Background: I'm living in abundance now, and lately only been doing new dates from girls that contact me online.

Meet up with HB, she has gift cert and is buying me sushi. (score!) Great at verbal back and forth, shortly comes out she just started stripping a month ago. This brings out my A-game as I've dated strippers before and delve deep into that world before cutting it off with "No more work talk", once I showed I was competent in her world I wanted to avoid talking about it as that is what most guys would probably stick on. We are already doing inside jokes about things customers say, etc.... inside jokes setup a great vibe.

Bounce to bar/club, she kino's me during move and I accuse her of using her stripper mind tricks on me. Later playing with hair and other IOI. I talk about tricks she should be using on customers(like all the subconscious IOI), she hadn't heard it before. Smart girl, I'd like training her as a dancer even as friends. She flips out when I tell her about my spinning stripper pole at my place.

Mistake #1: She has already claimed to be exhibitionist, but when holding hands she wasn't as into it(squeezing, rubbing with fingers, etc) as I'd like, so I avoided kclose in public. I should have flatout said "So how big of an exhibitionist are you really?" and pulled her in for makeout inside the bar.

Mistake #2: When at her car making out, get to her neck and she starts with "I'm not going to just stand out here necking in public". I continue for a bit and pull off, when I should have said "Bullshit you said you like being watched, I bet you would love it if I bent you over the hood and took you right here". Missed opportunity.

Mistake #3: After declining my offer to come back to my place with "I'm a nice girl you aren't getting me back first night" I shrugged it off and let her go. I should have laughed that off, brought up some stories she told me and started direct sexual talk. edit: and should have played up "you are cocky thinking we'll be having sex, maybe I wanted to show you my whatever collection" playful frame. I believe another 2-3 minutes talking could have broken through this.

Now, why wasn't I pursing more aggressively? I had my fav FB texting me, about a 3 blocks away, who was about to hook up with her friend. I txt back just in time when they were half a block from his place. Right outside his place she gives some bad excuse and leaves him, meets up with me and hops in my car back to my place. I doubt you are on here, but if you were the guy I cockblocked, sucks to be you...