. Congrats on your successes.
/r/seduction04/05/11 09:01 PM
2

Hey I just saw a spider crawl under your shirt.(after she frantically strips her shirt off) Haha just kidding, hi my name is ... Warning: not field tested.
/r/seduction04/05/11 12:58 AM
1

Been there don't worry. Just take every experience as more knowledge for future interactions. Getting physical early on is important. The kiss is really only a big deal if you make it. Start talking slower and softer. Whisper in her ear a little then just do it. Or say, I have to kiss you, right now. And do it. After that the escalation is pretty simple.
/r/seduction03/05/11 09:09 PM
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Add her on fb, then fap furiously to her pictures. How to interpret her response kind of depends on how close you guys got that night. Sounds like the number close may have been kind of weak. She might be letting you down but let's assume attraction and go with her shit testing you with the inclusion of the smiley face. I might answer, yeah good thing we're not inviting them to drinks then. How's tomorrow at eight sound?
/r/seduction03/05/11 08:41 PM
2

I'm going to go against the grain and say that this fr does provide useful information. It reaffirms the notion that non verbal communication plus confidence plus knowing how to boldly lead the interaction equals results. He could have chickened out and did nothing with the strong eye contact or got nervous. Good work.
/r/seduction02/05/11 01:38 AM
3

Haha that was awesome. Be self amused. They might find it funny if you had a smirk but who cares.
/r/seduction30/04/11 01:43 AM
3

Just say I'm 60 with a straight face.
/r/seduction29/04/11 11:17 PM
1

Work on your looks, or work on your personality. Up to you. Good luck.
/r/seduction29/04/11 06:49 AM
5

OMG the white-knighting in seddit has to stop! Seddit is for males seeking and giving advice on attracting women. This is fundamentally different from women trying to attract men. Men's value, in women's eyes, is a mixture of looks, personality, status, confidence, and a variety of other nuances. Women's value, in men's eyes, is largely looks (probably 80-90% for most men). A great personality can give you a few small bonus points, but it doesn't make up for a huge deficit in physical attractive…
/r/seduction29/04/11 05:14 AM
3

post a situation, I'll give it my best shot
/r/seduction29/04/11 04:45 AM
3

Fuck I wish I had learned seduction in high school.
/r/seduction29/04/11 04:09 AM
2

Nice. Can't wait to see the results.
/r/seduction29/04/11 01:50 AM
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The goal is to pass the shit test while still retaining positive energy in the interaction. I would say, I'm sorry I don't remember sleeping with you with a big smirk. If she's just trying to score free drinks, which many girls do, she will scoff and walk away. Who cares. If she was shit testing you then you passed. She might ask you what you mean, in which you say, free drinks from me are reserved for very special girls in club 'shujin'. If she asks how to join, say you can come to my place ton…
/r/seduction28/04/11 09:15 PM
5

Tyler durdan from real social dynamics and blueprint decoded talks a lot about this stuff. You can find a lot of videos from his bootcamps on you tube. Going from beta to alpha is a difficult step because it involves changing a lot of social conditioning. Are you the leader of your group of friends? Do they come to you to decide what to do? Do you care a lot about what people think of you? There are naturals that have always been good with people and girls that just happened to be that way throu…
/r/seduction27/04/11 09:18 PM
4

It's ok I can sleep in your bed. You can get the floor. ;) But honestly I don't know if she already friend zoned you. Two dates with no kiss means you prob acted all beta like and killed the attraction.
/r/seduction27/04/11 07:45 PM
1

Yup
/r/seduction23/04/11 09:23 PM
2

Looking at him and thinking, how does this guy get girls is just your brain naturally sizing him up. The truth is, how you see him is different from how girls may see him. Ever look at a guy with a hot girl and think. What the fuck that guys a Dick, loser gangster, douchebag, prick. He has a very powerful message about becoming inner game, and fundamentally changing the way you perceive your status to be.
/r/seduction23/04/11 02:11 AM
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Slow clap...excellent dude. We need more fr's like this. Seddit is in need of more of day twos and after. I love how you stopped her and took action to kiss her. A chode would've watched the whole movie, maybe trying a hover hand. Also physical push pull, like, such as. Good work.
/r/seduction23/04/11 01:51 AM
2

Is this stuff newer than the blueprint? His perspective really gets at the core of seduction. Amazing really.
/r/seduction21/04/11 07:45 AM
5

The kiss should not be a big jump in escalation. You guys should already be comfortable arm around her, talking with your faces close. You can do a kiss gambit or you can just say I have to kiss you right now and go for it.
/r/seduction21/04/11 02:14 AM
1

Why am I getting so many upvotes, are gold stars magical? Hmmm...
/r/seduction21/04/11 01:00 AM
1

Because this is seddit. Sexually frustrated men taking their aggression out by downvoting. Makes them feel "alpha." Btw, should I say happy 420 with correct capitalization? Haha jk
/r/seduction20/04/11 11:48 PM
1

We already have the stylelife thirty day challenge, so this shouldn't really be geared towards newbies, or as a tutorial. I think this should be for intermediates to try new things and push the envelope, similar to keys to the vip. Heres an idea, open a mixed set and remember everyone's names. Extra credit make the guys like you, and get one of the girls phone number.
/r/seduction20/04/11 11:37 PM
1

What's ppp?
/r/seduction20/04/11 08:53 PM
1

Love this idea, we need someone to pick the challenges each week and post them, otherwise we might get too many random ones. Who wants to manage this?
/r/seduction20/04/11 07:30 PM
46

Holy shit. Gold star for you. Actually, take two.
/r/seduction20/04/11 07:27 PM
19

Thanks for giving me the tea bag. Come over to my place tomorrow so I can return the favor. No don't do that. She seems like a nice girl. No tea bagging jokes.
/r/seduction20/04/11 07:13 PM
3

"you guys just look like a bunch of retards, so are you guys cool though?" "that's not very nice, you can leave now" "i know that's not very nice. listen, there's a reason why i said it though. here's the thing. ok, do you guys think retards are funny?" target (now smiling): "it depends" Cajun (finishing dhv story):"...anyway the mom started laughing, then i started laughing, and we kinda looked at each other like, yea retards are kinda funny"
/r/seduction20/04/11 04:17 AM
1

lol
/r/seduction20/04/11 03:00 AM
1

Don't dumb hot girls deserve love too? Someone's got to be willing to look past their lack of intelligence and appreciate their outer beauty right?
/r/seduction20/04/11 12:23 AM
0

Write like moran, more sexy time!
/r/seduction20/04/11 12:18 AM
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Yes, throw in spelling mistakes for good measure.
/r/seduction19/04/11 10:34 PM
-3

As long as youre not acting dumber than her, being smart isn't always attractive. It can work against you if you're much smarter than her. If she's hot but dumb as a doorknob, don't use any words longer than eight letters.
/r/seduction19/04/11 10:31 PM
3

If a few days go by without response don't worry. I'm sure you've let a txt slip by before. Next time you txt her, don't even mention her not replying, just bring up a different topic. That said it seems like txting is not really the best communicatuon for her, because of the long breaks in replies. If you want to set up a meet, call her. Shoot the shit for a while then ask her when a good time for you to visit would be.
/r/seduction19/04/11 08:48 PM
0

So you read r/seduction too huh? Haha
/r/MensRights18/04/11 08:08 PM
1

I appreciate your candor. At least you admit to the advantages one might have, being part of the majority.
/r/seduction18/04/11 04:35 PM
53

These chodes see a hot blonde and throw away all their principles and help her steal a bike. Just another example of how some females live in a completely different reality thanks to betas bending over backwards to help them do something as ridiculous as stealing a bike. Please tell your buddies to stop this madness.
/r/seduction18/04/11 02:03 AM
4

This FR reads like it's straight out of "The Game" haha. Very nice job though. How old is she if you don't mind me asking?
/r/seduction17/04/11 04:02 AM
2

The point of negs is to immediately distinguish yourself from the hundreds I of strangers that have approached her already that day or night. Imagine if you were a rockstar and girls fat and ugly tried to get you to talk to them every time you went shopping, or got gas at the gas station. You'd quickly learn to shut those interactions down fast so you can continue with your life. When you neg, it shows her that you don't automaticlly give her higher value just because of her looks. You're not dr…
/r/seduction17/04/11 03:27 AM
1

I wouldn't wear the shirt unless I was in college or something. Much older, it does seem kind of childish to wear shirts with clever jokes in them. But, if it's congruent with who you are, like if youre naturally a funny charismatic, don't give a fuck, slightly youthful type of guy, you could pull it off. The problem is that the joke is being lazy. Just seems like it would be really hard to pull off.
/r/seduction16/04/11 11:20 PM
2

Great field report. I like the telling her that she's going to give you her number. I wonder if you've ever tried, you're going to kiss me now. Or, we are going to have the sex now.
/r/seduction16/04/11 09:57 PM
6

Even though there results weren't good. There's probably a lot of value in going out there and doing something like this. Certainly, it will take the sting off of rejection.
/r/seduction13/04/11 07:41 AM
2

Call this alpha, or owning your frame, or whatever. This guy has embodied the concept of internalizing awesome and not giving a fuck. Here's another where he just caveman's a reporter. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wQb4ieoWp9w I realize a lot of guys might watch this and think, man he's an asshole. Well maybe there's a reason why the assholes seem to get the girls. To the average guy, he seems like an asshole, but that's just our perception. To a women, he's just a guy that makes no apologies f…
/r/seduction13/04/11 06:39 AM
3

Not sure if everyone knows where this meme came from, but it's actually from a sexual harassment skit from SNL. Jokes aside, if you're truly confident with yourself, and you truly embody the notion that you are an awesome man, it doesn't really matter what you say. The non-verbal communication matters more. Women pick up on the vibe you're radiating before you even open your mouth. That said, please still wear pants, and don't go straight for the boob grab (unless you're TofuTofu).
/r/seduction12/04/11 07:24 AM
1

Thanks for the rapport building. Have an upboat.
/r/seduction12/04/11 04:56 AM
1

Hmm...this guy definitely goes against the grain, but has a refreshing perspective... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E-6p96HBO3A
/r/seduction12/04/11 03:47 AM
56

Looks like you learned the answer to the pivotal moment: gotta make my mind up, which seat can i taaaake
/r/seduction12/04/11 01:36 AM
5

You know you like it.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:23 AM
3

Don't be that guy neither.
/r/seduction12/04/11 12:22 AM
1

There might be some good lessons to be learned from this movie. Previews are usually a poor indication of what the movie is really about. I'm actually pretty interested in watching it, despite potentially disagreeing with the message. Although, in reality wives get bored and cheat all the time, not that this is ok. Some guys actually want to fight to save the marriage. If this movie paints a perspective of what people might go through emotionally when this happens I don't see it as that big of a…
/r/MensRights11/04/11 08:39 AM
1

Well, at school, I can see how this can happen often. Meeting someone one on one when you've never known each other previously. The intention is pretty clear, she's going in with the mindset of seeing if there might be romantic potential. Unless, she already has a bf, and is just messing around. Or if she's just trying to game free meals. There are crazies that actually do this but from what you shared she seems like she's into you. Don't worry about it. If you're kinoing and flirting, just esca…
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:48 AM
1

Whoa, that's a lot of questions. You're going to get different answers from different people. First off let me say that having a plan is good. On the flip side, if you place too much importance of the outcome of this date, you're going to be nervous and it'll sabotage your chances before you even walk out the door. Think to yourself, "this is a social experiment, I'm doing this just for the academic learning process. Whatever the results, I'm happy with it." As far as asking her out. If you're l…
/r/seduction11/04/11 06:05 AM
2

Yeah I don't know if I'd say best example of truly "alpha" just from that. He does seem comfortable in his own skin, and unapologetic about his accomplishments.
/r/seduction11/04/11 05:47 AM
5

Tofu's routine is pretty sick. If you want something a little simpler, you can ask her to pick between two things, like two sports or whatever. When she replies, you can be like, "What? Are you serious? Yeah we can't be friends. I'm going to go talk to someone else." Take a few steps away. "Just kidding, we can friends, but that's it...don't get your hopes up." etc...
/r/seduction11/04/11 05:42 AM
1

I'm going to go against the grain and say pickup lines work as long as she gets a laugh out of it and you've got the frame to pull it off. Actually if you've got the frame you can pretty much say anything as long as its not disrespectful or overtly sexually creepy. I also saw this golden nugget in that worst pickup line post on askreddit. You can take it further and ask her what her shirt is made of. She'll probably say girl friend material? And you can say how am I supposed to know? I just aske…
/r/seduction10/04/11 10:49 PM
2

Nope you are doing it all win. Charlie sheen would be proud. Also, tiger blood like, such as.
/r/seduction10/04/11 10:27 PM
1

Thank you for doing this. I like the reference to the conversation skills, confidence catch22.
/r/seduction10/04/11 10:24 PM
3

Girls with boyfriends often seek attention from other guys when she's not happy about something in the relationship. However, as long as she's still with him, you're always going to come second. Moreover, she's really just using you for her own self-indulgence to make her feel better about herself. I know how hard it is to crush on someone with a boyfriend, especially if you're a one-itis type of guy. If you can muster the will, just forget about this girl. Seriously, you'd have to be a masochis…
/r/seduction10/04/11 09:55 PM
0

Yeah I saw that post too, heh.
/r/seduction09/04/11 10:59 PM
1

Sounds theres a story here. Haha I'd like to hear.
/r/seduction09/04/11 08:35 AM
1

I think this deserves its own fr don't you think? Haha
/r/seduction09/04/11 12:19 AM
1

In some cases, such as this, just don't respond. If you've already waited a long time the humor may come off a little try hard. The challenge will be trying to set up a day two, you don't want to lose momentum, since she can pretty much meet anyone when she goes out. But you don't want to seem eager either. You can txt her, hey I'm going to hit up bar x tonight, come join me, if you think you can handle me ;)
/r/seduction09/04/11 12:18 AM
1

Easy for you to say, you have a girlfriend! Haha jk I like the concept of embracing yourself even if it's against the grain.
/r/seduction09/04/11 12:02 AM
3

Wait, gardening? Like growing a certain plant indoors? Or like planting fruits?
/r/seduction08/04/11 11:57 PM
1

Hey, I'm in the area too, wouldn't mind sarging with some redditers. Message me.
/r/seduction08/04/11 06:15 PM
2

Unfortunately, it may not be this simple. If the date sucked, it won't matter how he frames the proposition for the next date. Likely, she already knows enough about the guy from the first date to decide whether or not there will be a next one. But, if she's on the fence, yes you could screw it up by asking on Monday what she wants to do on the weekend. The two problems with this are that you're giving her decision making control and that it's signaling you're so eager about it that you're think…
/r/seduction06/04/11 03:58 AM
0

I'm printing this out and taping it to my mirror. Then I'm going to play back a recording of me saying this stuff before I go out Haha brilliant mate.
/r/seduction04/04/11 09:33 PM
3

I'm guessing one of the problems, besides not being gradual, was that it wasn't consistent with his frame. I'm sure is you were really attracted to him otherwise, you wouldn't mind the obvious gesture. If he knew better he would of been like, "so I'm supposed to do this? And then this right, and I gradually lean in for a kiss right like so?" Haha
/r/seduction04/04/11 07:26 AM
1

Didn't see anything that would indicate that she ended up liking him, but I might have missed something. I do have a lot more respect for Neil, after seeing how insights his responses were. Thanks for sharing this.
/r/seduction04/04/11 03:18 AM
2

They kind of go hand in hand. But i would say that getting rid of aa is a subset of having more confidence. Aa will subside naturally as you have more approaches and realize that doing x and saying y leads to z results. Getting rid of aa doesn't automatically lead to being confident but it will help you become more confident in your interaction especially opening. But you'll also need confidence on dates, and kino escalating, and in bed. These things come with experience. And the only way to exp…
/r/seduction01/04/11 10:55 PM
1

Having more confidence and less insecurities is the larger goal. With this, a lot of things come naturally, like less aa. But yes as you do more approaches, you'll have more confidence, mainly because you'll start to realize it's not a big deal. You'll also be less attached to the actual results. You'll also start to become naturally more socialable. At some point, you'll stop thinking about the specific tactics and it'll just come naturally.
/r/seduction01/04/11 10:35 PM
2

Good fr. Bar solo is tough. Cherish each interaction you get at the bar, but don't seem like you're seeking value from them. I get that from the way you perceive others to not want to talk to you or talking out of pity. That might be your own insecurities, I don't know. You might just seem like you don't really fit in with the bar crowd. But keep going out and keep trying to be more secure about who you are.
/r/seduction01/04/11 09:03 PM
1

Haha I love the you can dress her up but you can't take her anywhere on the baby lol nice neg hahaha
/r/seduction01/04/11 08:53 PM
1

Haha I just saw the packaging. I wonder how many girls would have second thoughts eating that "mystery candy" haha
/r/seduction01/04/11 03:33 AM
1

Don't be results driven, for now just focus on the process. I applaud you for having the courage to follow through and try. That said here is my constructive criticism. You went back the second day specifically to ask her out. From her perspective, that shows her that you give her a lot I'd value, even though you're previous interaction didn't really warrant it. It shows that you like her for attributes you can notice in that short amount of time, ie probably her looks. So you must not interact …
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:53 PM
1

Good work man, opening and chatting with guys is just as important, helps you develop well rounded social skills. If she notices you're awkward socializing with dudes, she may wonder just how genuine and cool you really are. As for opening really attractive girls, its always going to intimidating. They are approached all the time. Some practical advice, try to look for the type that might be nice, or friendly. The kind that doesn't hit the club every weekend. The girl that has that look on her f…
/r/seduction31/03/11 08:25 PM
1

Yup, I agree. Although women may place less significance on physical looks, than men do on women, when considering his 1-10 rating. Like you said, some give considerable weight to status, or money. The good thing is, there are things men can do about their looks, like fashion, getting fit, etc. Add a bit of game, leading to confidence, and he can do quite well, but the process of improving yourself in the long run takes work and a willingness to change who you are.
/r/seduction29/03/11 08:41 PM
3

You did awesome. Don't over analyze yourself, you did it, and you gained experience. Win.
/r/seduction24/03/11 05:39 PM
8

Oh man, I'm so guilty of saying "yeah" all the time. Fuck I must be a bore to talk to. Yes, and. Yes, but. Golden.
/r/seduction23/03/11 05:32 AM
3

I like your list. A, B, C, D, C, D, E. haha Good advice though.
/r/seduction23/03/11 03:25 AM
2

Look her dead in the eye, confidently, and suavely say, "My apologies, you seemed like a nice interesting person. My mistake." Give a friendly pat on the back and walk away.
/r/seduction22/03/11 08:28 PM
2

"What the hell do you do in this situation? One girl was showing some IOIs in me, but I had to worry about these two dumb fucks trying to fight me and trying to keep control of the situation." Abundance mentality, if no single girl is worth you getting oneitis over, she certainly isn't worth risking getting into a fight with a couple of drunk douchebags over. I know it's tough to remember this in the moment, especially since gaming is all about the "alpha" mindset and ditching your "beta" ways. …
/r/seduction15/03/11 07:03 AM
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Take a mental step back. What % of the sets you open do you expect to go well. The idea of going out and doing this is to increase the percentage of positive interactions. This times the increased number of interactions leads to more overall positive experiences. If you micro-analyze each failure and try to figure out where you went wrong, it's like trying to learn a lesson from each failed blackjack hand. You're just going to beat yourself up over it. There will be good nights, and there will b…
/r/seduction15/03/11 06:46 AM
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You're not missing anything. Girls that party with him probably love him because, like you said, he doesn't give a fuck, lives by his own rules, and says fuck you to "the man." He says whatever he wants during the interview because he doesn't give two shits about the consequences. People naturally tend to dislike people like that because the rest of us have naturally conformed to society and social norms, because it reminds us that a part of us has bent over to just to survive in this society. T…
/r/seduction15/03/11 06:38 AM
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What makes you think you messed up? Try not to over analyze txt messages. If she doesn't respond to your txt, or takes forever, none of these mean anything. It's perfectly normal for people to get caught up in whatever activities of the day and forget to respond. Also, many people just don't like having conversations over txt, and prefer to use it for quick logistical messages. Some girls have this thing about the guy having to call them, to prove that they're confident enough, or even that they…
/r/seduction15/03/11 06:11 AM
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Second try, "oh don't worry, you don't have to come home with me, my friend can give you a ride to my place"
/r/seduction13/03/11 03:16 AM
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Sounds a bit over analyzing for a silly joke, but fair enough. What's your advice for the op?
/r/seduction13/03/11 03:13 AM
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You probably didn't do anything wrong. Just be careful to never insult a girl. She might have taken what you said the wrong way, but I'm not sure. But whatever. If she isn't answering your calls, then move on.
/r/seduction12/03/11 07:08 PM
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This. Tease her, oh, so you're trying to get me to go to your place huh? Sorry, I'm not that easy.
/r/seduction12/03/11 07:01 PM
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Absolutely do not do this. Seriously. You have nothing to gain by this strategy. Think about why you are considering doing this. You like her. Your goal is for her to like you back. Internalize this, you want to maximize the possibility of her liking you back. If you do this, and it doesn't work, fine at least you tried. But don't minimize that possibility, which is exactly what you'll do if you drop this bomb on her. Even if she fooled around with the idea of you being more than just a friend, …
/r/seduction03/03/11 06:10 AM
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I like this...
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:48 AM
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I read that as cunilingus, and thought, well of course girls are calling you up!
/r/seduction03/03/11 05:47 AM
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K closing is not a big deal when she's into you. There are a few conditions though. Attraction and rapport should already be established, as well as a general sense of pair bonding. Basically she already wants to kiss you but just needs you to make the move and do it in a non creepy way. You also want to try to isolate and take her to a more private place in the venue, nobody wants to kiss where people can watch (unless they're piss drunk). Just lean in close to her ear, ask if she's a good kiss…
/r/seduction17/02/11 03:23 AM
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Congrats on taking the initiative to actually do what few men have the balls to do. Flying solo is intimidating at first, but you may find you prefer it later since friends often hinder more than they help (unless they are excellent at occupying the grenade). When flying solo, two sets will be difficult because they will stick together. Bigger sets offer you the chance to isolate if so desired. As for aa, there are several things that you can do. Have a canned opener, something that you can fall…
/r/seduction16/02/11 09:13 AM
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Agreed. True confidence is independent of girls. That would be the end game. The confidence I was thinking about when referring to the catch22 was that of action-to-outcome, the ability to feel that a girl will respond a certain way, if you behave, or say a certain thing. An intermediary social confidence, if you will, that pickup acts as a crutch for, that appeals so socially awkward people. But yeah, spot on.
/r/seduction15/02/11 10:17 PM
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Actually, a neg is supposed to show her that you are not hitting on her. It is supposed to differentiate you from the losers that come up to her and say nice shoes. Mystery says that it disqualifies you as being a potential suitor, which hot women have learned to blow off efficiently, since it happens daily. It's supposed to show her that you aren't automatically liking her because you think she is of higher value for being a hot girl. Unfortunately, this idea has turned into sometimes insulting…
/r/seduction15/02/11 08:47 PM
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Because she texted you the next morning, she's trying to tell you that she is interested despite the awkward goodbye. Why she ended the kiss and left may be because of her own personal reasons, that have nothing to do with you. Maybe she promised herself never to kiss on a first date because of bad past experiences, and thought to herself, "what am I doing?" And left in a panic. She is definitely into you, perhaps just trying to protect herself from getting hurt. Next time, kino escalate gradual…
/r/seduction14/02/11 04:02 AM
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