So, I've been an Avid reader of Seddit for some time. I've picked up things here, and pointers there. I've come far, and believe that I have increased my self-esteem by leaps and bounds. I've grown accustomed to talkin and starting conversation up with strangers, but seem to only be able to start conv if we are in a class like really close to eachother, or if I'm working (but that never leads up to anything).

So, to start off, how do I start conversation on the Approach?

and second, I've recently started dating a persian [HB9], and I really like her. The problem is, I think I may have acquired a bit of an abandonment issue after getting let down by my long list of disappointments and heartbreaks... I have the CRAZIEST urges to talk and hang with this girl all the time. This has happened many times, and it always seems to push them away... Luckily, I've been combatting my nasty habits, and its working. But its not easy. Is there anyway to a.) either make the girl wanna hang out more often, or b.) distract myself from thinkin about hanging with her.

Thanks