I'll try to make this brief.

I just moved to a new city and joined a kickball league as a way to meet some people. It was one of the girls' birthday last night so a few of us went out to a bar with a live band.

My buddy and I rolled up and she was there with a few of her friends from school. I was being fun-loving and jovial, touching everyone on the shoulder or back and cracking a few jokes.

I ended up getting into a long conversation with one of her friends, an HB8. It was getting loud with the band, so I was leaning into her and putting my hand on her waist/hip when I was talking.

Eventually, I left to get another drink at the bar, and she walked over to talk to her friend. After getting my beer, I headed over to the two girls, and started talking to her friend. I think my target was a little jealous that I was talking to her friend, who was a little bit hotter, but less receptive. My target went to check out the band, and I continued talking to her friend. When HB8 came back she went hard with the IOIs (she grabbed my hand and grinded on me for a while, and even started to unbutton my shirt in front of her friend). My one regret was not isolating her right then.

She told me she had to leave. I grabbed her wrist and asked, "Why?" She said that her friend had to go, and that she would see me on Thursday, since she was playing in our kickball game this week. I said goodbye and walked away.

Seddit: What did I do wrong? What should I do when I see her later this week?