Woman here, obviously feel free to delete if not allowed on this sub.

I’ve been exploring a bit into TRP philosophy, and while there are some extremist view points I find comical, it overall seems pretty sound - I’ve actually been pushing my husband in this direction and urging him to take the lead in our relationship as he was once very passive.

OVERVIEW: Husband and I have been together for 7 years, married for one. He has always been a solid 9, whereas I went from a 7 (skinny fat average girl) to a 6 (weight gain) to an objective HB9, possibly even 10 as many objective parties have told me. People often joke with my husband that I’m out of his league, but I think we are pretty on par. Both lift religiously, are nutrition freaks, and to top it off I always ensure I look my best for him (hair, makeup, nails, breast augmentation after weight loss, etc).

CONCERN: He was a virgin when we met both due to being shy and simply not having the desire for randos - he prefers an emotional connection. This is great and I was thrilled with the non existent partner count. Yet, I am also concerned that this will come to be an issue years down the line manifesting under the “grass is greener” cliche.

SEX: We have great sex every day, sloppy blow jobs every day, I wear skimpy clothes around the house and embrace my femininity and sexuality around him. He has conveyed he has no curiosity for other women. The man stopped watching porn altogether 2 years ago after I got super fit, had my surgery, and essentially took my SMV to an insane level - his reasoning being that porn stars just don’t do it for him anymore as he prefers extremely fit, buxom women like the one he has and that’s literally 1% of the female population. Never had an issue with porn, but I have to admit it is flattering knowing he realizes what he has. I feel just as lucky.

TO OBJECTIVE PARTIES: We both frequently get IOI’s from other men and women whilst out, but have made kind of a game out of ignoring them. It’s fun to bust ego’s. We are an alpha couple. We look alpha (talking 1%-of-the-global-population-level fit), we command attention when we walk into any room both due to striking appearance and our cool, confident demeanors.

RELATIONSHIP: We’re best friends. Game together. Lift together. Same sense of humor and rarely argue. He’s an engineer for high security government projects and I’m an account / project manager for one of world’s top 100 companies. We are both insanely ambitious. In our relationship, I like him to lead, but at times he likes for me to take the lead as well. There is overall an excellent balance. I pick up the slack where I can and he does the same while leading us. We are a team.

After 7 years things are still great and getting better. I just want to know how I can keep this up on my end, especially given that he has no experience prior to me. While I know I’m one of the best HB’s in a pretty wide geographic stretch, I still worry that curiosity will hit him one day or a midlife crisis will be experienced. I see a lot on this sub about creating dread and spinning plates, and while I know he would have no issue pulling women, I do also know for a fact he’d have to crawl over broken glass to even find another woman on my level in all senses - almost anything would be a downgrade.

Men of TRP, do you have advice for a wife / woman in such a matter? Given my current efforts and dedication to maintaining high SMV, what are the odds of him stepping out eventually due to this inexperience? How can I continue to keep him as happy as possible and his attention on me?

Thank you in advance, and my apologies again if this post is not permitted.