To clarify, this isn't my first kiss, it's my first kiss that I can say happened as a result of seduction methods.

How I Met Her

I met up with a friend from the NJ Groupme to go to a mall and run daygame. I only run daygame as of now cause I'm not old enough to go to bars and my club-game is pretty bad. I do direct approaches because I like to be blunt my desires/intentions and I have trouble moving from the point of an indirect approach.

So on an elevator I saw her in a black dress and said

"God, you are probably the hottest girl I've seen in the mall today." She turns around flattered, I joke about how this is a normal thing for her, she gives a humorous shrug and a smile. We talk a bit about what she's doing in the mall, where we work. Turns out we worked in the same mall for like a year, never saw her there, and I just transferred to a new location. Would've been the EASIEST lunch-break dates.

But after the banter, I got her number and went about the week. I didn't run a lot of text game on her cause I'm not the best at texting, so I like to use it only as a means of setting up a meet as of now. I also believed her to be around 23-4 based on her appearance when I met her. I didn't see it worth much effort if at some point I'd have to let her know I'm under 21. Here's an imgur album of our conversation if anyone could give me pointers on texting game.

So we met up for froyo last night. Hardly recognized her since it's been a few days. We almost passed each other and I don't think she recognized me much either. So I think I'll just start taking pictures with girls I meet. We get the froyo and immediately I'm giving her some light kino around her shoulder and sides. I really wish I pushed for more now. She licked in between two of her fingers when she got some froyo on them, so I made a joke about her eating out girls, light kino and said "If you're into that, I know some girls we can involve ;]"

We eat our froyo on two separate chairs; wish I could have kino'd more. I ask her to tell me one interesting thing about herself unrelated to her job or her beauty. Turns out she's studying zoologist veterinary. I tell her about instruments I play. We keep talking and it turns out her life mirrors mine in a string of hilarious coincidences. We went to the same high school, she was a year ahead of me, but we had the same chemistry teacher. She moved to the town our high school was in from the town I'd also moved from, but a while before me. This undoubtedly helped me to build comfort. After the froyo we took a walk around the complex and sat on a bench near a closing cafe.

I'd try for some light kino when I could, but was hesitant about doing things like putting my arm around her or pulling her in closer. I tried a half-assed palm read on her, we bothknew I was just joking around but she found it sort of entertaining. I told her some mark on her meant she was lucky cause I had it too and then that some fork on her hand meant she'd have some tough choices in life right now; couldn't really explain any of it, but it gave me a chance to grab her hands. When I was out of bullshit I just said I can feel that she uses a lot of lotion.

When things weren't really progressing on the bench, she said she had to go home because she had a family movie night and her sister is kind of really crazy about it. So I walked her to her car, teased her about having an obnoxious yellow sports car, hugged her and gave her a kiss goodbye.

The kiss makes me realize I easily could have been making out with her if I had just kino'd more.

tl;dr k-closed a number-close, should've used more kino to move further. Now that I know actually right around my age I'm going to take her out again and put more thought into this date.