First FR, long story

Since I discovered Seddit, I’ have been working constantly on my game. My confidence is better than ever, something that had direct impact on the attraction I create. I’m 22 and, incredibly, I lost my virginity last year but I have never kissed before. Anyway, I feel that is going to change very soon. Recently, I met an exchange student. We talked after the classes ended and via email. One day she asked me to please go to a party she was throwing at her house.

Once there, she stayed with me almost all the time. There was some kino (We touched our arms a couple of times), and involuntary touching (we were at a very close distance). She stated how a good exponent of my country I was (she said casually “I can talk deep things with you”). I felt sexual tension.

“All is going well” I thought. Maybe I could see some action later in the night. Suddenly, she asked me if I had a gf. I told her I was single, expecting the same response from her. She then told me about her beloved boyfriend and how she could never cheat on him. I answered by saying that in the same scenario, I could not maintain a LDR, surely ending in an affair with a local. I told her that recently I lost my virginity, going through an “experimental phase” in my life (bad move I know). After a while most of the people -she included- went to dance. The boyfriend thing disoriented me, so I left to my house.

One day I called and told her to have some coffee with me. She agreed to see me later that day. When I picked her at her house, she commented how housesick she was feeling lately. We arrived to the coffee shop and started talking. The conversation went fluidly, the time advanced rapidly. She told me how upset she was because one of her friends kissed a guy, cheating on his bf, without telling her (she saw it), asking for my opinion on the subject. I told her that the situation was understandable in LDRs. This seemed reasonable to her. It was time for me to leave, I had another party later. She offered me to wait at her place (“here it comes” I thought). I accepted and we left. Once outside she told me how cold it was. I, not sure, placed my arm around her shoulder for a second and then took it off (not vey alpha). When we arrived, her roommates where there. She gave me a tour in the house, having some time alone at her bedroom, but it was so short that I couldn’t do anything concrete. After a while, I left.

Days passed and we keep emailing each other. We made plans to have a little chat after classes ended. That day we sat on one of the campus benches (one next to the other) and had a good conversation, with kino (I touched his shoulders to make points and her hands to see if they were cold) and some laughs. Again, I felt sexual tension, but because of my lack of experience I could be wrong. After a while I escorted her to her house, had a good hug a made plans to see us again in the future.

Seddit, I’m not sure on the next step. In one way I don’t know if she feels attraction for me or I am just another friend. The fact that she usually talks about her bf puzzles me a bit.

Thanks!

TLDR: Met an exchange student with a LDR. After some mixed signals I’m not sure what the next step is.

EDIT: grammar