Is it really oneitis, when you are conscious that it's oneitis? Ive heard oneitis the belief that there's only one girl for you, but what does it become when you consciously realize that there are other women out there, and you're self-aware of your condition?

Besides that, what's the best method to crush oneitis? I was first introduced to the seduction community via Neil Strauss's The Game, in which it's said to properly get over that one girl, you have to sleep with ten others and ask yourself is she really all that special?

Contrastingly, a friend this year told me that the real way, and seddit approved way, is to pursue the girl until the definite end, so that even you realize that there's nothing else left to it.

Which between these methods is best? What other methods are there? I've got a specific situation that I'll take to AskSeddit for more advice.

EDIT: specific situation