Hoping not to be too much of a Debbie Downer, but I think writing about this will help me. Anyway, wife and I have been working on this HB7 for a while. We had her over a few weeks ago, and wife and HB7 hooked up, but then HB7 freaked out when I got involved. I chalked it up to being too drunk (we were). HB7 just got out of a relationship with a really bad dude who I think was abusive but, anyway, I know she's been sleeping around a lot (which is normally a pretty big turnoff, but I really want to fuck this chick for some reason). So, she's been doing that and the other night her and my wife went out to the bar. They made out in the bar and stuff, but then HB7 went home with some dude at 1am (my wife felt pretty rejected that night). Apparently, that night, HB7 told wife that she liked wife but not me (I can't understand this, I'm damned attractive and very masculine). We had her over last night and were all getting hot and heavy (I was focused mainly on wifey), but HB7 resisted and then said to wife "remember what I said on Thursday?" (presumably a reference to her not wanting to hook up with me). So everything cooled down and she eventually went home. Before that, I indicated to her that she was impeding our good time (sex between wifey and I) and asked if she needed a ride home, to which she replied "no." When she left, wifey went outside with her for a second, and HB7 said wifey should go over to her house sometime soon.

Anyway, I felt pretty shitty after that. It's not one-itis. I've got plenty of game and can score chicks pretty well. But it is frustrating to be rejected, and I keep trying to figure out why. I don't think it's my looks or personality (though, I suppose it could be). She's the type of girl who is aggressive and wants to be in control, so I calibrating myself into a very masculine and testosteronized male and negged her all night. She goes to law school with me, but I don't think it's our professional relationship ruining things (I know she's been hooking up with other law school dudes, and if that was it why would she hook up with my wife?). The only thing I have left is that she's fucked up in the head somehow (result of recently getting out of her fucked up relationship?) and is just trying to fuck with our heads.

The thing that really bugs me is that she wants my wife, but not me. It's kind of insulting, ya know? My wife and I are in an open marriage, but we are sensitive to each other's feelings. We have both decided to freeze HB7 out at this point (acknowledging that whenever HB7 is involved, one of us ends up feeling shitty and rejected). Anyway, I have this weird urge to "get HB7 back" somehow. I don't know why. Feels stupid and juvenile a little, I guess. Still, I think I'm just going to neg her from now on.

Anyway, if someone could give some advice or say something to pick up my spirits, that would be cool I guess. Sorry to be such a downer :)

Feel free to ask any more questions about the scenario, too. I'm just chilling this morning.