Hello fellow sedditors. Just a few weeks ago I found out about seddit. I was familiar with the game and the ways of picking up girls, but never practiced it myself. Don’t know why, I think I was just happy the way things went.

Background info

I’m single for 10 months (after a relationship of 3 years), turning 27 this year, and I’ve decided it’s time to settle down and find myself a girlfriend again. I know this HB8 for a long time, but only recently I started to have interest in her. HB8 was together with a friend of mine for 2 years. But that ended a year ago. Both my friend and HB8 have had relationships and dates after that. She’s single for 5 months now, and repeatedly made me clear she’s looking for a guy (don’t know for LTR or one-night stand, she likes both but I don’t think she wants a relationship with somebody she has a one-night stand with, so it’s tricky not to fall into the one-night stand).

Field Reports

3 weeks ago

We went to a 90’s party with a couple of friends and so was HB8. Also my friend (HB8’s ex BF) was there with his new GF. They start making out at the bar, and hen the DJ plays a slow romantic song. HB8 asks me if I want to dance with her, and I did. It was a great intimate dance, closed with a big hug after it. This dance certainly triggered some emotions. We have a few drinks and laughs after that and the atmosphere was great. No closing, but certainly escalated out of the friend-zone. This night I got interested in HB8 for the first time.

2 weeks ago

It was Easter weekend and we both needed to work in the weekends, she’s a waitress at a bar/club, and I was DJ’ing at another bar/club in the same town.

Friday

After work I go to her bar/club and see her on the dancefloor. We chat for a bit, and I asked her if she knew what ‘Eskimo-kisses’ were. I explained what it is (rub noses against each other), and she smiled and told me she wanted to try it. I Eskimo-kissed her real slowly and romantically. I could tell HB8 enjoyed it.

Saturday

After I’m done (work), I go with a couple of friends to her bar/club. I saw HB8, stepped to her and chatted a bit. We Eskimo-kissed again and chatted some more. It was clear the bar was closing pretty soon. HB8 tells us she needs to clean things up, and if we could wait for her. We go outside and we wait for her. My friends were thirsty and quickly moved on to another bar. I waited for 10 more minutes and then HB8 comes out the club, asking where the others were. I told them they were gone. She was going home, and asked me if I wanted a ride home. When HB8 arrived at my place, I told her I wanted to ‘eskimo’ kiss her again (I know I shouldn’t have asked for permission). She says yes, and started Eskimo-kissing HB8, but immediately started kissing her on the lips (K-close). She doesn’t flake and even kisses me back. Then I told HB8 that I’m a little bit in love with her (maybe not so smart), told her goodnight and if she could text me if she got home safe. I’m laying in bed and text her to thank her for the ride. HB8 texts me back she did it with pleasure (very much actually) and arrived safe at home. I was a bit drunk this night so I don’t remember all the details.

Last week

After I kissed HB8 (last week) she increased the amount of texts she sends me during the week. At first it was like once or twice a week, now it was a couple of messages every day. Asking me what I’m up to, showing some interest in me.

Friday

During the day HB8 texted me what I was doing, and what I’m up to tonight. Together with a couple of friends HB8 and I go out, nothing really happens besides some ordinary chatting. A friend of mine (who is in a relationship) however also shows interest in HB8. They seem to get along with each other, and I didn’t knew what to do (not really Alfa). I was afraid of HB8 reaction after I told her I loved her a little bit (too soon, showed weakness, not Alfa …) even though she IOI me with texts.

To be continued!