Hi everyone, this is my first post on Seddit although I’ve been doing pick up for years. I apologize if my lingo is fucked up but I’m not someone who has ever been too knowledgeable or attentive to the jargon or set techniques discussed on this forum. One thing that I have taken to heart and you guys have reinforced is the massive importance of inner game and social proof. These concepts are so simple but they take genuine dedication and work to achieve. The upside is if you can develop these, your entire life will massively improve. You cannot convince anyone to bang you if you don’t like yourself. Simple. Well, on to the Report. Recently, my two married friends and their wives invited me to celebrate my buddy’s birthday in Vegas. Being from Miami and doing pick up here every week I can tell you that if you are not hitting on tourists, the local women although beautiful, are some of the toughest nuts to crack and you are constantly dealing with AMOG competition on an insane level. In retrospect, I appreciate the toughness of this scene because once I landed in Vegas it was the first time I genuinely realized how far I had truly come.
Thursday Night; Working the Social Proof:
So, I show up and realize I am a fifth wheel with my two college buddies and their wives. Immediately, I decide to conduct a little social experiment and parlay this into some massive social proof. Thankfully, their wives are cool with this and obviously I am ensuring that I am the Alpha of the five of us. The whole time in line I spend cracking wise telling offensive jokes. Each time I get a glance from a girl in the line I just crack a smile and shake my head in an “are you seriously trying to fuck with ME?” kind of way. (This is not really forced because my Miami mode has taken over and that’s just how you have to roll just to keep up in the game over there). Anyway, between me holding court over the four of them and being the one bachelor of the group I can sense my value rising and the interest is just shooting through the roof. So we are in this very popular and packed Vegas club having some drinks at the bar. No wingman tonight just me and my married friends. After a while I decide to break off on my own to see if I can pick up any IOI’s, on the floor. I never dance on the floor when I first go on nor do I ever grind on a girl before getting her attention. I kind of just make my way through there, head up, cocky smirk, swagger. After about two minutes I lock eyes with this very cute HB8. After locking the eyes I lean in and ask her if she’s having a good time? My response is always well now you’re about to have a better one! She’s up for the challenge and after minimal kino and chatting we’re dancing. Turns out that she’s at a bachelorette party with 9 other girls, bad news as I have no wing and they are ready to pull a CB.
As we’re dancing I’m escalating kino as fast as I can, and trying to pick up on her frame and anchors. I’m an above average looking guy but personality is a good talker but funny as hell with healthy dose of crazydon’tgiveafuck. Everything is falling like dominos- Social Proof Time. I bring back to the bar to get a drink, introduce her to my married friends who think I am the greatest in the world and tell her how I need to find a good woman etc, etc. I can feel my value rising in her eyes and am thinking this is too easy.
What happens next I owe to Seddit posts on Cavemanning reminding me not to think and just do. We’re talking at the bar and just start making out from one word to the next. We go back on the floor and beast is loose, and it’s getting to the point where we are just dry humping out there. I probably could have had her out of there sooner but the friends and the good time I was having delayed things a bit. If anyone has good systems for closing a girl out of a club/bar consistently let me hear them because this is an area where I go off the rails sometimes.
Luckily this club was in the same hotel I was staying in and I was able to pull her out with minor protests about her friends and it was a wrap.
This was pretty eye opening experience for me. The first thing I learned is Vegas is an easy fucking place to get laid. More importantly though, is the importance of hitting on all cylinders personally, feeling good, dressing good, being alpha, doing alpha things, I never wear cologne or really shower right before going out (maybe the morning of). Much thanks to Seddit and PUA community for helping me to refine these things, I look forward to learning with you guys. Pts 2, 3, and 4 to come.
