Fraternities and Sarging (xpost from UniSeddit)

2011-08-29T01:07:27+00:00

I feel you. It's tough having to forge a genuine identity and personality and to have to relate to other people in a normal, human way. What can we do to relate to women without our database of found material and pre-prepared negs? Are people really going to hold us responsible for our actions and what we say and do to other people? Who do they think they are?

JoeyPockets · 2011-08-29T06:21:04+00:00

Forget all this gambit type shit and get out of your own head. This is the easiest time and place to meet girls of your entire life. They've pre-selected you and your friends as cool enough to party with. All you have to do is reach out and take the candy. Looking back, my advice:

1) Work the fuck out! It is so easy to put on fat when you're drinking beer and eating like shit. You probably won't even really notice for a while, but it will have effects on you physiologically and obviously on your raw attraction.
2) Keep your grooming and hygiene up and dress slightly better than your brothers. Sometimes it becomes cool to not give a fuck, let your hair get shaggy, throw on a wrinkled shirt and slouch around the house in flip flops getting sloppy drunk. Don't be that guy. Be sharp and well put together.
3) Have a compelling narrative about what you're studying. Not "I'm a business major" but "I want to learn everything I can about entrepreneurship because my dream is to open my own whatever one day." Don't say you think you want to go to law school, everyone says that.
4) Smile, look into her eyes, and listen to what she's babbling about. Like you said, you're going to see these girls again. Remembering that she wants to go to Vet school will get you major points. Err on the side of not "blowing out sets." JMHO.
5) Do embrace a lot of the inner game and kino stuff that is broadly applicable. Don't do magic tricks or over the shoulder opinion openers.

I don't know, I could ramble on for pages. As someone who went from fraternity life in the south to the business professional scene, so much of this PUA stuff is just not realistic or necessary. Don't try to put together a formula for getting from A to Z, work on yourself instead and the rest will come. Seriously, though, go to the gym.

2011-08-29T02:16:33+00:00

I'd say it's mindset.

Look at the frat parties as an opportunity to make up some new fun shit and learn your friends' moves. So you can't play the same games and throw out the same negs every night - that's cool. Now you'll be forced to get off the book and test out some new stuff. If it doesn't work, then you're just being goofy or drunk. If it does, keep it.

Speaking for myself I can say this: by the time you get done with college, being in a fraternity environment will have really given your game a leg up. It's like social boot camp - you will get good at meeting people and talking to them.

The best part about the frat setting is that anything goes. Enjoy that while you can.

Title	Fraternities and Sarging (xpost from UniSeddit)
Author	TheGuyInAShirtAndTie
Upvotes	2
Comments	3
Date	August 29, 2011 12:28 AM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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