Just out of a relationship and new to all of this. Really intrigued, but need some help.

ehbeeseedee · 2011-08-05T04:42:52+00:00

Opening a women merely involves initiating a conversation with her.That's what opening is. Some sides of the pickup community use canned openers; some don't. Really, it's up to you. If you're new to the pickup community, you'll notice this - people have different ways of doing things to the point where they're almost willing to insult one another.

Walking up to a woman and opening her is the same way you would go about doing anything in life: with confidence. If a math teacher gave you a math equation to solve, to be truly successful, you'd ignore all external obstacles around you, run the problem through your head, and find an answer. That would be, of course, if you are confident in your math skills. If you aren't, you might dodge around the problem a little bit, procrastinate, ask others for help, etc.

What I'm essentially getting at is that pickup is like every other thing in life. You should get in there, take out any obstacles imposing stress on your success, and get out with your solution. It's that easy. Judging by the way you're asking, though, I think you should just get more comfortable with talking to people, especially the opposite sex, in general.

In the pickup community, reading should be about 20% of what you actually do. On top of that, don't take what you read as an excuse to find problems with yourself. Never do that. I see people all the time fall into that trap when they pickup this material. There is nothing wrong with you. Everyone has their own game and their own state of mind. Take in the material, absorb it, apply it, but please don't use it to make yourself feel bad. Remember to act on it; self-improvement without strategy is meaningless.

2011-08-05T09:41:35+00:00

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Title	Just out of a relationship and new to all of this. Really intrigued, but need some help.
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Date	August 5, 2011 1:49 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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