Continuation of earlier post!

Saturday (Queens Day)

Together with HB8 and 6 other (male) friends, we go to a Queensday party. We have some fun, chat together and HB8 is checking out the locals. I ask her what HB8 is looking for in a guy, and responds with a list of characteristics I all have (must be older and higher then her, …) A friend notices this and says out loud, well then only he remains (referring to me). We chat a little bit more, and suddenly I see a HB7 checking me out. I step up to her and we chat a bit. HB8 sees this along with some other friends and they all started chatting with HB7. I moved out and had fun on my own and with others. After things cooled down I saw the opportunity to chat with HB7 again. I told HB7 she was checking me out, and she told me I was doing the same. I asked her straight away if she was single. HB7 responded positively and I responded with: “maybe not anymore after tonight” and HB7 smiled. HB7 told me she was leaving soon, so I asked her # and facebook profile. Just before HB7 leaves, she comes up to me, and we kiss (K-close).

HB8 must have seen this, because as soon as HB7 was gone, she comes up to me and started to Eskimo-kiss me (I know its childish, but it works and it’s our thing), followed with a real long kiss on the lips. This is the first time we’re making out in public in front of all my friends. We make out some more; have a few laughs and beers.

Now this friend of mine (I told you earlier about) sees this, and moves in. He’s showing interest in HB8 and chats/dances with her again. Again I blocked and didn’t knew what to do. HB8 told earlier she didn’t want him for a relationship (too young, has a relationship), but the guy is good looking and really Alfa (maybe she wants him for a one-night stand). I didn’t see it, but that guy told me later on he kissed her 3 times that day. When this guy is around HB8 sometimes completely ignores me. As the day went by, we moved on to some other venues and while we walked I hold hands with her, touching her shoulders, her back and her butt. She never flakes and we make out regularly.

We enter a bar/club and we dance around a bit. We talk to some local girls, and have some more fun. I sit down for a few moments and then HB8 lap dances me. HB8 grabs my hands and goes to her boobs with it. This was very enjoyable. Didn’t knew how to respond so I just acted cool.

On the way home we sat next to each other and HB8 talked about how she wanted to have her own place, but that it is hard if you’re on your own… When HB8 drops me off at home, we make out again. And then (drunk as I was again) I asked her: “How do you see us evolving?”. HB8 answered with: “Don’t ask difficult questions”. This was not the response I hoped for, and left the car, after saying goodbye. (I know now I shouldn’t have asked this question)

I text her asking her if she was serious, and that I didn’t want this to be some one time only thing, because I really like her. HB8 responds that she just didn’t know it right now (to me this was more ensuring then “don’t ask difficult questions”) and HB8 didn’t know if other things might be happening between us. But in the same message she tells me she likes me too. I answer that that was more positive and that I would give her the time she needs (I seriously doubt this was a good move??).

Sunday

I wake up and realized I did something stupid the other day. Shouldn’t have asked HB8 that ‘difficult’ question and I should certainly not have asked her if HB8 was serious about it. Asking myself what to do, I texted her I enjoyed going out with her and she texts me back she enjoyed it too, and tells me we should do this more often. I decided I better let the initiative to her.

Just a few hours later after deciding this, I receive a message from HB8 telling me she already thought of me 50 times today. So I replied that she must have had a good day then. HB8 responds positively and tells me she’s counting down the hours of her last day of work before her vacation. I messaged her right after she’s done working that I wish her big fun on her vacation.

Situation now

HB8 left (last) Sunday night on vacation and is coming back tomorrow. All this time I haven’t contacted her (I promised her I gave her time to think, and decided I should let the initiative to her). During her vacation I got an invitation for a date from the HB7 I met during Queensday. I accepted, because she seems fun, and maybe this could trigger something with HB8 (it did so in the past).

What to do next

This is my problem; I don’t know what to do next. I really, really like this HB8, and I want a relationship with her. This HB8 has given me some IOI, but it’s not in the pocket yet. HB8 is coming home from vacation this tomorrow night, and I’m going on a date with HB7 this Saterday.

When HB8 is coming home from vacation, she’ll be home alone for a whole week. HB8 told me things will need to happen (referring to sex) because she can’t hold it any longer. HB8 didn’t mentioned she wanted it from me, it was more general like: “I hope someone can fuck me, because I need it really bad”. You can tell HB8 hasn’t had sex for some time now. Off course I hope I would be that guy. But can’t seem to figure it out if HB8 wants a one-night stand or a LTR.

Please advise me on what to do next: Should I ask her how her vacation went, or should I wait till she tells me herself. What if HB7 is really interested in me, should I go further with her, or hold it off. Should I ask HB8 on a date, or should I wait until she hears about the date with HB7 and see how she responds? Should I try to escalate things (and maybe force her although I promised I would give her time), should we just hang out together and hope we make out some times, have fun and work things up from their…?

TLTR

I know a HB8 for some time; just recently interested in each other (out of the friend zone); K-closed a few times; think I fucked it up a bit; HB8 knows I’m interested and in love with her; met HB7 and have a date with her; don’t know what to do next?

Lessons learned:

  • Girls love Eskimo-kisses (great move to escalate it to making out too).
  • didn’t knew about seddit till 2 weeks ago and acknowledged it could help me a lot
  • started out pretty good, but couldn’t keep my act together (a bit drunk, and overly in love)
  • I can point out what went wrong, but I need to learn to foresee this, needs to be more Alfa
  • although I fucked up a bit, I don’t think it’s completely lost
  • I consider texting less and calling more when HB8 is back from vacation

I really want an happy ending for this(both in a sexual way and a fairytale way), please advise...