Is it (generally speaking) good technique or alpha behavior to steal girls who are dancing with somebody else if you know you can get away with it? What if the girl is someone who you have closed before?

Here's the story. One of the first girls I closed using PUA techniques is HB7. We have made out a couple times and been friendly. She was clear that she didn't want a relationship (I'm like :) and her reasons are good). I had an awesome party at my house and and got her to come. Before she showed up I was flirting and kinoing an HB8 and another HB7 (who was pretty attractive).

When original HB7 shows up, I flirt with her and take her around the house to different groups of friends and have a good time. We are kinoing and flirting like crazy. I also deliberately leave her a few times to go check up on the other HB8 and HB7 to make sure they are having a good time. My goal is to close original HB7 again, but those other girls were cool too.

This is a house party, so as it gets later people start dancing. I grab original HB7 and have some awesome dances with her for like an hour. I then excuse myself to take a piss and on the way get distracted by HB8 and I end up # closing her right there. I think HB7 saw this and something happens when I come back she's dancing with this other guy. I'm like "that's cool", and I grab the other HB7 (who is better looking than original HB7 from an objective point) and I dance with her for a while. We are really close to original HB7 and her new friend and end up sending each other flirtatious glances. I touch her arm a couple times while we are dancing with other people. (I think this is really hot)

I # close my current HB7 and then go over to the first girl and basically steal her from her dude. She is really getting into this dance and has her face really close to mine so I give her a quick kiss which she likes but doesn't want to continue down that road. (I'm not a fan theoretically of kissing on the dance floor, but I was a bit tipsy). We dance for a few songs and then break up again. When I come back the other dude is dancing with her again but I notice a new HB8 flirting with me so I go for that. This happens for a song or two but I'm not really into HB8 so I go find the cute HB7 and dance with her for a while. It starts getting late and I'm still flirting with the original girl a bit so I go steal her again. This time I make eye contact with the dude and he basically gives me a thumbs up with his eyes. I'm feeling super alpha right now.

I dance with original HB7 until the cops show up cause we're too loud. Since it's my house, I have to go talk to them. HB7 was just talking about wanting to go and I was going to walk her back to her place, but then I have to go talk to the POPO. When I come back she leaves with the other dude! FFFFFFFUUUUUUUUU!

She sent me a very long text (that I don't really understand) like 30 min later about how she's sorry If I think that we're exclusive and that it was too much to steal her when she's dancing or kiss her.

So it was a pretty cool night for me as a newbie to close (and impress) so many girls. It was also really hot but really strange and a little awkward with original HB7. I don't really know what or anything I should do to keep things going on with her...