What are seddit's thoughts on girls' vague (but specific) FB status updates?

bluehat9 · 2011-07-12T17:19:50+00:00

I think you are overthinking this. True, those status updates would lead me to believe the girl might be a bit dramatic/attention seeking, but more importantly, you shouldn't be reading this much into her facebook, if at all.

ThrowawayPUA · 2011-07-13T03:16:24+00:00

Those are just examples of women pinging each other, looking for empathy and validation from other girls in their social circle. They're fishing for Likes from their friends. Ignore it. Even if you think you're the subject of their vague rant, you're probably not. Even if you're certain you are the topic of their rant, you're not the subject, you're the object of the rant. This is a subtle distinction. The subject is a search for validation from other girls' Likes, you are just the object they use to seek empathy from their peers. It's not aimed at you.

Tyl3rDurd3n · 2011-07-12T17:32:37+00:00

My personal advice is even if these messages are to you, steer clear of this girl. If she's using veiled facebook status' to talk to you instead of actually communicating like a normal person, she might be crazy. How ever, if you'd like to pursue more power to ya.

Title	What are seddit's thoughts on girls' vague (but specific) FB status updates?
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Date	July 12, 2011 4:53 PM UTC (15 years ago)
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