This weekend I'm going up to Vermont to party with my older brother and his college buddies (including girls). I'm going to try my hand at these college broads, and given I'm only a senior in HS, I'm looking for some of your thoughts on how to go about bridging age/maturity gaps. These girls are (arguably) more mature than I am just going from age. And I'm just trying to think if there's a different way to go about hitting on them.

This also applies to guys in their 20s-30s hitting on cougars and such.

I have two main things in my head:

  1. You have to be on your game to make yourself a viable option rather than the 'younger guy'.

OR

  1. It's okay to fuck up and just be, for lack of a better term, sloppy. It really isn't that much different from normal game.

I'd like to hear what you all have to say about this. Much appreciated