Hookup/Seduction: Big city vs Small city

intjpua · 2011-06-09T17:15:23+00:00

Smaller towns are harder to get laid in, because there are fewer places where quality young women congregate looking to meet men. I travel full-time. I know of what I speak. When I'm living in small towns, I can go weeks without getting laid, because I just don't meet enough girls that I would want to have sex with.

You have an attitude of scarcity. There are men in your city who are in sexual relationships with a half dozen women, and bang a new one every couple of weeks. Some men have harems, some men have none, and some men have the one high quality woman they want. Which one are you going to be?

The competition may be stiffer in bigger cities, but women in smaller towns tend to get married earlier, have kids younger, and are no longer on the market, so I suspect the numbers are giving you an inaccurate picture. Another thing I've noticed is that smaller towns skew much older demographically. I'm currently in a small town, and I'm the youngest person in my neighborhood (there's a beach nearby, so I'm not too fussed by that). Also, the fatness in small towns is...frightening. In my experience, larger cities are where you are most likely to meet young, attractive, educated, non-obese, women.

I lived in Houston for many years, and while I had no game when I lived there, I still managed to get laid now and then, and with very high quality girls...thinking back on it, actually, Houston was where I experienced my best pre-game lays. Also, the only 10 who ever approached and flirted and pursued me was in Houston (I left her alone because she was engaged, but I've felt like a retard ever since).

In short, your theory is bunk, and is based on incomplete information (age and quality of the girls, in particular). Big cities are the best possible place to meet the best women. If you aren't meeting women, it's because you aren't doing what you need to do to meet them. Expand your social circle, get more aggressive in your game, go out more often (try the Montrose area; good clubs, a lot of the men are gay so less competition for the girls, all the jocks are over on Richmond getting wasted on Jaegerbombs listening to shitty cover bands). I think the Heights area was coming up, last time I was there, as well...Rudz and Fitz are over that way aren't they? Those are pretty good laid-back bar scenes with good live music.

puaCurveBall · 2011-06-09T19:27:49+00:00

Your chances of scoring should be basically 100% wherever you are, once you have studied all the material and put it into use improving yourself.

If you want asian girls, move to a big city like SF that has a huge population, going smaller won't help.

You are not in competition with 100% of men. Once you understand women, you are only in competition with 5-10% max of men, there are plenty of women to go around.

Title	Hookup/Seduction: Big city vs Small city
Author	dotnetrock101
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Date	June 9, 2011 4:16 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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