Hey there!

I would say that my phone game (in respects to attracting) is pretty good. I try to stay interesting and the time in between responses gives me a chance to write the 'right' reply to a girl.

My phone game was enough to get a girl to go out with me. However, an AFC part of me still stays in that I want a girl to say she misses me, and all that mushy shit. I feel validated when that happens, but when it doesn't I feel rejected and have the temptation to freeze out immediately, even when the situation doesn't call for it. The girl I'm going out with is good looking and is pretty secure. She is my first girlfriend thanks to gaming.

My question to you is, should I aim to be changing my frame of mind, not looking for validation from the mushy stuff? My real life game is pretty decent.

Also, any tips on phone game in general? I was pretty surprised at this response:

"I'm not gonna sit around and wait for you to make a decision on something you already know you want. If thinking about it is enough for you, cool. I'm over it."

because I thought it might come across as reacting badly to being rejected, but like I said, this is my first relationship and I'm pretty green.

(from here: http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/jk4ld/fr_be_the_prize_part_3/)